Discuss fetishes and why they interest you?

Mindfuckery is awesome in roleplays. <3

And Graver - I love clothing a lot, too. Nudity is a hard thing for me to really get turned on by, but half-naked, semi-naked, sometimes slutty or even classy clothing can really turn me on because it's like..."What's under there? <.<!"

Yessssss. Clothing is so sexy, and I agree with Hahvoc, it's partially the suspense of it. I love the teasing and the foreplay (which is another amazing thing) that comes with it, though the only thing that's sexier (when it comes to clothes or lack of) would be the 'modest' covering of the breasts and pussy with ones arm/hands/hair.

Rape, incest and anything pertaining to do with Pedaphilia, are all social/mental disorders relating to post traumatic stress caused by a horrible event in someone's life. Not actual "fetishes". Take the act of someone being mentally and physically abused as a child, that child would grow to enjoy this as the brain copes by turning it into something "normal" and something it can enjoy. In most rape cases, the person enjoys being humiliated in a sexual way; having no control over ones body and feeling the deprivation of control.
Incest on the other hand would be turning to someone they feel they can trust 100%, such as a mother, father, brother, sister. This coming after the fact that someone in this selection has sexually abused the other. Thus creating the coping mechanizm.

Pedaphilia on the other hand is a compulsive social disorder. One of pure control and dominance over someone incapable of knowing what is right or wrong. Many of these people become addicted to the feeling of creating an atmosphere for children to become comfortable with them so to take advantage over the child. There is no real sexual appeal for them other then control at the highest level, that is next to killing.

On a lighter note, i agree, clothing is heaven!! much for creative and fun for both partners.

greyfox113 said:

Incest on the other hand would be turning to someone they feel they can trust 100%, such as a mother, father, brother, sister. This coming after the fact that someone in this selection has sexually abused the other. Thus creating the coping mechanizm.

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This suggests that my character doesn't normally place 100% trust in someone she's going to have sex with, and that there are no bad feelings or rivalries within a family that would hinder trust. Neither is safe to assume.

I have an interest in make-believe mother/daughter incest. It has nothing to do with coping with being abused or a fear of real intimacy. I have never been abused and I'm a diehard romantic. The partners I've written mother/daughter stories with are all perfectly lucid and not bawling about past traumas. "That's hot," is what they say. I agree.

Most of the kinks I write about are pretty easy to explain. Incest is not something I would ever want to do in real life, it's only sexy between theoretical people. Anal play takes significant prep, it's slow going and leaves a sting, it can have lasting consequences on the body. Monster girls do not actually exist, as far as I know. Sexy messes are in reality not very sexy, they have to be cleaned up, and basically any kind of food plus a pussy is a recipe for an unseemly infection.

Futas, I like because I'm attracted to women but sometimes want to do something different sexually. What defines a woman for me is far more than what's between her legs, so it's not simply a matter of male versus female. Toys are fantastic in real life, but sort of boring to write about because of how easy and impersonal they are. A gal with an actual cock adds a level of intimacy that toys lack.

I wouldn't consider pedophilia in the way you described it.

It's a mental fuck up that says playing with little kids is sexy. It's not "Oh, I have power over this kid! Lets play Doctor!" No. It's the want to have sex with a child. No more or less. There is a sexual attraction to children because something in the brain decided to focus on that innocence. Kiddie porn doesn't exist because "people have power over children" It's because they think it's hot. Which is just pretty damn wrong to me.

Also - this is getting extremely offtopic with trying to figure out why someone likes something or why something like "pedophilia" which is not allowed on the site is caused by whatever the hell.

So try to get back on topic, thanks.

Exactly Havoc, hence my post. The topics i discussed were meant to show the difference between a fetish and a mental disorder.
So such topics should not really be talked about in here considering they are not a fetish of any sorts.
As someone who studied psychology, i was simply stating a point to help move the thread along off these subjects.
And yes. Pedophilia is exactly the way i described it Havoc. Look it up. It is a power trip and is the main source of the sexual attraction to this. Still does not define as a fetish. Therefore should not be talked about in this forum.

Genasi: You seem to confuse what is role play from reality. I never said people who "write" these scenes out have this problem or enjoy it. You on the other hand seem to want to challenge yourself as a writer and delve into these settings for your character. Has nothing to do with actuality.

