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Sexual Preferences

Ari has this unique ability to only get goose bumps on one side when I tease her. So I often need to balance her out.
 
Um strange fact that I don't actually like the idea of being slapped anywhere... but... for some reason I just didn't mind it at all when my ex did it. xD It was like love just made me accept it? Since she liked it and all. But with anyone else the idea just makes me "ugh".
I'm sure there's other examples like this that I can't remember.
 
Oh light touches are amazing! My ex did it so well that he would have to stop cuz I was in so much pleasure, but then again I'm super ticklish. I remember when our relationship was going down the drains and I didn't want to do anything with him, he would tease me so much with it I would beg for it hahah, good times. He was my best partner so far we were very well matched.
 
I love light touches too. I'm very sensitive down there and ticklish, and the rougher people are down there with me, it usually become unbearable. I can't help it, my hands will instinctively shoot down and pull him away.
 
Well there's only one person I would have done anything rough with anyway. :) Basically what I really like are licks, sucks and squeezes. xD They can be a bit hard but as long as they show a certain degree of "love" to it. Though maybe kindness is a better word?
And because of that reason, that's why IRL I basically have only had one partner. XD
 
Yes! I like the need for kindness or care when teasing, especially when starting off! Just the right touch in the right place shoots waves of pleasure all over my body.
 
I've personally never done the sex thing IRL. Never even had a boyfriend (not for lack of trying.) :-/

But I have always found myself wierd in the respect that I want to be touched and held, but whenever I get actually get the chance, I freak out. It's like, if I get excited and then that happiness turns to fear; sort of like chickening out. It's like guys just scare me for some reason. I don't know if this is normal or not for someone with a little experience as I have had.
 
I get it a lot when I tell people that I'm asexual. And I get the same thing: well you just haven't been with the right people... Ugh. Makes me want to smack them and tell them to go try something that they know they don't like over and over again, just because it's the social norm to like something.
 
everyone has their own and should be respected for it. i for one, am not crazy at fellatio- however love cunnilingus. i enjoy engaging in oral sex INFINITELY more than receiving it. and even though im partaking in an erotic roleplay forum, i dislike watching porn. it just isnt my style ya know?
 
Thought I'd bring up a topic here... since its kind of related. When in a relationship, and regarding the fantasies of both lovers, where are your limits? Does it being a fantasy obligate you or your lover to perform and give them what they want? What if you or your lover is uncomfortable with it or doesn't like it?

A few weeks ago my boyfriend brought up the subject of threesomes. He's brought this up multiple times before, and each time I've told him no, never, I'll never be okay with that, if he wants one so bad he can find himself a girlfriend who is willing (seriously, I'd rather break up than go through that). It's just who I am, sex is more than just sex. I think it should stay between partners/lovers. He told me I was being unfair and making him sad because it was one of his biggest fantasies. But I still don't care... I won't let up. If I am not okay with it, I am not okay with it and I will not budge. I don't think I'm a prude (seeing as I'm on here), but thats just one of my absolute no's.
 
Imma go ahead and just say no, there is obligatory condition to a partnership/love pair other than being faithful. Even then it's a suggestion when you REALLY look at it, but it's a damn good one because, well, you're a complete douche if you cheat. That's the bottom line and I'm sure many others will agree with me. But I digress.

But good on you for sticking with it; me, I'd tell him to grow the fuck up and get over it. Life isn't a fantasy game, it's a cold heartless bitch that'll chew you up and shit you out if you're not careful. But again, I digress.

My opinion is that everyone has their own preferences and it's up to both partners to establish boundaries and be respectful of said boundaries. That's my two cents.
 
As for limits, my boyfriend and I are very open when it comes to receiving the others' sexual ideas. It's all sort of weird, actually, how we talk about our sex life in such a nonchalant manner. We have long and constructive discussions about any fantasies one of us might have. Although I have a little bit of trouble being this open, he never seems too embarrassed or scared to talk about our sex life with me, and I take comfort in that honesty.

Here is something about threesomes that my boyfriend and I discussed. When it comes to a guy with two girls, you often expect the girls to interact with each other sexually. I think this is one of the biggest turn ons about a threesome. Well the reason my boyfriend never tells me he wants a threesome, is because he feels he would have to indulge a similar scenario for me if I wanted him to: Me, him and another guy, with the expectation that he and the other guy would interact sexually.

Just like any part of a relationship, there is a huge equality thing. When he asks you to go beyond your limits, question him if he would do the same for you in a situation that he is sensitive about.
 
That's another thing... I am not bisexual or attracted to girls. I couldn't get turned on by a girl and I couldn't do anything with a girl. He even said it doesn't have to be a 2 girl 1 guy thing, it can be 2 guys and a girl. I still said no. The other issue is that physical and sexual attraction is not instant for me. I can say that I do honestly put who the person is and my bond with them in consideration. I couldn't get turned on or get off to someone who I wasn't passionate about, so to put me in a situation where I'm having sex with someone I'm not romantic with... it won't go well. I'm not against people who choose to have threesomes and I made my stance on this clear from the beginning of our sex life. So its not like this is a shocker to him, he's chosen to stay with me knowing I won't ever do this.
 
My sexual preferences in real life are actually really tame compared to my fantasy life. In role-play, I like to play really intense and aggressive male characters who are abusive, narcissistic and pathological. My favorite scenarios to act out are rape and snuff. The orgasmic build up of violence to the point of killing my partner's character is such a climactic release.
 
My nipples are sensitive as well... infact they are my hot spot! I am aggressive in the bedroom but very very passive anywhere else and when my ex found this out he was very aggressive in the bedroom and noticed that I let him take control and ya know what? I love being dominated... its something about power that turns me on. I especially like when shy boys become aggressive. That is so erotic because you don't see it. It's kinda like why men like the Librarian... yeah... I like the nerdy, geeky boy.
 
Yes! You have the idea lilminx2. I like the fact that there are no holds barred. Sex in my honest opinion should be an act between two people who one: care for one another and it should be comfortable for both parties. You should be able to let yourself go and do things that are on edge. I like excitement and spontaneity. But the best sex is after when you can laugh and play and cuddle. Yes, maybe I am just a funny person but I like someone I can laugh with.
 
My preference is towards the ladies but my gf is bi so im trying to work that into our relationship. she has been trying for the last couple of months to find another woman to join us in both the bedroom and dating. I told her would be willing to give it a shot but its her choice on the pick of the other woman. If she doesnt want to keep trying then im not going try and talk her into it.

As stuff that happens in bed well... I like her when she reacts to what im doing to her. like when she decided to start running her nails across my back it felt so good to me.
 
Oh if only I can convince my girlfriend to add another woman into the relationship. Maybe for my birthday...

Alas that probably comes with trouble, if she's bi and ends up preferring one person over another it's gonna cause crazy drama so who knows.
 
That happened to me... Mine asked for a three-some, I agreed and next thing I know I walk in months later and he's balls deep... NEVER AGAIN
 
Yoshie said:
That happened to me... Mine asked for a three-some, I agreed and next thing I know I walk in months later and he's balls deep... NEVER AGAIN
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The unfortunate side effects of threesomes :/
 
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