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I didn't forbid him to do it. I kind of just walked in and he was there looking at something on his computer but as soon as he saw me he closed it down like a naughty child who got caught by a parent. So, I kissed him and told him to have fun, then tried to leave, but he said something and stopped me. I told him that it is normal for a person to do and that I do it as well, plus it isn't exactly like we can have sex at the moment because I'm on my period. I think why it gets to me is because he tells me that if I was skinnier that he would be more sexually attracted to me and now I'm going with him to the base gym and have a set goal of weight to lose (although, there is more than just one reason why I'm losing weight.) But, how he tells me that I'd be more attractive, it just feels rather... I don't know... but it hurts. Then he calls me the "such a good little housewife," were as I think the term derogatory, I'm not a fucking servant to him and that is now how I want him to view me.
 
Notte said:
I didn't forbid him to do it. I kind of just walked in and he was there looking at something on his computer but as soon as he saw me he closed it down like a naughty child who got caught by a parent. So, I kissed him and told him to have fun, then tried to leave, but he said something and stopped me. I told him that it is normal for a person to do and that I do it as well, plus it isn't exactly like we can have sex at the moment because I'm on my period. I think why it gets to me is because he tells me that if I was skinnier that he would be more sexually attracted to me and now I'm going with him to the base gym and have a set goal of weight to lose (although, there is more than just one reason why I'm losing weight.) But, how he tells me that I'd be more attractive, it just feels rather... I don't know... but it hurts. Then he calls me the "such a good little housewife," were as I think the term derogatory, I'm not a fucking servant to him and that is now how I want him to view me.
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Um...he should like you how you are? If say-he wanted you to be healthier that would be a different story but saying he would be more attracted to you if you were skinnier is just..wrong. And the "good little housewife" bit just rings something is amiss.​
 
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Notte said:
I didn't forbid him to do it. I kind of just walked in and he was there looking at something on his computer but as soon as he saw me he closed it down like a naughty child who got caught by a parent. So, I kissed him and told him to have fun, then tried to leave, but he said something and stopped me. I told him that it is normal for a person to do and that I do it as well, plus it isn't exactly like we can have sex at the moment because I'm on my period. I think why it gets to me is because he tells me that if I was skinnier that he would be more sexually attracted to me and now I'm going with him to the base gym and have a set goal of weight to lose (although, there is more than just one reason why I'm losing weight.) But, how he tells me that I'd be more attractive, it just feels rather... I don't know... but it hurts. Then he calls me the "such a good little housewife," were as I think the term derogatory, I'm not a fucking servant to him and that is now how I want him to view me.
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Um...he should like you how you are? If say-he wanted you to be healthier that would be a different story but saying he would be more attracted to you if you were skinnier is just..wrong. And the "good little housewife" bit just rings something is amiss.​
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Yes, I know, and I don't know what I should think or say about it. As per what I am doing, I am going to the gym with him, I'm going for walks and runs nearly everyday - sometimes to the point that I'll get sick or that my knee will give out. I also give myself six months to lose at least fifty pounds. Then, when I get all of that right and straight and am physically and mentally well enough, I'll be signing up for the Air Force. If I pass all criteria, of course.

As per the housewife, yes, I know... but what the hell should I do about it? I told him that I don't like it and he's been good about not calling me it, but you know... he jokes about how he has a good housewife, a live in maid, and a dog watcher. But he doesn't just tell me this - he tells it to his whole fucking shop crew! Really, what am I supposed to think? What should I do?
 
Notte said:
--+Hahvoc Requiem+-- said:
Notte said:
I didn't forbid him to do it. I kind of just walked in and he was there looking at something on his computer but as soon as he saw me he closed it down like a naughty child who got caught by a parent. So, I kissed him and told him to have fun, then tried to leave, but he said something and stopped me. I told him that it is normal for a person to do and that I do it as well, plus it isn't exactly like we can have sex at the moment because I'm on my period. I think why it gets to me is because he tells me that if I was skinnier that he would be more sexually attracted to me and now I'm going with him to the base gym and have a set goal of weight to lose (although, there is more than just one reason why I'm losing weight.) But, how he tells me that I'd be more attractive, it just feels rather... I don't know... but it hurts. Then he calls me the "such a good little housewife," were as I think the term derogatory, I'm not a fucking servant to him and that is now how I want him to view me.
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Um...he should like you how you are? If say-he wanted you to be healthier that would be a different story but saying he would be more attracted to you if you were skinnier is just..wrong. And the "good little housewife" bit just rings something is amiss.​
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Yes, I know, and I don't know what I should think or say about it. As per what I am doing, I am going to the gym with him, I'm going for walks and runs nearly everyday - sometimes to the point that I'll get sick or that my knee will give out. I also give myself six months to lose at least fifty pounds. Then, when I get all of that right and straight and am physically and mentally well enough, I'll be signing up for the Air Force. If I pass all criteria, of course.

