Okabe
Star
- Joined
- May 6, 2013
First, I don't believe the baby is the mother's body. It is a potential human being that is under the responsability of both parents. However the pregnancy is hers to endure so no one can force a woman to suffer a pregnancy she don't want, thus a father shouldn't be allowed to force a woman to stay pregnant. She's not a breeding cow and there's is millions of child to adopt if the man wants a child. Then of course it's his right to do whatever he wants if the woman abort without his consent. Maybe it should even be recognised as a reason for divorce.
However, it is true that sometimes a mother carry on a pregnancy against the father's wishes. Then under certain circumstanses, that is if the man used contraception, or believed the woman did, and it didn't worked/was sabotaged, he should be able to "bail out" and not pay child support. Of course he lose all his parental rights too. If he just put his unprotected dick in a random woman it's his fault.
For rape the rapist should pay huge damages, spend quite some time in prison and pay child support if a pregnancy happen without abortion. Of course he has nothing to say about keeping the baby or abort.He should'nt have the right to refuse working while in prison, and a sizable amount of his pay should be seized and given to the woman if a child is expected.
If the rape if proved false and the mother lied to get child support and money, a terrible punishment should fall on her, and huge reparations given to the man. The subject is very difficult thanks to the tendency of everyone, women and men alike, to lie/manipulate reality to profit from others or avoid their responsabilities.
Custody/child support is another subject. I believe that a parent can't keep the child and forbid the other to see it so the time with the child should be equally divised if possible, with no child support. And then, nobody can force someone to see a child he don't want to see, or a child to see a parent he don't want to see once he's old enough to think by himself.
However, it is true that sometimes a mother carry on a pregnancy against the father's wishes. Then under certain circumstanses, that is if the man used contraception, or believed the woman did, and it didn't worked/was sabotaged, he should be able to "bail out" and not pay child support. Of course he lose all his parental rights too. If he just put his unprotected dick in a random woman it's his fault.
For rape the rapist should pay huge damages, spend quite some time in prison and pay child support if a pregnancy happen without abortion. Of course he has nothing to say about keeping the baby or abort.He should'nt have the right to refuse working while in prison, and a sizable amount of his pay should be seized and given to the woman if a child is expected.
If the rape if proved false and the mother lied to get child support and money, a terrible punishment should fall on her, and huge reparations given to the man. The subject is very difficult thanks to the tendency of everyone, women and men alike, to lie/manipulate reality to profit from others or avoid their responsabilities.
Custody/child support is another subject. I believe that a parent can't keep the child and forbid the other to see it so the time with the child should be equally divised if possible, with no child support. And then, nobody can force someone to see a child he don't want to see, or a child to see a parent he don't want to see once he's old enough to think by himself.