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What's your weirdest / hardest kink?

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This thread is simple: share your weirdest and/or hardest kink.
If you want, you can state why you like that particular hard/weird kink. It's also always interesting to see why something unappealing to some can be arousing to others.

One rule: No shaming!
This means making a blatant criticism of, or personal attack on someone for having a particular kink.

Any form of discussion is otherwise very much allowed.

This thread could be a place to discover more extreme things, reminiscent of that glorious first time you read through the full list of f-list kinks.
Maybe you'd even find something new that you could like.

We either need reassurance that we're not that weird or depraved after all, or reassurance that we are correct about ourselves and hey, that is pretty weird/scary (but we use even that as praise here anyway). Or we could find other people into the same stuff we thought no one else was into. Hey, who knows.

Happy sharing!




I'll start.
Hardest - Probably extreme bloodplay or swallowing blood.
This is the one people usually DM me about and tell me they won't do. I'm attracted to the pain that can come from cutting or drawing blood; its violence and brutality; the smell/taste; the sense of danger from the threat of diseases/infection; and of course, the most generic reason for liking bloodplay is for the look of blood itself. I'd that if it's used for smearing/painting the body that's also a kind of violent degradation.

Weirdest - I've been thinking about it for a while before I added oculophilia in my f-list today.
I'm particularly into having sharp or threatening objects/stimuli around the eyes. Less extreme play would be things like touching, stroking, kissing etc. On the extreme side would be oculolinctus or "worming" (I thought that was a disturbing word for it the first time I looked it up): the paraphilic practice of licking eyeballs for erotic gratification. I was just talking to a roleplay partner about oculolinctus, to do in a pirates roleplay, and I said, "that could explain a pirate's eye patch". Yes, I have this kind of humour. You can laugh now.
Eyes and lashes always look incredibly pretty to me. It's also a particularly sensitive + vulnerable area; and an easy spot to target for stroking fear too, since sudden or jarring stimuli around the eyes often invoke the most reflexive physical reactions from a person. On the less extreme end of the spectrum, something like stroking eyelashes or kissing the eyelids can be very intimate because of how gentle you'd have to be.

 
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Any plot involving Impreg/Risk of impreg. That has everyone I know running for the hills 99% of the time.
 
This one is easy for me... belly punching.
It's not for everyone, and I have to sometimes ask myself "What the hell is up with you?", but it's there, and it's not going away!
Luckily, a few people have been really nice to talk to about it :)
 
Hardest: Extreme raceplay - Plenty of people love an Asian girl / White guy or a White girl / Black guy, but rarely is the race subject explored more deeply, especially if racism is involved.

Weirdest: Breeding - only because I don't want kids (yet)
 
I suppose for most people it would be the watersports thing. More specifically, the idea of seeing a hot woman from behind, legs spread and letting loose, and just mounting on up in that while she's in the middle of it and going to town on her. Dunno, maybe it's an animal thing or I'm just weird.

Aside from that, while it's pretty common these days, making deliberate efforts to feed sexual fluids to the female, whether her own or the males, via sucking it off fingers or dick. The idea of a woman rimming has also gained some traction in the smaller head. When I stop to think about it, the oral fixation is rather absurd, but it's been normalized and it's pretty damn hot to me.
 
@ColorWheel I think that watersports or bathroom watching can be an intimacy or humiliation thing for some people. Not something that I'm really into, but that is usually the final vestige of privacy in a relationship.

Hardest: Male character absolutely railing a female character, only to get shivved by her right after he orgasms. I think that it has to do with the idea of a male character completely giving into his pleasure to the point that he's defenseless.

Weirdest: Difficult to think of anything as weird, but I do have two kind of niche ones. One is two characters having sex while being tied together (encouraged by a third party or just giving in as they rub against each other. The second is a sub being washed by a Dom. This could be either gentle bathing for aftercare or a firehose if it's during play. I think it's an intimate ownership thing either way. Plus, the human body just looks great when wet.
 
@ColorWheel I think that watersports or bathroom watching can be an intimacy or humiliation thing for some people. Not something that I'm really into, but that is usually the final vestige of privacy in a relationship.

Hardest: Male character absolutely railing a female character, only to get shivved by her right after he orgasms. I think that it has to do with the idea of a male character completely giving into his pleasure to the point that he's defenseless.

Weirdest: Difficult to think of anything as weird, but I do have two kind of niche ones. One is two characters having sex while being tied together (encouraged by a third party or just giving in as they rub against each other. The second is a sub being washed by a Dom. This could be either gentle bathing for aftercare or a firehose if it's during play. I think it's an intimate ownership thing either way. Plus, the human body just looks great when wet.
Personally I've always been partial to the pampered bathing bit as well. Doesn't even need to imply ownership, it can also just be a sign of tender affection and care.
 
Hardest: Either mind control or incest, though I'm leaning a bit more towards saying the former of the two is harder because of the non-con.
Weirdest: Either non-human humanoids or clonecest.
 
