A kink list is optional. If I'm being honest, everything is optional, in my opinion. As long as you are eager to write, you are ready to roleplay, though a kink list definitely aids in finding roleplay partners. However, noting your name is grey at the moment, you will not be able to PM other members until it turns blue (24-hour wait period). In the meantime, feel free to create a request thread or two or simply browse through the site to check out the ongoing roleplays of others.