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Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

I find it hard to find a few things:

Cheating/Adultery with strong female characters
MILF/Mature Women - Very hard to find people to play Older Female to Younger Male characters.

I have quite a few plots, from Incest to Teacher/Student type of things, but nearly impossible to find people to play the female roles.
 
I'm that weird person that can't do mom/son pairings unless it's as fucked up as it would be in real life or under odd circumstances that are explored psychologically. So it's not really that the kink is hard to come by, just that I'm picky lol
 
Somewhat reposting from another thread but -

Polyandrous/mmf relationships, with the men also having a relationship.

Premature/"overexcitable" ejaculation, especially from a virginal male.

And I know that this is subjective as hell, but I dunno how else to put this... writing as and writing against characters that aren't attractive? At least not conventionally so. People seem to think "ugly nerd with hot cheerleader" means the dude has glasses and that's it. (Though I don't really want to be out here using the term "ugly"). But I don't even want the imbalance of one character HAVING to be a supermodel or something. Why can't two normal looking people enjoy each other?
 
Caligula said:
I'm that weird person that can't do mom/son pairings unless it's as fucked up as it would be in real life or under odd circumstances that are explored psychologically. So it's not really that the kink is hard to come by, just that I'm picky lol
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I think it is boring when people want incest RP and then proceed as if the whole thing is no big deal. Surely the fun in this (creatively speaking) is exploring the taboo aspect and how and why these two relatives decided to cross the line/what it feels like etc?

gob bee said:
And I know that this is subjective as hell, but I dunno how else to put this... writing as and writing against characters that aren't attractive? At least not conventionally so. People seem to think "ugly nerd with hot cheerleader" means the dude has glasses and that's it. (Though I don't really want to be out here using the term "ugly"). But I don't even want the imbalance of one character HAVING to be a supermodel or something. Why can't two normal looking people enjoy each other?
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I like exploring things from different angles and characters. The idea of mismatched characters is interesting, whether it because one is hot and the other not so much or is just more normal looking etc. I do tend to get put off by face claims where the character is like a supermodel even when in reality what the character would be is more normal looking. I do find more normal looking people more appealing overall. I like that realism.
 
Alien said:
I think it is boring when people want incest RP and then proceed as if the whole thing is no big deal. Surely the fun in this (creatively speaking) is exploring the taboo aspect and how and why these two relatives decided to cross the line/what it feels like etc?


I like exploring things from different angles and characters. The idea of mismatched characters is interesting, whether it because one is hot and the other not so much or is just more normal looking etc. I do tend to get put off by face claims where the character is like a supermodel even when in reality what the character would be is more normal looking. I do find more normal looking people more appealing overall. I like that realism.
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I. Love. Consequences.
If it's not fucking them up in the head and having them question their lives then I don't want it lol. Or even if they're so far gone that they don't think it's wrong, I still don't want it to be easy for them. I've had an RP where a twin brother and sister basically had to lie about him never having a sister so they could live together and start a family (there was so much more weird shit going on with them though, I doubt they'd ever be happy in the long run).
 
Alien said:
I think it is boring when people want incest RP and then proceed as if the whole thing is no big deal. Surely the fun in this (creatively speaking) is exploring the taboo aspect and how and why these two relatives decided to cross the line/what it feels like etc?
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My view on it exactly, any time I had someone with "interest" to do any incest plot, it was all just 'yeah lets just do it, fuck it'. Even if a plot were to be that they might just get too heated with each other over an argument/playful banter, drunk, or whatever, there would and should still be some heavy burden on 'oh god what have we gotten ourselves into?'

It's no different than one of my kinks that's as non-existent as any in where people just want characters to have sex and... no real consequence to think about, at all, not even the idea of one or both character trying to make an effort to avoid anything coming from it.
 
Caligula said:
I. Love. Consequences.
If it's not fucking them up in the head and having them question their lives then I don't want it lol. Or even if they're so far gone that they don't think it's wrong, I still don't want it to be easy for them. I've had an RP where a twin brother and sister basically had to lie about him never having a sister so they could live together and start a family (there was so much more weird shit going on with them though, I doubt they'd ever be happy in the long run).
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LunarStar said:
My view on it exactly, any time I had someone with "interest" to do any incest plot, it was all just 'yeah lets just do it, fuck it'. Even if a plot were to be that they might just get too heated with each other over an argument/playful banter, drunk, or whatever, there would and should still be some heavy burden on 'oh god what have we gotten ourselves into?'

It's no different than one of my kinks that's as non-existent as any in where people just want characters to have sex and... no real consequence to think about, at all, not even the idea of one or both character trying to make an effort to avoid anything coming from it.
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(In response to both of you above) Yes. Whether it is something more simple like a young couple where the woman decides to prostitute herself/do porn or something more major like incest. I want things to be difficult, I want it to be a big deal. I want to explore what goes through the characters minds, how it affects them. Writing smut scene after smut scene is a sure fire way to get me to ditch the RP.

One odd one (for me) at the moment is the idea of 2 straight men who have been paid to perform a sex show with each other in front of a small group of women. I'm not normally into MxM but I like the idea of the tension they would feel as well as the performance aspect. It would be a shorter RP but I think there is a lot of scope for exploration too.

