darkangel76 said:
Well, the main reason I included the tenses is because I've come across people who do actually utilize past vs present and...I prefer past. lol! So, I wanted to differentiate that for people since I know it's important to me and figured it might be for others. >.<
Tenses still seem ok to be, it feels like it's pretty basic stuff. From my part, I would be cool with it, I share in the preference of past tense so I get what you mean. (Then again, I recently started roleplaying with someone who writes in present tense while I write in past tense and it's going swell! xD)
That said I do get that some people might not like it? I suppose this set of tags as a whole might seem a bit much for the very casual roleplayer, who doesn't have such specific preferences, or something? I really don't know and I don't know how to address that. o.o
darkangel76 said:
People who prefer to use limited, in my own experiences as an RPer (and I'm talking about RP here, NOT writing a novel...that is a different way of writing), are those who don't particularly care to write side characters or multiple characters in any way.
Lurker said:
This is a sweeping generalization that is very unfair to those of us that prefer to prefer to flesh out our side characters through the perception filter of the main ones.
:/ I really have to agree with Lurker here, this is an unfair generalization. I mostly write in third person limited and have plenty of fun with side characters all the same.
Heck, I've played with people who write omniscient and they cared much less about side characters than me. They, in fact, used this style of writing to instead invite themselves to MY character (as in describing thoughts and feelings and such things that really should be left to me), which made me terribly uncomfortable and annoyed. But even if that's the majority of my experience, I don't automatically assume people who use omniscient will do that - that'd be unfair.
Also, what about people who mix it? What about switching points of view, where does that fall? I just realized I don't even know! Indeed, there's the matter that multiple main characters are different from secondary characters. When it comes to the first I'm likely to keep switching points of view, in the latter they'll be portrayed through the main character's eyes.
I mention this in part because the matter of some sort of tag for multiple characters has been brought up...And this is getting characters mixed up with writing voice. This also applies to the whole self-insert thing.
My point is (or rather, remains), though, that the omniscient/limited part may be a bit much. And if exploration of characters is the concern then it's really unwarranted. o.o
darkangel76 said:
Now, the reason I included self-insert was because you can be in the middle of discussing your plot. Things can be great! (...) Then......they tell you that they want your character to have your traits and likewise their character will have their own. Suddenly.....it's a self-insert and possibly a deal breaker. Wouldn't it have been nice to know this ahead of time? I don't know, but I would. Or maybe that's just me. >///<
Ariamella said:
Please and thank you. That is a nasty surprise, especially when it's sprung on you last minute, or they creep it into the story thinking you won't notice. I'd much rather know about it in the beginning and decline politely, as opposed to having it come out of nowhere. There is no "right" way to roleplay, and I imagine many people like self-inserting, so it's a nice distinction to make.
Don't get me wrong, I hate this too. Honestly I get uncomfortable when someone uses "I" and "you" as opposed to "my character" and "your character", even only while talking out a roleplay. I've found a lot of people do it just because it's simpler and what not, but it does take a bit of an effort to not immediately assume they'll blur the two and refuse to roleplay on that alone. @.@
Anyway, all that aside, self-insert really is more a character thing than a writing voice or style. Self-Inserters can write in third or first person, any tense. I'm not particularly against making a tag for Self-Insert, I just don't think it belongs with those. o.o
Ariamella said:
I've had this same problem in the past, where people don't like developing other characters besides their main, so I totally agree with the need to differentiate. But I'm wondering whether we should just add a tag like [Multi Character] or something, because not everyone is going to want to know or care about the actual writing perspectives. But most people know what you mean when you say you want to write as or against multiple characters.
Lurker said:
Also, side-characters are not the same as multiple main characters. For example, when writing side characters I am able able to ignore some of my turn-offs and oblige some of my writing partner's kinks that I would not be able to do with my main character. If you want to differentiate between those that write multiple characters and those that have a single main one, I suggest a separate tag.
There may be enough concerns as to characters to justify another set of tags. Self insert would work fine here. But...this is a really broad thing with a lot of nuance to put into a closed set of tags. x.x
Are we talking multiple main characters? Side characters?
MxFxF and the like already imply multiple main characters for those specific instances, but then...What, there'd also have to be a tag for multiple pairings. Then there's having more main character who aren't in pairings.
This isn't even getting into side characters...Would we have tags for people who are willing to play side characters, but you know, in the sense of "the waitress getting their order" "hired goon number 8" , because when I talk to people about side characters, a lot of them mean those. Would we have a whole other tag for people who make full fledged secondary characters? What about those who are OKAY with it but rather focus on main characters, or various other levels of preference?
It's just...like I said, it really seems like too broad a thing to put into a set of closed tags.
It's one of those things that if you try to cover all options, it's too much, if you make something general, it leaves a lot of room for confusion and misinterpretation.
Ariamella said:
Lurker said:
I have some comments about the proposed tags:
A tag like [MxF] does not indicate whether the person wants to play the M or the F. Similarly, [MxFxF+] does not indicate if they want to play the M , an F which is a part of a group, or multiple Fs. Ideally, we should have a clear indication of both the gender(s) that the person wishes to play, and the desired pairings.
It could be done by having the person's gender always be first in the tag, so [MxF] will be distinct from [FxM] and [MxFxF+] will be distinct from [FxMxF+]; or by splitting the tags into "self" and "looking for", so [MxF] will be split into [Self:M] and [LF:F]
Well the request threads are separated by "Request Threads by Female/Male/Other," so if I place my req thread in the Request Threads by Females sub-forum and tag it as [MxF], I think it would be safe to assume that I am playing the female due to the request thread section it is placed in.
Similarly, there is an actual Group Request Thread section, although I can see how the [MxFxF+] tag might get confusing. I wonder if it would be simpler then to have a tag like [MultiChara], so we know that it's one person playing multiple characters, and also that they DO like playing multiple characters even though they like writing through the perception of their main character.
Yeah, as 1x1s go, unless for some reason they change the request thread forum, it's pretty well covered.
Groups...I guess that's something that might be more complicated. o.o I'm not in the group section a lot so I didn't even think of it. When I do think about it I admit what first comes to mind is the more...open types of group RP. But there are probably people looking for, for example, MxFxF (like someone who wishes to play a male character and find two partners to play female characters).
I'm very use to the whole "MxF" and "FxF" and what not and am totally ok with it, but I suppose a thing like what Lurker suggests, like "Looking for: M" "LF: F" "LF: Multiple Males" (and Multiple Futa, Multiple Other, etc) could cover more ground?
I have no idea about [Variable], I think [Other] kind of covers it. But I don't know.
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CharmSnake said:
I don't think it's necessary, but that's just me. I don;t have problems matching kinks or writing style when I actually READ request threads.
See this is the thing! I still don't think there's a need for that many tags aside from the basics, because they'll be applied to actual threads where people will elaborate! You want people to read the threads! Not see a hundred tags and assume they know everything the person wants. o.o