"Welcome to being a girl, partner," Jana said, hands behind her head as she laid on her back to stare up to the ceiling. "...Look, every boy wants to do that. It's not weird, or creepy...the only thing that makes it weird or creepy is how they present it, or what they do to get it." She couldn't exactly say every girl felt the same way, of course. But girls generally enjoyed sex too, on their own terms. You could probably put a vagina in a box and a man would be happy forever.
"But remember who you are, too." Jana mumbled, her voice taking a slightly distant quality. "You're Mei Akiko Wolfe, you're not just the Ice Queen because of how you act, you're the Ice Queen because you're damn scary in a fight. That matters. You can make your own comfort zone."