Most of my ideas revolve around some kind of dilemma and what if exploration. Some are dark others are lighter.

I tend to enjoy playing against tropes and typical or one dimensional characters for that reason.

I get bored if everyone is doing things for pure enjoyment and there isn't any interesting back story. I am also keen on slow burn type stories where it starts off quite innocent and things just develop.

In a way Story is my kink and I find it difficult to find suitable partners at times.
 
Rudolph Quin said:
What fetishes/kinks do you feel like you can't seem to find interest for?
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I wouldn't say being unable to find any interest for, but certainly rare since they're things someone is either into or not. It's not an interest you can fake and 'go along with', you either like it or you don't.

And even when you do find people who share those kinks, you find them to have very specific desires with them that are different from your own very specific desires with them.

And even after that, even if you do mesh, you find you're not playing characters that work well together.

Speaking from personal experience, there.


Anyway, a couple of odd and rare ones for me:

- Vulnerability / peril play
- Belly / navel play, especially the degrading kind
- Creepy/ugly characters x beauties
- Ryona fixated play
 
Consequences and fuck ups are the best lol.

I do virgin male but not as a dom female or necessarily with someone older (though I'm fine playing someone older as long as she's not a granny type)
 
Naeya said:
- Creepy/ugly characters x beauties
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I completely agree with what you're saying in reference to this specific kink, @Naeya . I find it hard to find a partner interested in these sorts of pairings without it going off in a direction that I'm not crazy about. For me it's not about demeaning the beauty in this scenario as much as it's about that sort of beauty and the beast story.
 
Thirding the Beauty and the Beast (or "Beast") trope. In general, I tend to be a bit more interested in playing against characters with qualities that aren't usually considered attractive, physically or personality-wise.
 
RedRose said:
Some of my characters do watch lol but I would need more than just watching scenes
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Oh so would I, I would need an entire story like with all my ideas/kinks. But to have a female voyeur in some way would be fun.

Female Porn director
Female Strip club manager (male strippers)
Female watches male neighbour through her window
Female photographer

To name a few possibilities and there are plenty more depending on how involved you want the plot and character.
 
Not really specific kinks as much as chemistry. I tread the line for wanting specific things but also wanting them to be flexible via the partner. I find it's easy to find simple agreement and a start. Not so much to see it to completion, eye to eye.
 
Heh. I was too interested in messing with Shouldra (or rather letting her mess with me) to play with Ceraph's piercings.
 
Man it's been years since I ran that game. Has a lot of kinks that could go in this thread like reverse prostitution (you do the sex as payment rather then to get paid) being a good one
 
I coulda swore I answered something like this already. Maybe it was a different topic? Whatever.
Anyway, my biggest kink/fetish (whatever the difference is) is anal sex. But it's kinda hard to find peeps that will indulge that to the extremity of vaginal/oral neglect. In other words: Just straight up butt-fucking.
 
Blood and weapons play. Better yet, weapons play that draws the blood.
It's usually on the "no" list. Alas!

Also, I'm a former tightlacer, and oftentimes people see corsetry in a negative light, seeing it as harmful, uncomfortable, or restrictive or even worse, a mark of oppression. I do occasionally get people who indulge me in writing corseted women, but I have to explain everything, or grimace because it's done wrong. For example:

  • Cutting laces open when the garment is tightly closed unless in dire, dire circumstances. As sexy as this is, that's how you get an unconscious heroine. Also, re-lacing cut corset strings is a bitch and a half. Sure, the garment itself is in one piece, and I like that because corsets are expensive, but as someone who has had to deal with the possibility of having to re-lace with new laces... no. Nej. Nein. Iie. Unless my corseted lady is dying and someone needs to free her torso for some reason, for the love of Melitele, do not do this.
  • Wearing a corset without a liner. No.
  • Overbust vs underbust. Yes, this makes a huge difference.
  • Positioning. A tightlaced lady cannot bend at the waist, there's no way sex is going to be acrobatic in a steel-boned corset that has at least a 6" reduction on the waist.
  • The trope of the fainting corseted lady. The myth that it severely restricts breathing. If a corset fits properly, it should just feel like a snug support garment. In fact, it feels good. Like a hug. It relieves back pain in people prone to slouching or with spinal conditions. If it hurts or you can't breathe, something's wrong. And in those cases it can be remedied with adjusting your lacing gap. No need to completely remove until your body adjusts unless the thing's WAY off in terms of the required hip and rib springs.
  • The differences between overbust, underbust, stays, bustiers, and bodices. Also waspies and corselets. Yes- there is a distinct difference.
  • Corsets. Are. Not. Worn. Over. Clothing. No. Never ever. Corsets are very distinctly underwear.
My recommendation? If you don't know the first thing about corsetry and want to write opposite a corseted character- research is your friend. Same with any period piece. Research the types of garments worn during those periods. Know your history. You're not going to see tightlacing prior to the Victorian period, and even then, it was not the norm.

Really, I could go on all day about this.
 
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