But that same mentality puts not only the baby's life, but the man's life on her word alone. If you had a one night stand with a guy, he's nice, he's pretty decent looking, but he doesn't have a good job, he's not wealthy. your word would shackle him to a lifetime of child payments, alimony and fatherhood, even if he's hopelessly unprepared.gelidAtelier said:The man has no real say.
The woman has a say, because it is her body.
She is under no obligation to be an incubator for anything.
I also do not think the man has any kind of ownership over the fetus that might entitle him to its continued existence, at least not until it is born.
Really, I'd be suspicious about a guy's motivations in wanting a fetus to be born when it has no qualities whatsoever. It probably has more to do with wanting to keep a shackle on the woman through the kid than actually wanting a child.
and honestly "so he can keep shackles on the woman"... have you ever actually been in a relationship? honestly? the only one with shackles are the abusive ones, which account for barely 1% of relationships in the west. honestly have you ever been in a relationship where you've been enslaved by your partner? I've been in many relationships, and so have my friends, they have always been mutual relationships.
I think you should learn how relationships work by actually being in one, without the Tumblr SJW influence.