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Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

I don't see why anybody would not want those cute robots! Loved those pics.
 
I would have to say it's hard to find someone willing to pair up with someone who wants to play a female hermaphrodite that's fertile both ways. Able to leave a bun in someone's oven or catch on a surprise event that she gets topped by a male/herm/futa in the story. Generally my character is a female chaser XD

Also eggs versus babies is another rarity many will accept.... it allows a bit more control in certain scenarios to avoid a baby population boom and then the story gets muddled... Depending on the route taken to address the potential population boom. lol

Such as Dragon Anthros, or Reptilian Anthros of the sort. Even some demons or certain monsters... can't expect a normal birth all the time. lol
 
For me, NTR, or specifically a variant thereof. To be specific, where the end result of the girlfriend being stolen is not guaranteed. Where there is darkness and corruption, and innocence is definetly lost, but they can come out stronger for it. Or the relationship breaks into a bazillion pieces, and likely the girl's sanity with it, reduced to something akin to total nymphomania. In general finding someone who is cool doing the middle ground that my little kink is. Either more into just straight NTR or not into NTR at all. I mean, its no fun if we know exactly how it will end.
 
I totally get the submissive thing as well, since I mostly play subs. My IRL personality does not lend itself to getting into a dom role at all, sadly. Or not sadly, it's just difficult to find partners who are willing to have a male sub, who technically is stereotypically supposed to be a dom due to the sport he plays.

But as for the pregnancy kink, that's something I've had for a really long time. I can't do it IRL, and yes I am a female. Just factors going against me is all I'll say. I just live vicariously through my characters, whether it's mpreg (which is really difficult to find a partner for) or regular female pregnancy. Like I probably mentioned, I do agree that it's not everyone's cup of proverbial tea. I understand that it's not always going to happen, despite my inner self like 'Dang it' but I try to be as respectful as possible, and see if there is a way to compromise so both of us still end up happy in some way. I strive to make people happy, I don't like being sad and I know no one else does either.

And I am hoping I'm coming off as respectful instead of not so much, I don't intend to have it as a my way or the highway type of thing. I will listen and happily discuss things.
 
Murder. It's hard to find someone willing to murder my character. I've found two people that were willing to work with the kink. One we actually made it to the murder. The other one never got that far. It's a hard sell. I can find people willing to rape and torture. Murder just doesn't go over well.
 
AndNich123 said:
Murder. It's hard to find someone willing to murder my character. I've found two people that were willing to work with the kink. One we actually made it to the murder. The other one never got that far. It's a hard sell. I can find people willing to rape and torture. Murder just doesn't go over well.
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I was doing a serial killer scenario, I played murder victims and accomplice to murder was in progress at time the scenario hit pause. The scenario was also rape and then murder as I only do murder, if rape leads to it.
 
Mots2020 said:
I totally get the submissive thing as well, since I mostly play subs. My IRL personality does not lend itself to getting into a dom role at all, sadly. Or not sadly, it's just difficult to find partners who are willing to have a male sub, who technically is stereotypically supposed to be a dom due to the sport he plays.

But as for the pregnancy kink, that's something I've had for a really long time. I can't do it IRL, and yes I am a female. Just factors going against me is all I'll say. I just live vicariously through my characters, whether it's mpreg (which is really difficult to find a partner for) or regular female pregnancy. Like I probably mentioned, I do agree that it's not everyone's cup of proverbial tea. I understand that it's not always going to happen, despite my inner self like 'Dang it' but I try to be as respectful as possible, and see if there is a way to compromise so both of us still end up happy in some way. I strive to make people happy, I don't like being sad and I know no one else does either.

And I am hoping I'm coming off as respectful instead of not so much, I don't intend to have it as a my way or the highway type of thing. I will listen and happily discuss things.
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Pregnancy is one part of a plot device I do enjoy. Not so much as a kink but the possibility of it happening because characters have unprotected sex or other deciding factors. Seeing a few others mentioning it is pretty cool especially when it seems like pregnancy is some kind of very rare off limits type of thing.
 
