Sometimes things get complicated and what is important get lost along the way. We get caught up in who likes us, who does not, and pay too much attention to undertones looking for reasons to think that other person is being unjust. Those feelings become long help grudges, and the original intent is lost somewhere along the way, leaving only deep rooted pain, where it never should have been to begin with. Don't let time distort things out of proportion, I suppose would be the moral to take.
Still, sometimes it's those same little things that can brighten a mood so very much. I've been MIA from the site for some time now, because of financial issues, my work schedule, and a number of people in my family falling very ill. For some time my husband and I were worried that we would lose our home, and in just the blink of the eye, everything started falling in place. Now my husband is employed again, albeit for short hours. I am finding my place at my work, despite having no ability to waitress whatsoever. The business cards that I designed and ordered a few weeks ago for them came in today. When I went to deliver the small package, found myself reimbursed for what I spent ((Which I did not expect)), and given a free meal for myself and my daughter. It was nice to feel that the efforts I put in are appreciated, and I am so happy that I've found a job that I look forward to going to each day... Even if the hours are insane.