Hardest: Either mind control or incest, though I'm leaning a bit more towards saying the former of the two is harder because of the non-con.
Weirdest: Either non-human humanoids or clonecest.
I'm pretty much ok with incest if my partner doesn't mind it, though the mind-control one is a bit iffy for me.
But the non-human bit is something I'd love to do tons with, but people either just hate anything related to the sort, especially furry/anthro characters or they just want the "non-human" to be a vampire. :v
 
Any plot involving Impreg/Risk of impreg. That has everyone I know running for the hills 99% of the time.
Yup, definitely a harder one. I can attest that I am part of that 99%.

Hardest: Extreme raceplay - Plenty of people love an Asian girl / White guy or a White girl / Black guy, but rarely is the race subject explored more deeply, especially if racism is involved.
Very, very hard. Hard enough that I'd want to put a trigger warning on it, if it's a public RP.
Though I do believe that exploring the subject + writing about it as an informed author is no doubt very gratifying. Possibly even academic, if research is involved. Even if you fetishize a particular race, as long as you:
1) are aware that it's wrong to do this in real life, and
2) do not perpetuate racism towards/cause harm to people of colour in real life
There's really nothing wrong with writing a fictional fantasy and deriving sexual gratification from racism because ultimately, fantasy is fantasy. I feel like if someone is an actual racist, that's less so because they had a particular fantasy, but more so because they have personally already bought into particular nationalist/darwinian/racist narratives first, then proceed to want to entertain some daydream around that, rather than the other way round. The fantasy itself doesn't cause racism. This is all in the context of ERP, of course. Writing for publishing/mass distribution is a whole other discussion.
Train of thought. Hope that all makes sense.

Weirdest: Either non-human humanoids or clonecest.
Ooh, that's a nice, weird kink. I think I'd actually be into clonecest. Going to stick that in my f-list.
Edit: Okay, I already had it in 'yes'. Interesting.
 
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Hardest: dubcon as in, her not wanting it but finding him appealing physically
Weirdest: hmmm…. dubcon is probably pretty weird because you want what you Don't want, especially the more intense types (blackmail, "has to")
 
I'd totally do (risk of)/impregnation for the right story. Like, Handmaid's tale, king needing a heir or smthg
 
Hardest one for me is Lactation, a lot of people find it weird but I guess birth scenes fit the bill for that one.

weirdest: in my eyes it’s been pregnancy and a few other ones
 
I'd totally do (risk of)/impregnation for the right story. Like, Handmaid's tale, king needing a heir or smthg
Some of my plots can easily have such kinks included as something to occur in the story, but then it's a question of said stories being the right ones for others to be invested in. :)
 
Any plot involving Impreg/Risk of impreg. That has everyone I know running for the hills 99% of the time.
I’m certainly part of that 1%.
I love plots involving impregnation, risk of impregnation, but I also love the pregnancy part, as well.


Hardest one for me is Lactation, a lot of people find it weird but I guess birth scenes fit the bill for that one.

weirdest: in my eyes it’s been pregnancy and a few other ones
And yup, this too. Pregnancy, and lactation are the top of my list.

I’m honestly a slut for impregnation, pregnancy, lactation, and everything surrounding pregnancy, really.
Though, I also don’t mind cum-flation, it seems, and a good gay romance gets me fired up.
 
I find the IDEA of getting pregnant/being pregnant sexy but not the details of pregnancy. I wouldn't do a plot centered on this, but would certainly do it FOR the plot..
 
I find the IDEA of getting pregnant/being pregnant sexy but not the details of pregnancy. I wouldn't do a plot centered on this, but would certainly do it FOR the plot..
That's pretty much what I try to go for when adding that kink to the list, a means to just provide that little bit extra to a plot. Instead, as soon as I even breathe that kink it gets assumed I'm trying to do nothing but that or some silly breeding fest. :/
 
Hardest: raceplay. I know this is a common kink for a lot of people, but general people resist the idea of playing another race. I understand why, I find it difficult to play as an Asian girl while being a white girl irl.

Weirdest: just pure aesthetics. I like to take a step back and just appreciate the pure beauty of the human body.
 
Hardest: Monster girls, I'd guess. Just never had much luck with it. Fortunately, there's plenty of games to fill that void!

Weirdest: Some of my tentacle ideas are pretty far-out, so it has got to be that.
 
I love monster girls... D:
ME TOO! They're cute, sexy, creative and awesome! The male in those scenes is harder to make interesting though, which might be the problem? I dunno, just never had it work.
 
ME TOO! They're cute, sexy, creative and awesome! The male in those scenes is harder to make interesting though, which might be the problem? I dunno, just never had it work.
You mean like, monster guys? Yeah, those are more tricky, I think the more common ones to go for are Anthro wolf/dog/horse and sometimes cat? Monster girls are just more of them.
 
You mean like, monster guys? Yeah, those are more tricky, I think the more common ones to go for are Anthro wolf/dog/horse and sometimes cat? Monster girls are just more of them.
Well, I meant the guy (human/elf/etc) being paired up with the monster girl in general, but those are good points too.
 
Well, I meant the guy (human/elf/etc) being paired up with the monster girl in general, but those are good points too.
Ah ok. I got plots centered around the idea of Human/Monster girls getting paired up, those interest me so much. It's just tough finding people or it's quite the waiting game. :v
 
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