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After just having a couple of hours of my sweet time wasted, I'm gonna contribute by saying I'm DONE with people who aren't upfront about a kink they want and won't compromise or drop. I don't know why sprinkling bits and pieces of that information throughout a convo is so common. Does it ever actually make anyone more likely to go along with it?
 
'Rape her until she loves it' and 'forced pleasure' scenarios for how ridiculous and unbelievable they are. Even as fantasy.

Self-proclaimed writers of 'independent women' whose characters never actually do anything independently.

Those who confuse contemporary reality with 'slice-of-life' and think the two synonymous.

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Rambling multi-thousand-word posts that wouldn't lose any pertinent information or detail if cut down by four-fifth's.
 
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Blood/gore. I dont fancy bloodshed not in a sexual way at least.
Furry and futas that don't look that human, or agree with the standard of beauty.
Also I hate cheating partner and cuck setting. Gangbanging one girl doesn't appease me either, not even mfm threesomes.
 
Well, some of the kinks I don't like have already been mentioned but here I go.

Harems/Reverse Harems: I will say something a woman doesn't expect to hear from a man "I don't ser myself fucking on a daily basis with more than one girl". I don't like when people regardless of their gender want a lot of other people to have sex with and have a sexual party only for themselves. I don't like it. Too many guys or girls fucking with only one "chosen one" nah, not my thing.

Gangbangs: This was a really frequent kink ammong girls on reddit. I don't know about many people but I don't see myself fucking a girl with someone else, or fucking a girl someone else has just fucked a while ago. In my country we call that chicha steering...yeah I don't consider that very hygienic, it honestly grosses me out more than scat. If you like it, fine. But don't force it on me.

Cucking: This is almost the most frequent thing I warn I am not into and still i get people asking "Are you okay with a cuckhold rp?" No. Read my post, I am not! I am not comfortable with anyone watching me while I fuck someone nor watching a couple fucking, even less if that person is someone significant to my, from a loving sister or a friend to a girlfriend. Why would I like to watch them being fucked? No way! And I would find creepy having a random person watching me fuck my gf, that's for sure.

Cheating scenarios: I really, really dislike them. They are a major turn off. These plots are like "I am married with an asshole but for any reason I don't leave him. I want you to fuck me" but some go even further and pretend to ruin a seemingly perfect relationship just for the sakes of your selfish personality. I don't mind what gender my partner is, cheating is just wrong. And there is people that is so shameless about cheating scenarios that they try to convince you with poor arguments such as "It is not cheating if nobody knows" or "It is not cheating if everyone knows". No, simply no, I have characters that are different from each other but they agree with me, they won't wreck a relatiinship for any reason.

People that says having a male feral animal fucking your holes is acceptable bestiality while a consenting feral female is not: When we come down to roleplay this is also something more or less normal, I even have done so "bestiality" scenarios with TALKING animals, most of them dragonesses and pokemon (as I really like the bond a rider and a dragon can acquire and pokemon can get a bond with their master no person could match). Yeah I know I will get judged here but it is only on roleplay roleplay. Anyway, just as the cathegory says; I find it a bit hypocritical when people are into bestiality, and even want you to play a whole bestiary of existent and non-existent creatures, when you ask them to do something similar for you they refuse and say it is not acceptable. My reaction is "Ok, you like bestiality when it is om your favor, but when it is on someone's else it changes completely and it is taboo, right?"

Rape/Non-con: As many. I cannot roleplay something in which one part doesn't want sex and fucking a girl until she loves you? Yeah, not realistic and not enjoyable.

Blackmail: Not to kinkshame anyone but I find lazy to base an scenario around blackmailing. The whole concept of theatening someone to give away sensitive information to have them as their sexual slave makes me think there isn't much plot aside sex

Plots based solely around sex: Yeah, there may be a lot of people into just the "fun part" but I don't find it amusing when the whole roleplay is just focused on sex. I mean there are more things to do "together".

When someone takes their freedom to tell you exactly the chsracter you are going to play: I have a decent variety of characters, different personalities, heights, body builds and interests. I don't find it amusing to roleplay with someone's else character. For example "Your character will be the muscly and popular quarter back on his highschool team. He is irresponsible and likes to drink a lot" eeeeeh, no! Let me decide who will I roleplay as. How am I supposed to roleplay a quarterback when I don't know about football? *kicks the ball and scores* is all I could write, I don't know.

