- Joined
- Dec 14, 2012
- Location
- Australia
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Hey all, it's Quix here!
About Me:
I'm a male, who plays mostly dominant characters, always on the search for fun, creative and intelligent female partners. To save wasting both our time before you read any further, please note that when I say I play dominant characters, that relates to them possessing a dominant persona, and should not be perceived as a label. It also does not mean I'm looking for submissive females to write opposite of; I'm not.
My intellectual and carnal interest, which extends to my preferences for fictional characters, is garnered by independent women who possess a desire for autonomy, an inclination to act of their own volition and are sexual beings in their own right. If my character is to dominate - in any context over and above a naturally existing propensity to take-charge in the bedroom -, I'll only partake in scenes that require the wresting of control from those who'd prefer not to give it up and which involve forced/unwilling short-term situational submission and domination.
I won't entertain any request for long-term or willing D/s, M/s etc scenarios as those ongoing relationship and static sexual dynamics bore me to tears. Additionally, I have no interest in scenarios in which the male is drawn to a woman for no other reason than she's female and breathing, creatively one-sided premises centred entirely around his motives and agenda for the female character, and/or opposite women who bring no plot-driving motivations, goals, intent, purpose and agency - sexual and otherwise - of their own to a story.
Now that I've likely lost 99.9% of people with the bluntness above, - which I felt only fair to clearly state upfront, as what I have antipathy towards are, by far, the most commonly requested story/character tropes I receive around here - a little about what I do like for the few who remain, xD!
What I'm Looking For:
Although I have a slight preference for psychologically dark stories, I'm more than a one-trick pony, and crave diversity over all else. My characters can range from brutal rapists and sadistic serial-killers without empathy or remorse, to flirtatious small-time thieves, cocky charlatans, manipulative porn producers, or playful familial rivals as the Three 'Bears' in a re-telling of Goldilocks and many points in-between.
I'm here to write a variety of personalities and themes, from the darkest imaginable to the light and fluffy, generally preferring modern settings but potentially open to others such as historical or light fantasy as long as any concentration on that aspect of the plot doesn't detract from the importance of character development and dynamics. The latter being, in any story, where my main interest lies.
Whilst I am looking for erotic stories, centred around a sexual dynamic(s)/premise(s), that is not synonymous with wanting them to be 'smut-driven'. In that regard, the majority of my stories tend to be around an 70/80-30/20 story-to-sex ratio, as I find scenes that contain little but copious amounts of 'he thrusts/she moans' sex, lack depth, and swiftly become tedious to both read and write. It's the character interaction, buildup, foreplay, tension, and psychology of a sexual scenario that interests me as much, if not more, than the physical act. An intrinsically sexual, character-driven plot with smut, rather than a lot of smut with minimal plot. I also like my stories with spice, so a little (or a lot) of kink and/or taboo adds to the fun.
As for specific plots, although I do have a few below, I'm fine if none of those are your particular cup of tea as many of my most successful long-term collaborations have come about with those who weren't interested in any of my plots, or me in theirs, to begin with, but where our overall preferences matched and we thought we could still mesh as writing partners! Therefore, I prioritise finding those potentially compatible partners with whom I can, in collaboration, develop something unique, or rework a basic concept, tailored to our individual tastes, over deciding upfront on any set plot. My plotting creativity also kicks up a few gears when I have someone to bounce off.
On Posting:
My posts are generally in the 500 - 1000 words range and I write on thread - no IM/PM/Email, sorry - preferring slower paced replies from both sides, with a substantive response around once a week and no concerns if it's less often than that; as long as OoC communication is maintained, I'm good with extremely relaxed posting rates. To commit myself to any more than once a week (though I will often post within four to five days) places too much stress on my poor little brain due to my curious thought process and the length of time it can take me to translate the jumbled jigsaw-puzzle pieces in my head into logically constructed words on the screen, working full-time, and my time zone likely being much different from most others.
The same in regards to receiving rapid-fire replies as I'll then place pressure on myself to meet that pace in return, and due to that reason am possibly one of the very few people who's unfortunately had to drop stories for replies coming too fast. Long-term over short term.
OOC Communication:
I keep my 'real-life' and my roleplay life separate, however OoC banter and causally getting to know my partner is a must. Roleplaying is a collaborative endeavour and I spend a lot of time and creative/mental energy on each post. I'd prefer to expend that energy on those I feel a sense a camaraderie and shared enthusiasm for the story with, and who'll make a mutual effort to initiate friendly conversation, over those who don't, and struggle to stay invested in any collaboration where it's not present. I never have, and never will, drop a roleplay without first discussing it with my partner and have very rarely had it happen to me. That rapport built through good communication is one of the reasons for that.
