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Role Play vs In Real Life, how kinky are you?

Lemonycat said:
I don't think I match my rps at all. I do everything from vanilla to dying in rps, but irl I'm basically asexual and shy away from even touching people. It could be that I am just very inexperienced but at this point I'm unsure. I may actually be asexual. Real bodies don't do much for me, as the thought of real sex doesn't do much for me. I'd rather write, even if that makes me a weirdo...
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you're not a weirdo at all and I feel we're in the same boat. Maybe we're called to discover and not to dwell on the lands of our ancestors, maybe that's why we write. Cristoforo Columbus (the man that discovered what we call America) was a bit like us he was not called to be just another one but to embark in a risky adventure and to be known years after his own death. Yes I'm weirder than you ;P
 
Lemonycat said:
I don't think I match my rps at all. I do everything from vanilla to dying in rps, but irl I'm basically asexual and shy away from even touching people. It could be that I am just very inexperienced but at this point I'm unsure. I may actually be asexual. Real bodies don't do much for me, as the thought of real sex doesn't do much for me. I'd rather write, even if that makes me a weirdo...
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This had always fascinated me...is asexuality always linked to some kind if traumatic experience?
 
Solo said:
It is a sexual orientation, not a condition/result of trauma. Some people may report both, but correlation is not causation. Those who are LGBTQIA+ often experience higher rates of trauma/PTSD due to the discrimination against these sexualities; I don't believe it's because the individuals who identify as these sexualities inherently experience it more, but because they are often targeted more frequently by abusers.
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So some people are really just born that way, wow...Thanks for explaining...do you identify as a member of that community? is that why you have such knowledge?
 
Solo said:
I am not personally asexual, no. It's just widely available information. A quick Google search with reputable studies will teach you pretty much anything, lol.
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Yeah, true. but its always better from the source. real life experience can teach you stuff a book can’t 😊
 
I would say one of the kinkiest things I ever did *Spoiler Alert 🚨 If you have a weak stomach do not read 🚨

I face fucked my girlfriend until she started vomiting, and the nasty whore didnt even think twice about stopping, she just kept taking my cock down her throat until I got I felt like stopping, I actually made her vomit 3 times then I fucked her in the ass until I cam, and shoved her face in her vomit while I was fucking her
 
IRL...sex wise, I'm a much different person. I'm fairly vanilla irl, mostly just toys, some light bondage and a fixation on breasts and oral sex (man or woman). Very subby irl too, at least from the sex I've done so far (I'm still young, so I consider myself always open to try new things for the first time irl). Also haven't had much of a chance to experiment with a partner either. Last partner was a LDR where I visited them and only was able to have sex a few times when I visited them; I've been single since July of last year so anything I wanted to try I haven't been able to.

On here...most of the kinks I write about are things I wouldn't do irl if you had a gun to my head or are just impossible. Oviposition...impossible. Noncon...absolutely not. Incest...nope, not happening at all. Cum inflation...impossible. Public sex...hell no, I'm embarrassed enough in a private bedroom, let alone out in the open. Based on what I've seen on this site, I'm far from alone.
 
The Snuggubus said:
So, fun fact: I might be asexual irl. I feel no desire to be in a relationship or to have sex with people. Yet I roleplay here. A lot. And really kinky stuff. So yeah.
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Damn, I still dont understand asexual at all...I Love sex so much, especially in your case, is that really asexual, maybe you are cycbersexual Lol. jk jk I completely respect your Sexuality, it also just happens to baffle me!
 
FenFen said:
IRL...sex wise, I'm a much different person. I'm fairly vanilla irl, mostly just toys, some light bondage and a fixation on breasts and oral sex (man or woman). Very subby irl too, at least from the sex I've done so far (I'm still young, so I consider myself always open to try new things for the first time irl). Also haven't had much of a chance to experiment with a partner either. Last partner was a LDR where I visited them and only was able to have sex a few times when I visited them; I've been single since July of last year so anything I wanted to try I haven't been able to.

On here...most of the kinks I write about are things I wouldn't do irl if you had a gun to my head or are just impossible. Oviposition...impossible. Noncon...absolutely not. Incest...nope, not happening at all. Cum inflation...impossible. Public sex...hell no, I'm embarrassed enough in a private bedroom, let alone out in the open. Based on what I've seen on this site, I'm far from alone.
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Fun fact, I feel like you probably could engage in some of Hesse kinks IRL. Oviposition, they actually make egg toys that you can “give birth” too. Cum inflation nit so much, incest neither obviously unless you like prison or live in a state we’re fucking your cousin is legal....but publi sex is definitely doable, it’s actually one of my favorites! Just gotta be willing to take risk. Just because you’re in public, doesn’t mean you have to be seen.
 
Well, that's why I said for public sex it's not that I can't do it it's that I wouldn't want to irl. Also more than the legality of incest irl it's that I lack a total desire to do so. And yeah I guess oviposition is possible irl, just not to the extremes seen in porn.
 
I'm really damn vanilla and outright avoidant of sex and general intimacy. I can attach pretty hard, and it can mean hell for my emotions. Love is a roller-coaster, and all that. But the few times I bothered to hop on the ride it ended terribly, or just slow-burned into nothing until I walked away. So I'm walled up and no amount of moral nit-pickery or feel-good philosophy is going to make me take them down.

Now setting off sparks in people is as annoying as it is satisfying to the ego, because I know they are either going to feel let down by life when I ignore them or they are going to want more from me than I have any interest in giving (even basic friendship) and keep looking at me hopefully when I really just want to be gone from them. It's especially annoying with regular staff at stores or even the drive thru. I don't journey out to the store three times in a week to see your face, I just want some food. Damn. But I think if I ever grew secure with anyone, I'd probably try and indulge what whims I could for them.
 
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