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Sexual Preferences

piranha

piranha

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First of all, this thread isn't about sexual orientation. So there. :p

Second, here's the thing...

I kind of feel like a freak. And not in the good way.

I am a female who does NOT like to receive cunnilingus. I hate it, it grosses me out, and completely turns me off. Obviously, if a partner doesn't at least make an effort to understand my aversion to it, it's a problem.

What I'm wondering is, does anybody out there feel the same way?

It's especially awful when someone says, "Oh, you just haven't met someone who's good at it." No. I just don't like it, period.

I suppose its the presumption that I find most strange. For other is seems to automatically be a matter of: it's not that I just couldn't like it, it's that nobody's done it well enough for me to like it.

Has anybody encountered anything similar regarding certain sexual acts? Specifically something that everyone else seems to find 'normal', but anything will do, really.

Thanks for taking the time to read, guys. Hope to hear from you.

♥p
 
That's an iffy thing for me as well. But that's because I was molested. Soo, idk, you're just weird.

Kidding, kidding. Some women just don't like it. Maybe it's just the feeling of being slippery? I'm not sure.

I know there are some women who love cock/sucking cock/getting spooged on and I'm not one of those. I like cock, don't mind sucking cock [to a point] but that? Just not my cup of tea.

But I'm also of the mind set that if my partner doesn't give me some hints that they like something I'm doing, it turns me off to do so - preferably with giving head.
 
LOL, thanks. I fully admit to being weird, though.

I don't know what it is about it, but the idea of it just instantly turns me off, like flipping a switch. Funny thing is, I actually like to give it. Of course, if my partner didn't want to, I wouldn't keep insisting they try it. -_-

But I'm also of the mind set that if my partner doesn't give me some hints that they like something I'm doing, it turns me off to do so
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Agreed.

And I do know some guys who don't like getting blow jobs; I think sometimes the presumption goes both way. Oh, you're a guy, so you must love getting your cock sucked. :rolleyes:

Definitely glad I decided to post this, though. Thanks for your thoughts.
 
I don't see much of an issue.

While I enjoy the idea of fellatio I've never enjoyed it, and when I was younger I didn't even like the idea.

My thoughts behind my nonplus over the act is that I enjoy taking an active role in sex and doing things to others is more thrilling then having something done to me.

I also have no physical turn on points.
 
--+Hahvoc Requiem+-- said:
I know there are some women who love cock/sucking cock/getting spooged on and I'm not one of those. I like cock, don't mind sucking cock [to a point] but that? Just not my cup of tea.
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I'm pretty sure that an aversion to getting "creamed" like that is actually pretty common. Especially when it's in the face (which can't possibly be pleasant at all).

I don't really have something like that. Maybe anal (I like the idea, but could never do that myself), but I don't know how common that actually is.
 
Bukkakke all the things! Not sure why some of the girls I've met don't like to be cum on; it's gotta be better than getting a load inside. Besides, you never looked hotter with my mark on you, babydoll. And on your face too. Mmmmm...
 
Everyone just has their own preference. I have a similiar issue which I never hear the end of from other people.

I don't like to masturbate. I dunno... to me, physical pleasure is something I share with someone and something that is done to me. I've tried, it just doesn't do much for me. I touch myself. Meh. Someone else touches me... I love it. Oh and no, I don't like to use inanimate objects, those are even less of a turn on, especially vibrators. The vibration leaves a numbing sensation.

But every time I tell someone this, they nag me left and right about how it must be because I don't know what to do or how to do it. And that its essential for knowing my body. I know my body... :dodgy: Again, its not like I've never tried.

Oh and porn... I dislike most porn, so I don't make effort to watch it. Most of it is cheesy and sloppy looking to me. Accidentally stumbled upon some of my boyfriends porn, and the video was a close up of a girls flabby vagina while she went to town on herself, and she was so loud and obnoxious sounding. And again, when people hear this... they freak out and treat me like I'm weird and try to offer me some of their porn or say stuff like "It's IMPOSSIBLE for you to not like porn, much less watch it."

*shrug* Just my preference. I don't care if people masturbate, or watch porn, I have no problem with that at all. It just drives me insane when people try to push it onto me and convince my otherwise.
 
