Some people prefer to play against people of specific genders. I know that I find other female role players very imaginative, and sometimes they write more interesting male characters than male role players do. I wouldn't accuse someone who was using Blue Moon as it was intended, as a place to find others to RP with, of treating it as a "meat market" or harassing people. That's really quite rude, and not a constructive or welcoming thing to say to a new member. Even if she does use chat speak in her profile. :-|