People strictly into hypercocks: Let's be honest, size matters and I know that, the pleassure a big meaty rod can give you is not the same a tiny wiener will attempt to give you. I get it, but have you really had a REALLY big cock inside you? Yeah I don't find unrealisticaly big dicks a thing I enjoy. Specialy when on their own fantasies my bigger character (down there) is considered small. Alright so a 18.5 centimeterd cock is small, ok...

I mean I would get it if we are playing as characters with a completely different size, for example if my partner is playing a giantess I'd understand...but a 1.60 meters tall girl? A two feet long cock will definitely break you...

The cock standard on furry fandom: I love furries or anthro characters, but I just hate the standards. A normal sized cock is considered micro, a big cock irl is small. You must be at least 30 centimeters down there for people to say you have a big cock in said fandom. No thank you, so much blood down there will surely make me faint or have heart insufficiency.

Extremely vanilla people: not so common but it is really boring. Only vaginal sex on the missionary pose? Yeah, not my stuff

Doormat submissives: There is just not much to do with them

Having to play a despicable character: Some people is into this and they tell you to play an excessively dominant guy who would beat the shit out of their characters, rape them, abuse them, treat them like garbage...nah. I am a very romantic and caring person, I don't want to harm my partner. Perhaps some light bdsm here and there, but nothing too harsh.

Tentacles: never understood the hype about them

School roleplays: I am already in college, having to study. Why would I study with my character?

Overly sexual female characters: I would understand an insatiable sex drive if you are playing a dragoness or any beast im general in heat. But if your character is constantly craving sex every 5 minutes it can be any race but will make me feel sorry about them.

Girls with excessively big tits: Yeah, I have friends and I know having such big tits can give you back pain...LOTS of it. I find it lacking of aesthetic when your boobs look bigger than they should be.

And the list goes on X3
 
Indeed! They are some others I am probably forgetting. But those are amongst the ones that turn me off the most :p

Oh. I also hate when people play mute characters to have an excuse to write only a few lines: I understand you may find romantic playing as a mute or deaf character, I also find it romantic as well and have no problem with that but there is something called sign language if I remember well. You can communicate through signing with your hands and state what your character wants to say. I just don't like it when people plays such characters to avoid putting effort into the rp, even writing vague sentences in terms of actions and feeling
 
I was honestly obsessed with mute characters a few years back, but mainly characters that were selectively mute (I think that's what it's called). It's definitely more of a challenge and they have to be pretty expressive and proactive for it to work.
 
Getting real tired of people who just don’t list their kinks. Every single PM I’m sending out lately has to ask that. Yeah yeah I get you want story but unless you want zero smut, we have to be compatible on what that smut should be.
 
Deante said:
Getting real tired of people who just don’t list their kinks. Every single PM I’m sending out lately has to ask that. Yeah yeah I get you want story but unless you want zero smut, we have to be compatible on what that smut should be.
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That is also bothersome. When a prospect writes an amazing plot and it is implicit there will be some smut but alas, there are no kinks whatsoever on the post. I understand, pal.
 
The thing which gets to me is when some people get a bit ‘single issue’ on their kinks. I have nothing wrong with catering to people’s preferences because I want both of us to have a fun rp, but occasionally there is just one person who mandates something, refusing to take no for an answer and needs it to be incorporated in every scene.
 
Holiday said:
The thing which gets to me is when some people get a bit ‘single issue’ on their kinks. I have nothing wrong with catering to people’s preferences because I want both of us to have a fun rp, but occasionally there is just one person who mandates something, refusing to take no for an answer and needs it to be incorporated in every scene.
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Honestly that fits the medical/psychological definition of a fresh: that someone can’t get aroused without the thing.
 
Seeing people take time to brag about how skilled of a writer they are. You don’t need to tell me how good you are at writing. I’m literally reading something you’ve written. The worst part is that more often than not, the people claiming so are average to below average. Which is fine, I might add. As long as you can keep the posts understandable, it’s fine not be Shakespeare. But seeing this bragging and talking down to other writers on the site really rubs me the wrong way.
 
Bull Daddy said:
I'm not at all into anime characters. I prefer to go by written characters with realistic features, or face claims. Anime characters just disconnect me from the RP almost entirely.
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Saaame.
Worst is sending me one for my character, showing you didn't read my thread, and saying "her skirt can be even shorter if you want". No, why?
 
