Guilty. This may be one of the most common causes of role-play failure, other than abandonment, and partners disagreeing as to kinks. But if we're allotting culpability here I must admit that I am a truly flawed partner and leave it at that.
Have you ever played "Truth or Dare" in a venue not ostensibly suited for that activity, dodged brickbats from Management, and whistled a happy tune over the incident?