Hapto said:
Rape that isn't rape.​

So, my personal kink is dubious-consent / pseudo-non-con, which for the uninitiated is all about blurring the lines between 'no' and 'oh gods yes!' I love creating fantasies to overpower an intially unwilling victim with pleasure, usually pouring in fantastic elements like sex-monsters, magic, technology, aphrodisiacs, or all at once, all to drown the other character in so much pleasure and so much lust that, eventually, they loose the will to fight and submit entirely.

The problem is that the moment you apply this kind of mindset to the real world you start getting disastrous - seeing similarities with lines like 'she wanted it really', 'she was asking for it', etc. Morally and legally, sex without enthusiastic consent is rape, as it should be. Yet here I am saying how my kink is working away at 'no' until it means 'yes.' Danger Will Robinson, Danger!

This is a big part of why I write such fantasy-heavy roleplays, creating scenarios that are so far fetched, so impossible, so overtly different from reality that they could never be taken as a reflection of the real world, which makes it easier for me to be comfortable with having psuedo-non-con NOT be rape. But the difficulty is finding other writers who know the distinction.

On one side will often write with partners whose characters will say 'no' for about 3.1 seconds, then immediately start shouting "YES!" To me the thrill is in the challenge, in overcoming their strong will, having to go to ever greater heights of pleasure and denial, lust and want, all so they EVENTUALLY give in, not just play lip service to 'no' then jump on board. Worse is on the other side, where have writers whose characters never give in, and keep saying 'no' no matter what, which may well be realistic, even admirable, but it isn't an enjoyable fantasy for me, because then it just makes it straight up rape, which isn't something I want to write fantasies about.

So on one hand have characters paying lip-service to 'no', and on the other hand have characters who will keep saying 'no' till the police arive. Finding the rare few writers in between those extremes is my ongoing challenge.
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I just want to say that I disagree with the sentiments expresed here. I believe this is one of the most dangerous and harmful ideas that has permeated society and I feel morally obligated to vocalize my diagreement with it.
 
HasturTheKing said:
I just want to say that I disagree with the sentiments expresed here. I believe this is one of the most dangerous and harmful ideas that has permeated society and I feel morally obligated to vocalize my diagreement with it.
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Man that's kind of a low blow, and I say that as someone who shits on cuckolding and ntr stuff constantly (though mostly for jokes and giggles). Singling someone out like that is fucking shitty. Like c'mon bruh.
 
~Honestly i'm a fan of the whole 'Dom Bottom' x 'Sub Top' kind of thing.
When it comes to MxM pairings, or shit even some MxF stuff, the whole Dom Sub thing is pretty much static. Doms have to be the Fucker and Subs have to be the Fuckees (so to speak).

But c'mon, a femboy who loves being in control and teasing and messing with the helpless top. That sounds hot as hell
 
If it pleases your highness not to write in yellow, as us lowly peons who use the light theme cannot make out the words.

Prince Nero said:
- Gender transformation stories. I'm super thankful for the few partners I have that are willing to indulge this kink of mine ^^
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As I am for mine :)
 
Oh dont get me started. .

And it should be easy for me I'm looking basically for female sub.

The problem is that I'm looking for villainess and everyone seems to want to play some sort of pure hearted innocent soul and I dont really enjoy being sadistic on that type of person.
I'm like. ." Yes I can do all those things you are looking for just give me a reason to"
 
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I guess I'll respond.

While I sometimes find takers for it, I've yet to do any poly/harem rps that don't crash and burn in a week's time. It also doesn't help when I find players who offer that sort of thing... But, if you're not a futa character, then they won't talk to you.

Often, I hear the problem comes from having to play multiple characters. Rather, players get the impression I expect them to play an entire cast of characters while I just sit back and wank, which doesn't really sound like fun, really. Though, I did have one instance on F-List where this person offered to play a harem of Disney princesses... But, she also expected me to keep a harem of 20+ characters. Anything less was considered "too small" for her taste. I mean, what am I opening an emporium?

Now, what I've begun doing is offering to double up and/or take turns, as well as create the characters along with my partner. I like the intimacy of making something with someone, and I feel it's a good way to build chemistry with someone. I also like to give my partner the same freedom to be creative. Lately, I see a lot of interest threads with the OP straight telling the player what character to play, rather than presenting a scenario. If you've basically thought up someone's character for them, why not just write a book?

