Fx Any long-term smutty worldbuilding (NSFW Links)

[betrus2019]

UP-FRONT DISCLAIMER: When I say 'long-term', I mean it. I am a busy person between work and family obligations and I am not online every day. If you are looking for something with a relaxed pace, where you can mull ideas over and respond when you are in the mood with no one rushing you, we could be a great fit. If you need a quick back-and-forth to hold interest, I will be an impossibly frustrating partner for you.

What I'm looking for is a little different, in that I am more interested in building worlds than in telling stories. Don't get me wrong, there's lots of room for stories, but what I'm really after is thinking through societies whose sexual mores and customs are different to ours (either more or just differently permissive). These societies can be macrocosms (whole countries, for example) or microcosms (a particular community, family, religious movement, etc). Whatever the scale, the focus is on exploring a way of life into which sex fits differently than in our culture, rather than focusing on the experiences of particular characters. When we do "zoom in" on that level, the result will be generally slice-of-life 'porn-with-plot'—lots of thought behind the setting and background but mostly sex-focused writing. I particularly enjoy the challenge of making these worlds plausible. Sex zombie viruses and experimental drugs are so overdone... I love imagining how a society could really 'get there from here' (or from some other point in history) through natural cultural forces.

If that sounds interesting, check out the details below...

Themes

These are some of the broad themes I think would be fun to explore. Feel free to mix and match or to suggest others, too!

• Keeping It Casual — What if humans were just a little less like chimpanzees (get mad and throw things) and a little more like bonobos (work it out with a circle-jerk)? These are societies in which people wouldn't be any more shocked at your masturbating in a public place than at your sneezing; bodies just have needs. People go at it when and where they need to, and if it makes you uncomfortable you can move. In this world, porn is in ordinary magazines and regular TV while even family movies have hardcore sex scenes, flirtation leaves nothing to the imagination, and no one would think it strange if you said hello to an old friend you saw unexpectedly across the restaurant.
• Sharing is Caring — These are societies that might seem a little more reserved in public than a 'casual' world, but in private it's a different matter. Sharing your partner with others is how you make friends and how you keep them, serving as the currency of social introductions and the seal of close friendships. Inviting someone to your home is automatically considered an offer for use of your partner, and anything from a handjob to a bareback ride is just good hospitality. If played in a microcosm (a particular apartment building within an otherwise normal city, say) this could have an aspect of transgression; in a macrocosmic setting it's probably so automatic that no one would think of being so rude as to keep one's spouse to oneself. Likewise, in the former, the 'sharee'(s) might be hesitant at first, while in the latter he or she wouldn't bat an eye. In either case, a good time is had by all in the end.
• Families That Play Together... — These are worlds in which teens breastfeed and sex is as ordinary an expression of familial love as a hug. Sex education is expected to occur at home in a hands-on fashion, it is considered perfectly normal that a young man or young woman's first relationships will be with family members, and facilitating your adult child's rite of passage is just part of the responsibilities of a good parent. Experimentation within the family is encouraged as a means of promoting close family bonds and healthy attitudes toward sex.
• A Sense of the Sacred — In these societies, sex is a religious matter. Maybe it's a remote tribe living close to nature and practicing an ancient fertility cult. It could be a coven that summons succubi, offers its members to incubi, or serves demons. What about a rare order of nuns who take a special vow of obedience to their divine husband's earthly representatives, receive the Eucharist in unusual forms, and train their novitiates to follow in their tradition? Or perhaps a small Amish town so fearful of the moral corruption of the outside world that it has been forced to keep its marriages inside the family? The supernatural can be a real force inside these worlds, or just a belief that justifies their rituals and practices.

Kinks

Other Kinks/Limits
In addition to the themes above, these are other kinks that I enjoy including in any world:

• group sex, blowbangs, gangbangs, threesomes, foursomes, swapping, multiple penetration, etc.
• cum play, cumshots, cum baths, cum on food, wearing cum, cum kisses, bukkake, excessive cum, multiple ejaculations, general sloppiness
• risk of pregnancy, impregnation, pregnancy
• public sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, taking pictures
• cheating, risk of being caught
• being drunk and other forms of impaired judgement
• corruption, sluttification, getting cumdrunk, ahegao
• big tits / dicks / balls
• blowjobs, ball worship, handjobs, masturbation, and eating pussy (like, a lot)
• tit fucking, lactation, nipples
• women on top
• bi play (but MxM really only in group settings where a woman initiates it or because she likes to watch)
• dirty talk, confessions
• pools, saunas, hot tubs, glory holes, surprise sex, domestic settings and sex during housework
• t-girls

My limits are BDSM, gore/vore, and anytging toilet-related.

Formats

Since the focus is primarily on imagining worlds, there are a range of different formats that could be fun to experiment with (a traditional RP can be fun too, though):

• Epistolary — This could be an imaginary penpal exchange between two people living in our world, or between people living in different worlds (someone from an incestuous family, for example, with someone in a community that shares spouses). It could also take a more slice-of-life text exchange form.
• Vignettes — These could just be short standalone stories set within our shared world, or have a framing gimmick (news reports from our imagined society, for example). Long-form captions on gifs could be fun here, too.
• Fictional Nonfiction — This is probably the most experimental category. Histories of imagined kingdoms, anthropological studies of fantastical tribes, travel guides to fictional countries, catechisms and liturgies of dreamt-up sex cults... whatever else we might think of!

If you think you might be game for some extremely nerdy, smutty worldbuilding fun, drop me a line!