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Discuss fetishes and why they interest you?

I would say my main kink is violence, which manifests itself in many forms. I am a sadist and I would be a masochist in the right circumstance, so the violence can be given or received. As far as the intensity, in real life, I wouldn't want any long-term injuries. Just a half or fully naked boxing match will do it for me or some appropriately performed S&M play. I'm not about to go assault someone just because I feel like it. That's both immoral and has a high chance of turning me off. Outside of that, my taste for violence gets turned up to 11 in the right context. The no long-term injuries rule still applies, but when in a setting with magic or advanced technology, some things that would be long-term injuries would be short term. In a high magic or an extremely advanced setting, even death can be considered short-term and in those scenarios, I become very bloodthirsty while still keeping my moral stances. As with a lot of kinks, context is everything and in the context of such a setting, why not go the extra mile and bend that arm until it goes snap if you already like pain and so does the victim? Why not snap that neck with your thighs if death no longer lasts forever?

Now as to why violence turns me on? I chalk it up to being about power play. Whether it be in a fight or in sex, causing the other pain doesn't just inflict agony, it reminds them of who has the power. Imagine one individual standing over the other victoriously. The victor has cemented his authority as the dominant and the loser must be submissive. It adds more flavor to BDSM. The dominant now has a reason besides "because you want me to be in charge" to be the dominant. Aside from that, there is a certain rush from both giving pain and causing pain. That rush could also be the reason why I like it.
 
I dont really have many fetishes in RL. I haven't had that much experience. But I did get cheated on one time and I handled it so poorly i had to go to therapy. and that's probably i dont like to do anything like Cheating or Cuckolding and NTR.

Though in terms of more roleplay kinks I do have a ton.
The one I always gotta have in some capacity is excessive cum. I love the image of a ton of the goop pouring out of someone's orifice after some good Dickin' down. This also counts in Cum Inflation.

I guess if I wanted to try this in real life I could splurge a bit on one of those Bad Dragon thingies but fuck they're expensive.

I've got a few more I could go into. But they're kinda base hentai shit.
 
I find threesome without the boys' interaction interesting also. But if they are even just attracted or curious it is 1000% better. Just sayin
 
I'm unsure why, but I have an unhealthy attraction to big, strong characters, especially if they're non-human. Mostly like, anthros and stuff. The problem is that it isn't often you find people who are willing to play monsters or characters of that archetype, while also being open to play with a man, since most of those are either men or futa.
 
DiablosHater said:
I'm unsure why, but I have an unhealthy attraction to big, strong characters, especially if they're non-human. Mostly like, anthros and stuff. The problem is that it isn't often you find people who are willing to play monsters or characters of that archetype, while also being open to play with a man, since most of those are either men or futa.
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I also like big strong antro types.I also like size play. A mall dom on a big sub or a big dom on a small sub. Something about that makes it better for me.
 
Hmmm. Oral sex has to be my biggest turn on. As to the why? I dunno, I have theories. One, it feels amazing to receive, and two, its fulfilling to give. The act itself is erotic, where you are focusing on arousing and or getting your partner off.

On the getting end, you know they are being sexual on purpose with you, teasing tantalizing, and exciting you because they want you to feel good. On the giving end, its fun to watch them squirm, write, and vocalize in response to what you are doing to them, knowing they enjoy it, and feeling desirable and sexy in the process. Its an ego boost from both sides.

*shrugs*

As for the embellishments, like when the female wears heavy lipstick that glistens and glosses, that just gives me an ASMR reaction to see it. That I dont fully understand yet, I just go with it and enjoy the excited twinges my nervous system gets from the experience. Tongue rings area little different, as its an added sensation that's just plain HOT....
 
I know my fetish and I know why lol unfortunately its deeply rooted in the child hood abuse I suffered... I love being caged and tied up. Unfortunately this stems from being tied to the bed when my mother left the house and my hands tied up at night before I went to bed. Now i use it for pleasure as a "Fuck you mom I get off on it now" lol Its now on my own terms so i enjoy it.

I also love being degraded and humiliated, (or doing the same to others ) for the same reasons..
 
Let me see if I can explain this right....

Switch is my preferred dynamic and what I really like to write, but I have a kink/fetish for dominating powerful characters. Say there's a big, broad, scary warlord that captures a little village woman - if I have my way, that little village woman will seduce, manipulate, and dig her proverbial claws into that warlord over time, until he's on his knees for her and obeys her desires. Same with CEO x Secretary, Elf x Orc, just about any pairing where the male character is influential, authoritative, strong, and my lady climbs up and conquers him. I adore the challenge, the breakdown of one character losing power while the other takes it, along with the end result of having that mighty man wrapped around her finger. It's the same with small dom/big sub. Very yummy to me. :heart:
 
I'm into women who have to pee badly (omorashi). The worse she needs to go, the hotter it is. There's definitely some "lack of control" aspect to it, though I actually prefer seeing the struggle; just people wetting themselves or peeing doesn't do much to me, there has to be at least implied desperation involved. Also, I seem to prefer it happening spontaneously; even though it's also fun when a woman holds it because I ask her to, it's not about that, and I prefer if it's totally accidental.

Why I like it, I'm not sure. Could be a kind of revenge thing left over from wetting the bed longer than I'd have liked to? Though honestly, I don't think there's a very good reason.

Interestingly, in my experience this is a kink is much more often accepted by people I meet in real life than RP partners. I think it might have to do with it being part of normal life anyway?
 
I think fetishes are so interesting, especially when you consider the psychology behind them and what drives us to seek certain things out.

