Meh, maybe I'm too naive or something.
I met this guy through a mutual friend of mine. He seemed... okay. He asked me if I was single, to which I told him I was not interested in a relationship what-so-ever, because I have feelings for another person and I'm not interested in other people. I always get that one part out of the way, to lessen complications. In any case he said he understood and that it was cool and asked if I wanted to hang out and chill. I told him I'd be okay with that, since he seemed to grasp my situation.
He came over to pick me up and we just chilled, talked, and watched a couple of movies at his place. In the conversations I had with him there, he mentioned that he never has to worry about money since he has an inheritance. I didn't say anything, since I honestly didn't care. xD He also mentioned that he had cancer and was dying. I felt bad, but I.. kinda shrugged it off, since I didn't know what to say about that. >_>;
The next day, I got a text from asking, "When was the last time you fucked a guy?" I shrugged it off, thinking maybe he meant to send that to some other girl or something. It's not uncommon to happen, and plus I already told him I wasn't interested in anything like that with him.
Yesterday, I get a text from him asking what I was doing, who was I with, and where I was at. I told him I was at home, hanging with my brother and playing video games. He then asked, "Why don't u have someone come over?" I said it was fine, as long as he didn't wake my mom and her boyfriend up. I also told him we'd be hanging out in my brother's room, since that has all the entertainment electronics. It's a giant basement, so it's the perfect place for a computer, xbox, bunch of TVs. Even has a mini fridge filled with alcohol (didn't tell him that part, but you catch my drift). xD
My brother and I start tidying up the basement a bit, since it can get messy.
I then get a text from the guy saying, "I'm saying y don't u have someone come over and give u a good lay.
" I kept my cool, saying that I'm not into quickies. He then said, "Then will u do me a favor bb?" I kinda snapped, saying that I don't have sex, I don't sleep around, I don't give out pictures, I don't do sexual acts or anything of the sorts with people like him. Because that stuff is reserved for the person I
love (not to be confused with getting marriage). He said, "I was gonna ask u if u wanted to date. But u don't ove me and prolly won't b4 I die."
I don't remember what I said; I just know I was really angry and disgusted at him. I deleted and blocked him from everything after that event. Texts, IM, Facebook, phone calls... Did I mention I've only known this guy for two weeks. I know. He moves fast. >____>
Is it so hard to find a guy that won't try to get into my pants? :/ I mean, I have a lot of friends who are guys. And they are really good friends, at that. I've always had this idea that if I let guys know where I stand upfront, that there won't be problems later on down the line. I'm general nice towards guys who tell me they want to be with me, or like me. I just gently let them down, so I won't hurt their feelings. I don't like hurting people's feelings, really. x.x But I refuse to have someone make me feel guilty for not being with them because they are "dieing."
In any case, I have awesome frozen yogurt/ice cream. x3 Wild Berry Frozen Yogurt, ftw.