But, now I'm just ranting
 
Mistersilly said:
Oh dont get me started. .

And it should be easy for me I'm looking basically for female sub.

The problem is that I'm looking for villainess and everyone seems to want to play some sort of pure hearted innocent soul and I dont really enjoy being sadistic on that type of person.
I'm like. ." Yes I can do all those things you are looking for just give me a reason to"
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From what I understand, it could come from a state of sexual repression; In some places, women have this expectation to be a pure virgin who's practically asexual and are just expected to lay there while the man goes to town and pump a baby into her. Oh, and if she enjoys any of it, she's now a worthless whore, consent be damned. So, the rape fantasy is a way for them to get the kind of sex they want, while being absolved of all the imposed guilt that comes with it.

While I don't agree with this mindset, and rather engage in sex fantasies that focus on relieving this imposed guilt and helping the girl find the confidence to enjoy her sexuality; I at least understand where it's coming from. But, it's not really my place to judge how someone gets off. It'd make me no better than the same prudes who tell women they're not allowed to have a sexuality.
 
HasturTheKing said:
I just want to say that I disagree with the sentiments expresed here. I believe this is one of the most dangerous and harmful ideas that has permeated society and I feel morally obligated to vocalize my diagreement with it.
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I absolutely agree with you.

The way that sex, rape and consent (or lack there of) are shown in popular fiction creates extremely dangerous narratives and attitudes towards consent, not to mention the many unhealthy romance tropes that I daren't get into here. Enthusiastic consent is sexy, and fiction needs more of it.

All that said, one of my interests is sub-dom scenes in kink, and the kinds of psychological and emotional powerplays in such scenes are what I hope to convey and explore in the fictionalized settings of my work. However, it is absolutely not fair to make a straight comparison between consensual kink and dub-con fantasies - even (especially) in the most extreme sub-dom kink scenes there absolutely should have been explicit negotiation beforehand of what both parties expect and want to happen in the scene, exactly what activities will and will not happen, any health issues or psychological traumas to be aware of, what safe words can be used to slow or immediately stop the situation, etc. Being submissive to someone is all about trust - you are trusting someone with absolute power over you, and that trust is conditional on you knowing the person and knowing for certain that they will not abuse your trust, that you can stop things whenever you want and that you are not in any real danger, all of which is required before you can enjoy the thrill or pretending to not be in control.

These kind of thrills and dynamics are what I want to explore in my writing, and historically I've chosen to do that through dub-con fantasies without prior negotiation nor explicit consent, which is problematic to say the least. I am always careful to show the character's internal mindset, making it explicit that they are genuinely into it and want things to continue, contriving the plot to give them one or more chances to escape that they choose not to or hesitate from taking, and never once having them be in any genuine fear for their safety. BUT even that has it's own inherent danger, as while in fiction I can explicitly show what someone is thinking and feeling inside, in the real world you can never know exactly what someone is thinking and feeling from the outside, and presenting fantasies and narratives suggesting that someone could be secretly into it despite what they are saying or doing externally, and that them choosing not to stop things earlier is equivalent to consent now, is fucking dangerous!

It's an ethical mess, one I constantly struggle with. I live in hope that I can write positive narratives in this genre, while remaining painfully aware of all the many problems that come with writing stories that fantasize a lack of explicit consent. I hope that being aware of those problems helps me to lessen the negative impact, but I absolutely agree that the dangers inherent in this kind of writing can and should be called out.

Fiction doesn't exist in a vacuum, and cannot evolve without good faith criticism. So thank you @HasturTheKing - I'd be happy to discuss this with you further either here or via DM if you'd like, as I feel the more perspectives I get on this the more I can try to avoid my writing being actively harmful.
 
Prince Nero said:
- Submissive males versus anything. Most females and MxM writers here want to write the submissive/bottom role ;-; This is even harder to find if you're looking for bdsm/pet/daddy play, and actually want deep story writing that explores more than pure smut and fleshes out the characters and the power dynamic.
- Gender transformation stories. I'm super thankful for the few partners I have that are willing to indulge this kink of mine ^^
- Verbal humiliation that revolves around emasculation, sexual prowess and alpha male worship.
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I agree submissive male feels difficult to find partners for, I don't know if there is a larger active submissive community to overwhel the Dominate roleplayers, or if the Dominate roleplay communicate is that small. Most times I move to a Dominate role just to roleplay with someone who has a good idea, rather than abandon it. Though if you can find switches and can avoid ghosters some people will start a new story as reversed roles.
 
azkerg said:
some people will start a new story as reversed roles.
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Let me share a story.

