- Aug 3, 2019
I don't consider it nor the risk of it a kink either. I like it as a possible plot device to put in at my discretion.
What he said.For me, the kink is about the impregnation itself, not the idea of playing out the full pregnancy. It's not really a terribly glamorous thing after all, for the reasons more than one person has brought up. But there's a lot of narrative weight that can be ascribed to it, and it's a potent mix along with the aforementioned primal satisfaction of conception.
I hate it. It's a weird fetish I'll never understand. However I had a coworker that just loved pregnant girls. He said there was just a unique beauty about it. I can get being with a spouse that's pregnant and still thinking they're sexy and gorgeous and all that stuff. And that's pretty admirable even. But as a fetish, just no way. I think it's kind of weird. But to each their own, I guess.I get most kinks.. OK maybe not poo/pee and amputation..
But pregnancy as a kink in RP?
I've been preggers twice. Neither time was it particularly sexy or arousing. Pain, aches, loss of control of various bodily functions. Insane horomone swings and lets not get into the actual ordeal that is birth. Wionderful act of sharing my arse! puking, pooing myself, trying to squeeze a fecking bowling ball thoruhg my lady parts while my hubby 'shared the experience' .
It seems to be a very common 'like' for men. So I am just wondering, why? Come on guys, enlighten me.
This. Definitely the whole "impregnation" part being the kink and the "pregnancy" being the side affect. When I think of pregnancy as a fetish or kink, it's usually done in such a way that the normal intricacies of pregnancy(soreness, swelling of limbs, morning sickness) are more or less thrown out the window. Like there's something magical at play that either speeds up the gestation periods or makes it so being pregnant is actually euphoric and addicting in its own right. This is the only way pregnancy and impregnation, in my warped peanut of a mind, can be looked at as a fetish. Same with the whole "pumping a big load into someone, willing or not, or having it done to you" part. Super power play move there. Doesn't mean the after effects have to be taken into consideration, depending on the plot, the players, and all that junk. RPing out the whole doctor visits, months of nausea, and so on and so forth, no thank you. But personally it's looked at as a "cherry on top" type of kink for me. It's not at all going to make it or break it and if the other individual wants to include it, sure, awesome sauce! If not, no biggie whatsoever.As someone who does have this as a kink, I can weigh in a little bit.
There's something primally satisfying about the idea of making a new life. At its base, there's just something about losing control of oneself and pumping a big load into someone, willing or not, or having it done to you. On top of that, there's a narrative satisfaction to it; for some stories, it's a powerplay thing (knocking up a female superhero to take that piece off the board for close to a year). For others, it's a nice culmination of romance. It's sort of a narrative catharsis, something to be led to.
For me, the kink is about the impregnation itself, not the idea of playing out the full pregnancy. It's not really a terribly glamorous thing after all, for the reasons more than one person has brought up. But there's a lot of narrative weight that can be ascribed to it, and it's a potent mix along with the aforementioned primal satisfaction of conception.
That's what it strikes me as, anyway.