he smiled a little at her and shook his head. "oh Sabrina yu poor silly, nieve thing. you think that people get to be like Steve and Tony just because they're born that way? of course not. it's like riding a bike, writing, flying a kite, sex is like everything else. you don't just know how to do it, you have to learn how. someone has to teach you how. your husband expected you to just know what to do and that isn't right." e admitted, gently brushing his lips against hers. "it's like soft kisses. you have to learn how to move. how to breath. how to touch." he whispered against her lips. "and besides. i don't have to have sex with you, to be in love with you. don't you know? there are two Submissive that i've helped that don't have sex at all and they are deeply, madly in love with their partners." he admitted. "they have never had sex, and never want or need it and they live just as happily as any other couple. so if we don't like the sex, that's okay. why don't we try, and see how it goes." he offered. "maybe i won't like it. maybe you won't like it, but that's okay because we can work together until we find something that we, both of us, are happy and content with. please. just try? would you rather try, try, and try some more until it works or have the regret for not trying for the rest of your life? don't let fear rule your life. don't let fear ruin your life. try living, with me. just try."