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To The One I Love - Cheaters and Cheated Please Drop By
- Thread starter Mitsuomi
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You are not the first person to have told me that. But I can't help but to feel this fat hole in my chest everytime I try to think of moving on. I don't know if three years is that serious a relationship... but it just totally ruined my overview on humanity. More specifically women. No offense to the ladies here.
More reason why you should take a break. Give yourself some time to stop thinking about her and what happened. Don't go to the places you went with her, don't listen to songs that remind you of her. Seperate yourself from her and your memory of her in every way. Give yourself some man-time, some alone time. Time to grow as an individual.
That's a very common thing to feel once your long term relationship has come to an end - having something in your life for so long and then suddenly not having it anymore is quite frightening and discouraging. As unhelpful as this is, all you can do is try to stay positive and let time go by. You just have to learn how to adjust to not being in a relationship, which is difficult, but it's possible. 
The worst thing to do is to rush into another relationship to fill the void, of course.
The worst thing to do is to rush into another relationship to fill the void, of course.Alright, this will make me sound like a dog... but I also miss the sexual aspect of our relationship. I can't meet a woman and sleep with her that night or next afternoon. I don't know how to deal with that. I briefly thought about doing something I'd regret. This included travelling to her house and talking to her, hurting her, and hurting myself. It seems too hard for me to move on. I should stop sounding like a little sissy, but it's straight and honestly, exactly how I'm feeling. Roleplaying's a good extroverting activity.
That's not doggish at all. Sexual intimacy is important in a relationship that's grown serious, it's the deepest connection possible. Though traveling to her house, I think, would have been a terrible decision that only would have gotten you into legal trouble.
Yeah, guess all that is true. I've met people to keep me occupied. I just hope that sooner or later she doesn't try to return, because I know for a fact that I am weak enough to just accept her regardless of how well I was recovering. Which is why I kinda want to meet someone soon, and hopefully, she's jealous and a little violent.
Lol, good way to try to preemptively sabotage your future relationships. Jealousy breaks up countless amounts of relationships because one person doesn't trust the other one - if you want your future girlfriend to be jealous of your ex, then that relationship is going to fail, too.