On a related communication note, I'd appreciate if some effort is put into any approach. I don't like to be rude but I do like to be honest so I will mention that I'm unlikely to reply to simple one or two line 'I'm interested' type messages that leave me with nothing to work with and respond to.
Kinks and Anti-kinks
Likes:
*Intelligent and independent-minded females; my biggest kink, by far
*Good dialogue, banter, humour, a battle of wits
*Provocation/Power plays
*Sexually confident women. Confident women in general
*Dangerous and/or taboo situations
*Public Sex
*Ménage à trois/Threesomes (I enjoy playing multiple characters with differing personalities)
*Exhibitionism
*Infidelity
*Consensual
*Force/manipulation (psychological/verbal)
*Force/Rape - meaning no compassion, no remorse. I don't write rape scenarios where "she ends up loving it". For why, see Anti-kinks below.
*BDSM -Just because I have no interest in the Dom/Sub relationship dynamic doesn't mean I have no interest in BDSM practices, although I will quickly become bored if this is the only sexual component to a story
* Purely 'sexually submissive' women
*Age play - but only with intellectually mature characters
*Teasing
*Foreplay/Buildup/Sexual tension
*Multiple partners/gangbangs (forced or mutual)
*Seduction
*OOC Chat - I'm not after your life story but friendly banter, and ability to have a chat and a laugh with my partner is a must.
*In regards to specific sexual acts/kinks I won't provide a long list here. As with most everything else with me, it's the context in which it's placed that makes something enjoyable for me, rather than specific acts in and of themselves, and I'm open to many and varied. (Although, my my characters to have a particular fondness for oral and digital, both giving and receiving). For more detailed information, please refer to my f-list, and presume that anything not in the same vein as any of my hard no's is negotiable.
Things I’m not into:
*Tentacles and Non-humanoid
*Typical 'Master/Slave' and/or 'Dom/Sub' pairings - way too cliché and overdone. I was bored of them before Shades of Grey was released
* Naive/innocent/blushing virgin type female characters
*Beastiality
*Scat
*Impregnation/Pregnancy
*Vore
*Willing subservience / submissiveness
*Rape/Full on non-con to con where the female character 'ends up loving it'. If I'm to write a rape scene, one of the most vile acts imaginable, I refuse to write it in a way that does not do the real horror/impact of it justice. That does not negate forced pleasure, as long as the female character still mentally despises the acts, although her body may betray her. However, I tend to only incorporate those types of scenes as a part of a larger story, not the story itself, and with partners I've written with for long enough to trust to keep it interesting from my perspective.
*Intelligent and independent-minded females; my biggest kink, by far
*Good dialogue, banter, humour, a battle of wits
*Provocation/Power plays
*Sexually confident women. Confident women in general
*Dangerous and/or taboo situations
*Public Sex
*Ménage à trois/Threesomes (I enjoy playing multiple characters with differing personalities)
*Exhibitionism
*Infidelity
*Consensual
*Force/manipulation (psychological/verbal)
*Force/Rape - meaning no compassion, no remorse. I don't write rape scenarios where "she ends up loving it". For why, see Anti-kinks below.
*BDSM -Just because I have no interest in the Dom/Sub relationship dynamic doesn't mean I have no interest in BDSM practices, although I will quickly become bored if this is the only sexual component to a story
* Purely 'sexually submissive' women
*Age play - but only with intellectually mature characters
*Teasing
*Foreplay/Buildup/Sexual tension
*Multiple partners/gangbangs (forced or mutual)
*Seduction
*OOC Chat - I'm not after your life story but friendly banter, and ability to have a chat and a laugh with my partner is a must.
*In regards to specific sexual acts/kinks I won't provide a long list here. As with most everything else with me, it's the context in which it's placed that makes something enjoyable for me, rather than specific acts in and of themselves, and I'm open to many and varied. (Although, my my characters to have a particular fondness for oral and digital, both giving and receiving). For more detailed information, please refer to my f-list, and presume that anything not in the same vein as any of my hard no's is negotiable.
Things I’m not into:
*Tentacles and Non-humanoid
*Typical 'Master/Slave' and/or 'Dom/Sub' pairings - way too cliché and overdone. I was bored of them before Shades of Grey was released
* Naive/innocent/blushing virgin type female characters
*Beastiality
*Scat
*Impregnation/Pregnancy
*Vore
*Willing subservience / submissiveness
*Rape/Full on non-con to con where the female character 'ends up loving it'. If I'm to write a rape scene, one of the most vile acts imaginable, I refuse to write it in a way that does not do the real horror/impact of it justice. That does not negate forced pleasure, as long as the female character still mentally despises the acts, although her body may betray her. However, I tend to only incorporate those types of scenes as a part of a larger story, not the story itself, and with partners I've written with for long enough to trust to keep it interesting from my perspective.
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