he nodded. "yes. i have to remain in full control of my functions at all times. except for when i'm sleeping. when i sleep, the fire sleeps too, but it'll rise up and attack anyone it thinks might be a threat." he admitted. "that'll happen when i'm sick or hurt too. my fire almost has a mind of it's own." he admitted with a smile. "no, Tony doesn't know. if he knew he'd feel all guilty about it." he admitted. "which is why we aren't going to tell Ton, agreed?" he asked with a smile before shaking his head. "no, he didn't. he's what i like to call a 'backyard Dom'. he does it, off and on because it's 'cool' and because he likes to hurt people and be hot shit. he doesn't have a damn clue what he's doing, doesn't know the etiquette and doesn't now how to properly care for a submissive, i'd wager he doesn't even know what a submissive really is. for him, it's just someone who likes to be hit and take his cock, he has no idea how submission really works and how fucked up he can leave a person doing the things he does. unfortunately, someone like you, who is a rank beginner, won't be able to tell the difference between an asshole with a whip and a real Dom." he admitted.
"after that fifty shades of crap book came out, the BDSM lifestyle became 'cool'. unfortunately so many people have flooded the 'market' so to speak who have no idea what they're actually doing. because of this, a lot of people get hurt, traumatized or even raped because they don't know the boundaries or the rules." he admitted. "i have to save a lot of people from themselves." he admitted with a huff. "most of them are kids. in your case, i'm pretty sure he took advantage of your naivety regarding BDSM." h admitted. "while he could just be a Backyard Dom, he could also be a predator, someone who actually looks for beginners s he can do whatever he wants to them. if only because they won't know how to say no or how to get help." he admitted before nodding and grabbing her PJ's, letting her get dressed before happily heading over to make a much larger batch of eggs than she really wanted. he was starving, he hadn't eaten since lunch. "here." he offered her the smaller portion of eggs. "i used all your eggs, sorry, i'm starving." he admitted. "i'll buy you some more tomorrow."