Whats the biggest turn off in an RP?

[CuteDragon]

Communication.

I'm not the fastest at getting replies out and sometimes It's easy to forget key details etc. so having an OOC to discuss options, suggest moves while still keeping some surprise is fun.

I hate it when people get annoyed about things in an RP when they have not communicated things are not quite right early one. If we chat OOC I'm super flexible and happy to adapt a fair bit within the limits, but they just don't ask!

 

[Kiku]

Repeating my post back to me in other words and not moving the scene forward.

This.
I've experienced this so many times in the past. It makes me feel like I'm doing all the work alone, like I'm writing a solo story. It's so boring ... and takes the joy out of writing.

 

[Baka]

There are some great ones already in here that are definitely a turn-off for me too, but one that I think is people compeltely glossing over what I have written or asked of them. Nothing makes my motivation drop to zero faster than people not bothering to read my message and reply simple questions to keep brainstorming moving, and it is the #1 reason that usually makes me drop the planning if it happends multiple times in a row or I have to keep repeating the same questions over and over again.

Another one is people who completely gloss-over planning the plot and just jump straight demanding what kinks they wish to see and what my character should look like. I have gotten requests from people that outright say that if my character is not having extremely huge breasts and hourglass figure in the style of Eichiro Oda they won't even consider playing with me since my character needs to be a turn-on for them and not for the character who gets with MC. I get that people have preferences and I try to respect them, but there's a difference in saying "I prefer body type X and Y and I would aprpeciate if your character would be either of those" and "Oh god fat titties turn me on so much! I can't get immersed in our RP if the character does not have huge breasts! ". If I feel like I am made to jerk someone off instead of writing an immersive story that includes smutty fun then that is a huge turn-off for me.

 

[Victorian_Virtue]

Okay, I am on a roll. People who want to "brainstorm" which consists of them asking you question after question. Finally, you get the "yeah, I'm great, can you post first"

You do all that to get a two sentence response.

 

[Lockdown]

One liners or simply ignoring what I wrote. Sure, it happens sometimes that you forget a detail. Nobody is perfect and I’ve definitely done the same. But when my character’s actions are constantly being ignored I might as well be writing solo. Also grammar. I mess up sometimes too since I know what I want to say but fail to type it out correctly, but when I can’t read what you’re trying to convey then we’ve got a problem because now your post is multiple choice depending on the context.