RE: DarkAngel's Ramblings, etc.
Lowest common denominator, my friend. Lowest common denominator.
The ones that say submissives either should, or do have no mind or thought, whether they themself identify as one, the other, or neither, are more accurately the ones without mind or thought. Or, to be fair, they're probably among the majority of people that see something with depth, skim, assume, and spew out a verbal book report as if they've actually seen anything beyond the summary.
It is a shame, but as frustrating as it is, I've come to accept that the lowest common denominator is not an appreciator of the finer things. Let them have their ground beef. A few feet away there are people such as you and I, my dear, and we shall enjoy our steak - marinated in trust, garnished with intimacy, and sprinkled with that special something that keeps it still so delicious the thousandth time you try it.
I try to not let it upset me anymore. Nowadays it's more like I just pity people so dense.
Also, when I saw where you wrote 'Dom(me),' at first I thought you were referring to yourself, Ms.DA. Then, when I realized it? I giggled.