I hate masturbating as well. I'd rather have a partner get me off then myself. I think it goes back to me growing up. I was always encouraged to do it and almost like I was TOO encouraged to do it. I started being sexually active at a young age so I never needed to do it. When I'm turned on I have someone to go to for that. The thought of getting myself off freaks me out.
 
Not a fan of anal. At all. I can't give anal, certainly can't take it. I don't mind looking at a sexy ass, I love spanking a girl, but Penis + asshole = turn off. I don't know what it is about it that specific action that turns me off so much, but I've tried it and it's no fun.
 
I love masturbation. It's fun. Been doing it for half my life and keeps me from being disappointed. Sex otherwise has always been an issue, but that's just because it's me and my imagination and I'm not "performing" for anyone.

I don't like porn either. The way people moan sometimes just freaks me out and bothers me.

I don't like the look of semen. It makes me think of either milky snot or glue. Glue is the easier to think of it as - otherwise, it starts looking even more gross. And I don't really like the idea of it being on me. Especially my face. That's just a huge fucking no.
 
I love masturbation too, it's fun and I get just what i want out it. If it was up to me I would have sex a lot, but since I am a girl that isn't allowed unless you have a steady boyfriend of fuck buddy. It's not fair to girls that we are called sluts and looked down upon when we fuck lots of different men but when a guy does it, it's fine. I'm made fun of being I was sleeping with the male slut of the college. I ended that to date my ex, and he had just as many girls. I have had sex with only 2 people and I just ridiculed for one of them being a huge whore, but my ex is praised for getting with 12 girls in college. Ya not fair, girls want to have fun with sex just as guys do but we have to keep quiet about it otherwise great, nice guys just leave you alone.
 
Huh. This is an interesting read... I like being cummed on and anal. I loved masturbating when I was younger and when I was in a long distance relationship, but now that I live with my lover I almost never do it myself. The orgasm itself just isn't as great and I actually feel a little bitter or disappointed that I had to do it myself.

I'm not a big fan of cunnilingus. Don't get me wrong, I got there, but I kind of got there too quick for my preference and I think I felt a little uncomfortable because I wasn't giving anything. I don't mind blowing but I don't like swallowing. I've heard friends say that it's rude not to swallow, but I figure if I'm blowing someone they probably shouldn't be complaining... plus, as I previously mentioned, I like getting cummed on so it usually works out.
 
I think all guys and chicks are sluts if they sleep around with more than 3 or 4 people in a month. I think that's just gross, but that's me. I don't care if it's a guy or a chick. If you sleep around a fuckload, that's nasty but hey, if you're safe and both consenting adults, who the fuck gives a shit?

Rude not to swallow? You're still killing millions of potential babies~ Who cares if it's in your stomach or in the trashcan. Lol
 
See that's what I believe too, about being a slut. No one wants to hear it, guys here just think they can do no wrong.

I actually prefer swallowing the on me. I go either way, but I believe it's easier clean up to swallow.
 
It makes me curious if I'm one of the few women who loves when a guy digs his nails into my back while kissing or to tease me. I know that guys love it, but I wonder if women like it or hate it.
 
I don't really like cunnilingus but I do get in the mood for it sometimes. But I love love love cock and giving head and cum, though since I have gotten pregnant I don't really like cum. I still swallow because that's just how I am.

I hate people who judge others on the amount of sexual partners they have, as long as they are safe and its consensual its fine. Sex is fun and if I wasn't married I would have sex with a lot of diffrent people.
 
Aw come awn! All you dames who say you don't like cum just haven't been to the right jerk-off party yet! :D
 
--+Hahvoc Requiem+-- said:
It makes me curious if I'm one of the few women who loves when a guy digs his nails into my back while kissing or to tease me. I know that guys love it, but I wonder if women like it or hate it.
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My boyfriends nails get long and he's actually cut me before x.x So... I like it to an extent.
 
miles said:
Aw come awn! All you dames who say you don't like cum just haven't been to the right jerk-off party yet! :D
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You really aren't adding to the discussion and just come off kind of bratty. =/ Just saying.


@Muffins - He needs to trim his nails if he just cuts you. o.o
 
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