My main kink is obvious, and the list is a short one derived from the base love. I am open to most things, especially in RP, but the thing I cannot stand, besides human filth and baby stuff is a complete unwillingness by some to even listen to what you have said in a message stream. They are so insistent on what they want that they totally ignore what you are trying to say. I also have a difficult time being cut off from a RP....I guess I am still too sensitive and have asked a few times what I could do to be better....like I was being broken up with!! It's at those moments when I really want to slap myself because...does it really matter?
 
Out Of Character aggression. I've had people get extremely aggro with me for politely turning them down. I've also had a few people send me story proposals that kick off with negging - when I see even a hint of a red flag on the periphery, I'm out before a story can even be discussed, I just don't have it in me for mean-spirited stuff these days.

That, and non-consensual slave storylines. Super not my jam.
 
Budgie said:
Out Of Character aggression. I've had people get extremely aggro with me for politely turning them down. I've also had a few people send me story proposals that kick off with negging - when I see even a hint of a red flag on the periphery, I'm out before a story can even be discussed, I just don't have it in me for mean-spirited stuff these days.

That, and non-consensual slave storylines. Super not my jam.
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I never have gotten aggressive or anything like that. I am trying to improve my writing and have asked for tips that might help make me better. But, as with most things, I guess bad interactions make people head shy and I would hate to be the cause of that towards others on here. So, even though I posted that I ask, i dont belabor the point...I am learning to just let it roll off my back. I appreciate your perspective though.
 
Oh yeah. Some guys think they can talk to girls like Kylo to Rey (the reference). No.
 
I dont know if I ever got to that point...but I certainly can see it happening. Respect and regard for others doesn't stop at the firewall!
 
latexwyo said:
I never have gotten aggressive or anything like that. I am trying to improve my writing and have asked for tips that might help make me better. But, as with most things, I guess bad interactions make people head shy and I would hate to be the cause of that towards others on here. So, even though I posted that I ask, i dont belabor the point...I am learning to just let it roll off my back. I appreciate your perspective though.
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Oh, hey, that one wasn't aimed at you, no worries. If someone were to earnestly ask me the reason for saying no, I'll typically be straight-forward about it. Most of the time when I turn down a story, it's because it's not my thing, thankfully the negative experiences are comparatively rare. That said, I also try to avoid ghosting anyone, as I know that's unpleasant for all parties.
 
Cylian997 said:
Demons: I find most people who use demons as a character type are doing it for the edge and the coolness factor because their character actually lacks anything interesting and that just turns me off. The same goes for angels as well; both seem like a pretty bad character device to try and make a character interesting.
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Too much yes to this. Part of why I got into demon characters at all is because I was massively disappointed with humans that had dark theme, wings, powers and edge.
 
Rape/Non Con/Drugged/Hypnotized/Manipulated/Forced etc - I find it far more interesting when a character is doing something that challenges them with full knowledge and consent. When I think of the above scenarios all I think of writing is "And she was forced to the ground as he raped her..." ummm yeah, not a lot of longevity for a plot there. Is my partner also going to play the Police Officer, Nurse, Doctor, Rape Counselor, Lawyer for the aftermath?

Werewolves/Shapeshifters/Zombies/Demons - Please point out where I have mentioned any of those in my RT?! Yet I still get people coming to me "Hey I love your idea about the married couple. How about we make my character a Shape Shifter?" ummmmm how about I just block you?

Weird body transformations - No, my character won't have ZZ Cup breasts or a tail.

Anime/Manga etc - Just no. Sorry, can't take it seriously.

Fandoms - Not into being restricted by already established worlds and characters. Also, I am not into anything enough to follow it properly anyway.

Being a fuck doll - The type of RP where the Female character is just used and abused.

In general people who just try and shoehorn every kink or fetish they have into a plot whether it suits it or not.

Misrepresentation - People who say they want Story but then only write or talk about smut.
- People who claim to be "Literate" but then write one liners.
- People who claim to like your plot idea but then proceed to try and change everything about it.
- People who say they are in agreeance with the plot, story arc etc and then when play starts they go off on their own tangents.

Caveat - Generally I go for story line more than anything, so I do have some ideas which may include a couple of the above mentioned things but they are done with some kind of twist and more interesting back story and characters.
 
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People who claim they want switchy or dominant women, but it turns out that's not what they want at all.
People who can't handle a woman with agency.
People who claim they want to do fandoms, but don't know the fundamentals of the world they want to have it in.
List goes on.
 
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