I have been called "intimidating" before in RL. I don't put up with crap, stand my ground, run my own business...so for me, the reason I enjoy submission and writing submissive characters is because it's an escape from always having to be in charge. Same with restraints. I love the idea of giving that control to someone trusted, because I am super Type A in business matters.

For my other kinks...man, I just don't know. Sometimes they just come out of nowhere!
 
I have some pretty weird kinks. I love size play (usually involving dynamic size changes rather than static sizes), but only ever enjoy being the smaller/weaker partner. Muscle growth, shrinking, breast growth, height growth etc. I'm also a huge fan of animal tf, though I prefer not to be transformed myself. This can range anywhere from a simple anthro transformation to a full one. My most recent kink is actually futa growth (woman going from a non-futa to a futa). There are some others as well; lactation, being dominated, deeper voices, and then others tied more closely with the kinks I mentioned above.

Frankly, I've thought about the origins of my kinks a little bit, but get uncomfortable if I spend too much time with those thoughts. I have an idea of where some things come from (I was sexually abused by a friend of my mother fairly often when I was younger). That could explain the size bits and preferring to play a sub. However, I'm not entirely sure where my love of futa themes has come from, and I haven't spent much time thinking about it either.

If I may ask, is there anyone out there who'd like to share their ideas on why someone may develop a futa kink? I'd love to hear from people who share the kink too, and have an idea of how they themselves developed it.

Anyway, thanks for your time!
 
Foxxo said:
I have some pretty weird kinks. I love size play (usually involving dynamic size changes rather than static sizes), but only ever enjoy being the smaller/weaker partner. Muscle growth, shrinking, breast growth, height growth etc. I'm also a huge fan of animal tf, though I prefer not to be transformed myself. This can range anywhere from a simple anthro transformation to a full one. My most recent kink is actually futa growth (woman going from a non-futa to a futa). There are some others as well; lactation, being dominated, deeper voices, and then others tied more closely with the kinks I mentioned above.

Frankly, I've thought about the origins of my kinks a little bit, but get uncomfortable if I spend too much time with those thoughts. I have an idea of where some things come from (I was sexually abused by a friend of my mother fairly often when I was younger). That could explain the size bits and preferring to play a sub. However, I'm not entirely sure where my love of futa themes has come from, and I haven't spent much time thinking about it either.

If I may ask, is there anyone out there who'd like to share their ideas on why someone may develop a futa kink? I'd love to hear from people who share the kink too, and have an idea of how they themselves developed it.

Anyway, thanks for your time!
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The most obvious atleast to me is power. A penis, especially during sex, represents power. After all, even in homo-sexual relationships between men, the "Reciever" is scorned in society.
 
I have many but I guess you could summarize them by calling it "Power Imbalance" generally with the female having the edge. I like things like CFNM, Cuckolding, Chastity, Dry Humping, Ballbusting, Pegging, Being denied sex or only being offered some kind of poor second best option, being teased etc.

Flipping the usual gender roles is also of interest.

Why do these things interest me? I like exploring why someone would consent to being treated that way. That tends to go for my other ideas as well. Why a woman would be a stripper or do porn, why she would explore some dark theme. I am not much for straight up Non Con as that robs me of the chance to explore those things although Stockholm Syndrome in term of a woman being kidnapped and slowly falling for her kidnapper is interesting.

Twisted story lines are also a fetish in a way for me. A woman wanting to work in a brothel to save money for her wedding for example. I have actually heard of that happening in real life too which is fascinating as well as twisted. I could go on but I think you get the idea, I like irony I guess.
 
I am very much into rape rp's. I believe it has something to do with a major event that happened a while back plus I love the feeling that I have no control over my body.
 
Interrogation torture....either giving or receiving....trying to break someone (man or woman)... trying not to be broken...
 
I have a weird fetish. I'll put a spoiler now, in case people want to skip over it.

I like the sight of blood, mainly, on a partner. I believe this is a primal fetish, since the sight of blood on a partner makes them seem subconsciously dominant, like an alpha who just won a fight or killed a potential threat. I think the thrill of seeing someone come back to have sex after fighting viciously with something is extremely attractive.

I understand why most people don't like this fetish, since it's a bit weird, but I've never really felt queasy about it. To me, blood is the ultimate sign of superiority, and that's a massive turn on.

Obviously I'd never hurt someone for the sake of fulfilling this fantasy (unless it was used in some sort of BDSM fashion, with both parties consenting), but even if my partner is okay with using fake blood as an alternative, then I'm ecstatic.

Since it's a pretty peculiar, I've struggled finding people who even want to hear about it, let alone try it. I had a bad experience with my (now ex) boyfriend once when I brought it up. Luckily on Bluemoon, I don't feel scared or embarrassed for mentioning it - although I do still get worried that I might disgust people (which is why it's in a spoiler tag, obviously). I'm glad I can generally be honest on here though.

Moving on from that, I think most fetishes/kinks I avoid are because I've had bad experiences with them in the past, or because the thought of them makes me feel awful - especially if it's dehumanising, like rape, bimbofication or transformation.

If it's something I wouldn't try in real life, then I won't do it in a roleplay.
 
I kinda have a blood kink as well. Also into some very light guro. For me though, besides the aesthetic of it, it just makes me instinctively sympathetic/protective. Probably also something to do with vulnerability.
 
Caligula said:
I kinda have a blood kink as well. Also into some very light guro. For me though, besides the aesthetic of it, it just makes me instinctively sympathetic/protective. Probably also something to do with vulnerability.
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I totally get that!

Although, for me the whole sympathetic/protective part usually kicks in during aftercare, or just generally when sex isn't involved - if I see my partner with a nosebleed, I'm obviously going to prioritise helping them rather than having sexy times.

I definitely think the aesthetic plays a huge part as well, probably more so than everything else.
 
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