As per the housewife, yes, I know... but what the hell should I do about it? I told him that I don't like it and he's been good about not calling me it, but you know... he jokes about how he has a good housewife, a live in maid, and a dog watcher. But he doesn't just tell me this - he tells it to his whole fucking shop crew! Really, what am I supposed to think? What should I do?
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I'll tell you my honest opinion about this, going by my own experiences and what I saw Notte:
Men have a dominance thing by nature, they love to show off their women and basically compare them to others. Of Corse, they doesn't apply to ALL men, but when a man is with his buddies its basically like this. What I think he accomplishes by saying that to his friends, is basically so he can get comments like "Oh you lucky bastard" and such. He just wants to portray you as such to his friends to get his friends to envy him. Like I said, it's a man thing. That said, I understand why you would be mad or feel demeaned at that. Any woman would, really if he wanted to show some decency, he wouldn't portray you as such if he knows it upsets you. You should talk to him about it, but be more upfront and just tell him that you don't want to be portrayed as a "Good little housewife."

And, about telling you to lose weight:
In all honesty, Hahvy brought up a good point. He should love you for who you are and how you are, but no one can tell you what to do with your own image or how to feel comfortable, thats for you to decide. What I feel I need to tell you though, is not to push yourself that hard. Take it slow, and you'll get to the shape you want to be in a healthy way, driving yourself as far as falling and puking is only going to damage you hun, not do you any good.
 
Notte said:
I didn't forbid him to do it. I kind of just walked in and he was there looking at something on his computer but as soon as he saw me he closed it down like a naughty child who got caught by a parent. So, I kissed him and told him to have fun, then tried to leave, but he said something and stopped me. I told him that it is normal for a person to do and that I do it as well, plus it isn't exactly like we can have sex at the moment because I'm on my period. I think why it gets to me is because he tells me that if I was skinnier that he would be more sexually attracted to me and now I'm going with him to the base gym and have a set goal of weight to lose (although, there is more than just one reason why I'm losing weight.) But, how he tells me that I'd be more attractive, it just feels rather... I don't know... but it hurts. Then he calls me the "such a good little housewife," were as I think the term derogatory, I'm not a fucking servant to him and that is now how I want him to view me.
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Call me. Now.
We can gush about how much you and I are better off together~
-snuggles her Notte- ilu, bby!
 
My_Apocalypse_Pony said:
FACT: T.T There was a spider crawling on my arm.... o.o
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Fact: Spiders are beautiful creatures. :)
Fact: I would like a bird-eating tarantula from the next reptile expo.
Fact: This scares the shit out of most people.
 
xWickedBlackLace said:
My_Apocalypse_Pony said:
FACT: T.T There was a spider crawling on my arm.... o.o
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Fact: Spiders are beautiful creatures. :)
Fact: I would like a bird-eating tarantula from the next reptile expo.
Fact: This scares the shit out of most people.
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Wicked you are crazy and wicked.
Crazy cause of you liking spiders, and wicked cause of your name.
 
Fact: The only bug I don't like are ladybugs
Fact: Has disliked them since an infestation a few years back.
Fact: Actually weren't ladybugs but orange look-a-likes that bit
Fact: I AM LEARNING A SONG
 
Fact: will start on Lifestream when i have got my tablet which is at my apartment​
 
hooray for larger than expected paychecks!

fact: is excited for red to LS a drawing for us all to watch
fact: hates bugs of all kinds. big, small, flying, w/e..... they MUST die!!!!!!!!!!
fact: is ready to give birth now. lolol!!! (no... i'm not in labor...... i'm just ready to not be pregnant anymore)
 
xD The pains of a mother that I can never understand~
-huggles DA-

Fact: Does not really want to see anyone give birth
Fact: I dont understand why some women get mad when the men don't want to look.
 
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