Oh, I see! I didn't realize you were making a distinction there. Sorry about that.

Firstly - it's Hahvoc. Secondly, if you'd like to discuss that outside of the Academy with me, go ahead. I've studied some psychology as well. It's not just about a power trip - that's about rape.

Anyways.

HANDCUFFS, bitches.

Geez I was raised perfectly fine and I'm a pretty kinky guy when it comes to all the rape RP's and BDSM's and all that jazz o.o;

I DEFY THE LAWS OF PSYCHOLOGY
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Not sure what all I can add that hasn't already been said. What I would like to say is that, as odd as I might find them, others have a right to their own fetishes, and realize that they may find my own odd as well, and that none are necessarily "better" or "worse" to have or fantasize about. As with everything else in life, it's completely subjective. There may be some things that fall more into morality and what is decided as right or wrong within society, but I still do not believe that makes anyone necessarily bad.

As for myself, femdom has brought a ton of different ideas to mind, a lot of which crossover into other kinds off kinks or sets of kinks, and it's apparent not everyone agrees with absolutely all of them. People have different tastes.

The idea of a futa is not something I was initially interested in; I might say I had a sort of mental block about it. It's something that seems many people like for a lot of varying reasons, but for myself, I think it's the fact that it would be near the ultimate submission to a woman. And yet, like others have said, I'm not so sure I'd be as fond in real life, even if not too terribly different than a strap on.

Incest is a bit more 50/50 for me. It really depends on the characters and plot and just generally what's happening, so it's very situational. Would prefer to have it be an older sister/younger brother type of scenario, as anything involving parents and a child would be too close to child abuse for me.

There is definitely a difference between fantasy and reality, and perhaps a sort of scale going from one to another - on one end you might only want to fantasize about it and nothing more, while on the other it would be something you'd like to try very much. Perhaps somewhere in between or branching off of it would be the option to do neither, and that's ok, too.

Going off of that, I don't know about anyone else, but I don't like to think of myself so much in these fantasies, especially with stuff like incest involved. I would never want to do this with any of my own family members, and I can't imagine too many others who would, as you know them as more than just sex objects. In a fantasy, you're not caught up in every day life or with people you know that would make things just overly awkward. It is a very different mindset.

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Mindfuckery is awesome in roleplays. <3

And Graver - I love clothing a lot, too. Nudity is a hard thing for me to really get turned on by, but half-naked, semi-naked, sometimes slutty or even classy clothing can really turn me on because it's like..."What's under there? <.<!"

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I was just saying something like this earlier to someone. I like nudity but a girl being semi-clothed is just sexy to me.

Recently gotten into a gas mask fetish. Not really gas mask though, but in the vein of the "full head mask with breathing/speaking apparatus on the mouth". Being tortured by a woman wearing that has dominated my sexual fantasies for about a week now. Not sure what it is, maybe the lack of identity, it dehumanizes her but in a "level up" sort of way the way that aliens are "not human"; an incomprehensible entity with unfathomable intelligence. Sinister, cold, cruel and unfazed by my human emotions. Except lower it to a "psychotic human" level just a tad, so that there's a sense of sadistic desire emanating from her, sick and twisted.

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@ Rudolph: I like how ya worded that. Not my thing, but I can understand it.

@ Vanessa: Nah, you're not dull! That is still a fetish, and I've seen plenty of callings for it across the site. Besides, are there certain situations you like to put your characters in for this?

I love the mindfuckery aspect in roleplaying. It is awesome and as a writer I enjoy delving into the mental aspects of it and writing every little detail and emotion.

As to my actual fetishes, I'm not certain that I have any that couldn't merely be considered fantasies more than fetishes. Does being grabbed by a man upon his arrival and backed up against the wall and being taken constitute as a fetish? If so, then that could be considered one of mine.

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Recently gotten into a gas mask fetish. Not really gas mask though, but in the vein of the "full head mask with breathing/speaking apparatus on the mouth". Being tortured by a woman wearing that has dominated my sexual fantasies for about a week now. Not sure what it is, maybe the lack of identity, it dehumanizes her but in a "level up" sort of way the way that aliens are "not human"; an incomprehensible entity with unfathomable intelligence. Sinister, cold, cruel and unfazed by my human emotions. Except lower it to a "psychotic human" level just a tad, so that there's a sense of sadistic desire emanating from her, sick and twisted.

