Harriet, if you take care of yourself there's no problem. Speaking as a guy who slutted it up for a while and unlike master is somewhat younger and within the age group thats closest to yours most guys worth your time will want to see you. Not the clothes on your body, not the flesh, not the sex, they'll want the girl that they're going out with. IT doesn't matter if its one or a hundred freckles or spots or this or that, if you've taken care for yourself in terms of hygiene and you've made everything clear up front no guy with a decent brain and respect for you will take it the wrong way. Preparation depends on the guy too, some guys are horrified by thicket others are horrified by the skin being bare but any guy thats worth your time should realize that thats impermanent and doesn't matter. He's not going to be talking to your bush or lack there of, he's not going to be holding just your vag or any single part of you close. Its the totality of who you are that should matter. You're brusque yes and upfront but you're not dishonest or petty and if you were you seem the type with reason. Anything that will lead to happiness is worth persuing just remember though that nothing truly worth having comes easy, its something you have to work towards, hand in hand.
"Now a well trimmed personal area is nice but why is she so ready?
you don't suppose she never knows when she might show somebody.
Think about that before you go steady
or maybe even at your own wedding." -"Dating Tips by That Handsome Devil(Awesome band sound advice)
In essence if its the first date it looks off to some guys if you're completely trimmed and pampered as if expecting to give it up on the first date, so don't worry too much about "preparation" Doesn't have to be perfect you could make it a nice area, but not a definite bulls eye