he blinked at her a little confused about her sudden backtracking, he figured he'd figure it out later. "well, maybe they are." he agreed with a chuckle and a shake of his head, amused. "we ill practice, it will be glorious." he admitted happily before beaming at her, delighted that she was impressed. "the best part is that it can double as a sex toy!... well, once i figure it out." he admitted. "Extremis allows me to us my mind to connect to electronics you know, but it's a struggle. i haven't had enough practice and i'm supposed to control all the nanobots at once so that's well beyond my current capabilities." he admitted with a shake of his head. "but i'm getting there." he admitted with a bright grin, letting out a 'oof' when he was punched, not because it hurt but because he expected it to. "i know right?!" he asked with a grin, leaping to his feet and flexed a little, the gold shifting with him. "there's no weapon attachments, but this is a self defense suit, not a save the world suit." he admitted. "it beds with me perfectly. look, see?" he proceeded to twist himself into a pretzel the same way that Bruce did, proving Tony really had been working very hard to make sure he was not the weakest link in the Avengers. granted, everyone knew he'd been taking lessons from Nat, Clint and Bruce but not even those three where sure how seriously Tony was taking them. Steph no knew just how serious Tony was about learning to defend himself. he paused when he got a message and flicked his phone, his head tilted. "oh! well, Laura, Cooper, Lila and the nw baby are coming back to the Tower." he admitted with a smile. "this is gonna be epic. i'll have to get rooms set u for them. what do kids like?" he wondered. "ponies right? little girls like ponies and... uhm.. football?" he muttered. "Friday! start researching what kids like and order stuff for some new rooms!" he ordered.