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Interesting description. Reminded me of Morpheus's mask from the Sandman comics.

I would have to say incest does it for me, just due to the shear factor of taboo.
Something you shouldn't ever do, and well..you do it

Mmmh first of all, Futas are a thing of fascination to me and I'm not sure why. I guess because just the concept of someone having the full sexual power of both the best feminine and masculine attributes is damn sexy.

Incest, well it's not my thing, but if others want to then go for it --within roleplay and adulthood. When it touches anywhere near the pedo issue, it's beyond offensive to me.

Fetishes? Loooove roleplaying online and irl. Blood, beatings, torture and powerplays are so hot it takes my breath away. Oh and I'd really like to explore the whole BDSM thing because it looks like amazing fun. I nearly always rp men but if the story idea is interesting enough, then I'll rp a woman.

In the end, fetishes are subjective for each person. As long as no minors are hurt/people killed, then simply be yourself.

I don't get Futa.. plain and simple, but then I also have issues with tentacles and the fascination some have with very large objects and/or extremities going into an orifice either. I also am very disgusted by any idea that someone plays minors, particularly way too young and I will not even name those particular dual fetishes.

One of the fetishes I truly love is mind games, especially as they work on people that love to believe they won't get to them. BDSM is built on them, and noting makes me laugh my ass off than when someone makes the mistake of saying "That doesn't/never will work." I have seen, done, and read enough to know that every mind game works. It doesn't have to work on every single sub or Switch, real life or role-play, but all of them work on people to a point.

I also love power play, training (particularly orifice training, and I say that as anal isn't the only kind), bondage, suspension, and role-play (including character and Cosplay), but especially role reversal/power exchange. Most strong women, especially, want to give that power up to a point, and having done that it is a rush.

I like to be kidnapped and also be forced to strip in front of my captor or captors. I don't know where this came from. The thought of being kidnapped by strangers and then forced to strip real slowly in front of strange men or women just does something to me sexually.

I've always been disgusted by weakness, and had a huge thing for power. When I was six I realized I was afraid of heights, so I decided to climb to the roof of my school and just stare down until I stopped feeling nauseous. When I was nine I realized I was afraid of blood, so I would ask my dad if we could go to the slaughterhouse every weekend for months and I would just sit there and watch the animals die for as long as he'd let me. Over time this grew from an obsession with surmounting fear to a desire to master it, even in others - combining the thrilling, tightening, freezing rush with the pleasures of sex. While typically successful, I have almost had the cops called on me, and I've been maced twice. And in the interest of not being maced again, I now prefer to do things online.

I am weird... very weird. Now I have very weird fetishes. I LOVE FUTA! There is something about breasts and dicks that just... turn me on. I like big breasts mostly cause I do not have them and since I am female cocks... are beautiful.

I also like furries, I am a fan of Jay Naylor. Love his work and love his comics. Great story and lovely concept of people and furries.

So, yeah futa furry and borderline bestiality.

I would never knock someone for their fetishes myself. I have a few I'm sure people aren't into. I am. Such as golden showers. Not sure why but I like it. Same for incest or rape. I'm not sure why I have these but I do.

The big one for me is light bondage with me as a sub. I use to do this rl but lately don't unless my wife is really really into it that day.

To me a fetish should be nurtured not criticized. I came here to this site to explore the fetishes I can't go elsewhere to do. I just hope others can accept that and not judge me as I don't judge them.

emma riddle said:

I would never knock someone for their fetishes myself. I have a few I'm sure people aren't into. I am. Such as golden showers. Not sure why but I like it. Same for incest or rape. I'm not sure why I have these but I do.

The big one for me is light bondage with me as a sub. I use to do this rl but lately don't unless my wife is really really into it that day.

To me a fetish should be nurtured not criticized. I came here to this site to explore the fetishes I can't go elsewhere to do. I just hope others can accept that and not judge me as I don't judge them.

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Exactly! I just thought I was weird for thinking this way thank you so much for telling me its okay. I am content now

I have a huge supernatural fetish. I love it when a person is portrayed with both human and vampire or demon ancestry. I can probably trace this back to my teen years where I would spend hours in total immersion in playing the BloodRayne and Devil May Cry series of games. I found the whole "underdog mixed blood is stronger than purebloods" thing totally badass, and it carried on into what turns me on, lol.