Some time ago I negotiated a story on Elliquiy with a prospective partner. We had similar interests (namely, transformations) but both preferred to be on the receiving side. So I suggested we split the story: I will GM for her the 1st part of the story (in which her character gets transported to a naughty version of Wonderland) and then we switch and she GMs the 2nd part (in which my character joins hers).

The 1st part went great. I wrote a story, fleshed out NPCs, had both an underlying plot and side "distractions" full of naughty fun for my partner. She did not contribute much to the story, but I didn't expect her to -- I set up the playground, she just played in it.

222 posts later, I wrapped up my part, tied up loose ends and handed her the reins for part 2. Unfortunately, she wasn't really interested in it, and it fizzled. In retrospect, I should have done better due diligence, but I was excited about the game and didn't pay attention to the warning signs. Not that I am too miffed about it, GMing was a good experience for me and, well, sometimes things just don't work out as we expect them to.

The moral of the story: make sure that your partner is able and willing to reverse roles before you commit to the arrangement.

Incidentally, I now have three partners who GM for me without expecting anything in return other than my best writing, which I happily provide, and a couple more that share a story with me, taking turns in managing the plot by breaking the story into logical "chapters".
 
Lurker said:
Let me share a story.

Some time ago I negotiated a story on Elliquiy with a prospective partner. We had similar interests (namely, transformations) but both preferred to be on the receiving side. So I suggested we split the story: I will GM for her the 1st part of the story (in which her character gets transported to a naughty version of Wonderland) and then we switch and she GMs the 2nd part (in which my character joins hers).

The 1st part went great. I wrote a story, fleshed out NPCs, had both an underlying plot and side "distractions" full of naughty fun for my partner. She did not contribute much to the story, but I didn't expect her to -- I set up the playground, she just played in it.

222 posts later, I wrapped up my part, tied up loose ends and handed her the reins for part 2. Unfortunately, she wasn't really interested in it, and it fizzled. In retrospect, I should have done better due diligence, but I was excited about the game and didn't pay attention to the warning signs. Not that I am too miffed about it, GMing was a good experience for me and, well, sometimes things just don't work out as we expect them to.

The moral of the story: make sure that your partner is able and willing to reverse roles before you commit to the arrangement.

Incidentally, I now have three partners who GM for me without expecting anything in return other than my best writing, which I happily provide, and a couple more that share a story with me, taking turns in managing the plot by breaking the story into logical "chapters".
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Reminds of something that happened to me on f-list. Short version someone had a somophilia thing and I wrote a long post about my character banging hers while she was asleep.

She absolutely loved my post... and then she just stopped talking to me.

It's annoying when you run into people who come to sites like this expecting people to entertain them. It's worse when they have an ego about it
 
I have this thing I'm kind of into and like... Well I dunno if I'd call it a 'kink' per se, possibly a story element if you want to look at it that way.

'Domestication.'

Now that's not a petplay term or anything like that, it's more the idea of taking a badass character, and then having a sort of fluffy romantic relationship where they retire from adventuring and become a spouse. Most notably it's meant to be a consensual shift. I find it's most interesting with badass women, but I'm not against it being done with men.

I dunno, guess it's just a weird relationship dynamic I really like but never see mentioned all that much. If at all, really.
 
WanderingBlackDragon said:
It's annoying when you run into people who come to sites like this expecting people to entertain them.
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Oh, I absolutely expect my RP partners to entertain me.
It's just that I an willing to make the effort to entertain them in return, and even in advance.

The problem with having uncommon kinks is that you have to compromise quite a bit when looking for somebody to help scratch your itch, and you end up kissing a lot of frogs until you find a prince/princess (if you're lucky).

Off topic: I remember your nick from E, nice meeting you here.

MellowYellow said:
'Domestication.'
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Just ask for it. It sounds like a scenario that many guys would like to play.
 
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