Another UK person here (Edinburgh), I'm...well, I'm now into my 40s and male, with the strangest tendency for scoring as female on psych tests, playing females online and hetro RL tendencies. I like latex, high style and imagination - and pony girls.
I suffer - term used deliberately - from ADHD and a (perscribed) dependency on opiates causing sleep apena, which I'm waiting for the NHS to take seriously - in practice, it means I don't work, I'm usually exhausted, and about the one certain thing to give me a dopamine hit is ERP. Suffice to say, given my partner caught Corvid twice in the last two years... it's been an arse, and - as I'm sure everyone else has experienced, we've all withdrawn a little into our own worlds. So my long term partners have become busy, or parents (!?! We have four lizards, that counts?!) etc and I've come to see I'm going to need to meet new people.
I've been on this site before, but meeting new people isn't exaclty my forte, but life takes you to the strangest of places... so here I am...