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Story/Plot based writing-- ?

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So, while I write erotic scenes in stories, more often than not, when I'm in the mood to roleplay, I'm not looking for "smut" themed topics. I don't write around kinks, that's not my style.

When I joined BMR, I'd left a PG-13 site, not wanting limitations when I created adventures and stories of a budding romances. This site popped up in my google search. I do love it here but- I feel like I read that wear are an "adult writing forum" you know? Not "porn, but with words."

I'm not asking BMR to change; maybe just grow a little?

Is it at all possible to create a request forum for "Story-based roleplays" specifically, that focus on plot while smut takes a backseat?

While the current Female, Male and NB, etc are okay, the RT titles alone that are being bumped most frequently are of a certain taste that are far more lewd than mine. And those tend to build up quickly. Searching for story-based partners in a sea of that has proven difficult. Even if you try to search for key-words there, you might not find active people, or the right keywords?

Anyway, thanks. Just figured I'd put this here. Sorry if I'm annoying.
-Jum
 
I think isolating Discord/chat requests will level the field a bit.
 
I am actually perfectly fine with such a romance-centric story, myself, despite Discord being an option. No solution is absolute or universal.
 
I agree that this would be a pretty good idea!

I know story focused might be something of a minority here, but I also know there’s plenty of people around who fit the bill, myself included. It’s almost kind of daunting to look for these likeminded individuals in the request threads, however, as the vast majority are kink based and bury the ones that aren’t rather quickly. I could definitely go for some organization there, as the search can be exhausting sometimes.
 
I mean, I will admit that I do write smut, but it's in addition to the story...not instead of it. Like, even the longest-running smutfests I've done have been between people who share a genuine connection and at some point they will slow down but they're newly in love or what have you and it's like, yeah.
 
I guess I was just saying that sometimes smut can have a purpose, or be part of a grander story even if it's drawn out.
I don’t think Jum is saying that smut can’t have a place in the story, just that there could be better organization of request threads that focus on Kinks where smut is the main idea vs. something more story centric.

Like she said, Bluemoon is a great website for adult oriented writing, often that can and does include smut, but there’s a difference between stories involving smut and smut being the main focus. And the balance is heavily weighed towards the latter when searching RT’s.
 
I wish there's a way to mark RTs as 'seen' and have a filter option where I can remove all the 'marked' RTs from view.

That way, if I already browsed something and do not consider myself a compatible writer with that poster, I can ensure that RT & all subsequent bumps won't cause such a cluster.

I'm aware I can block individual users to hide their content, but that seems extreme when I have nothing against these people? And I don't want to hide all content, just RTs.

That would be my proposed alternative workaround to this story/smut thing.
 
Right, like, if you could have the links change colors, or not be bold anymore. Or just make them disappear altogether.*
Something like that could even help with trying to pick through the RTs just to find a partner that suits you.

But I do still think that a separate section for those that want more plot based content could be beneficial.
Or like Veks said, even just a place where people can post for their off-site content that doesn't clog up the RTs?
 
I've accepted zero smut roleplays in the past here and it's been just fine, we used the general forum to write it I think. While I get the desire for a place for such things, I think the best way to find non-smut roleplays is in your request thread and even specifying that it's low-zero smut in the title. While in an ideal world I think it would be nice to have a place just for those kinds of roleplays I do have to wonder exactly how active they would be. Since how much is a little is a subjective thing I would assume that it wouldn't be a "Little smut" forum and would be a "no smut" forum instead, and I might just be pessimistic but I don't see much use in it when it can be taken care of just as easily through your request thread. Perhaps a tag to be used in the title would be better? We have ones for Male seeking female and Female seeking male, I'd love to see more diversity in those and perhaps a Story > smut tag?
 
I'm not saying that I'm not writing erotic scenes at all to be clear. This is about plot-based writing in general.
And obviously people that want that already DO that anyway.

We have sections for other things, so I don't understand what the headache would be.
If system-based can have its own section I don't see why you couldn't have

"story-based writing: Requests for those that prefer book/novel styled writing that may feature erotic scenes"
 
Anyway, it's not a big deal. Veks already saw this and said what he said.
 
If I remember correctly, the forum used to have a section for non-sexual RPs? I believe we also had two separate request threads for short and long-term stories at some point?

However, a short-term story may still have a detailed plot. Similarly, a long-term RP doesn't necessarily mean there wouldn't be erotic moments in it. Perhaps there could be a new prefix for plot-centric requests? To make it easier to spot them at a single glance. On the other hand, having a new section for such requests might be more convenient.
 
I would also enjoy a section for more story centric RPs. I enjoy sex scenes in my roleplays... Which is why I enjoy 18+ roleplay sites. But to me, the sex is a garnish. Not the meal. I browse the RT sections daily but find myself discouraged when it's so difficult to sift through the abundance of smut/kink centric requests. It's like searching for a needle in a haystack.
 
We had a section like that on the site before, as WaveVelour pointed out. Instead of plot or story based, it was non-sexual. There's a distinction there, but they served fundamentally the same role, although they don't technically. I don't think it was very active. Whether or not a section of the forum is active or not should not necessarily determine if it should be omitted from the forum. There may still be some people that use it at some point, and there isn't much harm in it being around. At worst it'll make the site look more dead than it actually is if there are sections of the forum with very little to no activity.

That being said, I don't think that it's a particularly good idea. It sends a message the rest of the forum isn't about writing, but is instead about smut. It propagates the idea that it's a meat-market and is intended for people to find "hawt virtual fuk". I've always seen BMR as a message board for adults to role-play, where they are free to play what they want. It just so happens that the popular thing is a whole lot of smutty and porn-centric writing.

I feel a much better solution would be filtering and search enhancements, but I understand how that can be difficult to implement.

An easier implementation would be the previously mentioned section specifically for off-site role-playing. That will attract the attention of many people that are just looking for smut and cybering. Let them all have their own pit to roll around in if that's what they want. I don't think it will be effective, because it would just allow those people to cast a wider net and give them more search threads.

A more extreme step would be to rebrand the site entirely by sectioning of a specific subforum for erotic role-play. It'll then be understood that BMR is a website for general role-playing and writing, but it does have an area for erotic and sexual oriented content. This avoids the problem of the website being seen as smut first, and might encourage more writers that are interested in writing instead of getting off to come out of the wood work. The main role-playing parts of the forum would then be, at least loosely, enforced as non-sexual.

Then again, it might achieve absolutely nothing. I've been on websites where sexual content was prohibited, but once things moved to PMs then the façade was dropped. There is still nothing stopping people from posting in every section of the site with somewhat modified threads, all with the intention of guiding the role-play in the direction they want. That might sound stupid and inefficient, but I'm sure the staff here can tell you all about how many of the users here act and what they try to get away with.

A bigger problem then emerges. Are we then going to police what constitutes a "story and plot" role-play versus a role-play that is just smut? Someone else in this thread brought up that it's quite possible to have a very smutty role-play that plays to story and plot quite well. The two things are not mutually exclusive, and you can have your cake and eat it too. Sure the staff can certainly be the arbiter of what is and isn't story and plot based, but that starts to sound super controlling to me. I feel like most people like BMR, because it's relaxed and relatively safe with good staffing. Nobody is judging you and putting a leash on what you can play, with exception to the very lenient and reasonable rules. Nobody is told they can't make a search thread somewhere, because they don't live up to some arbitrary and subjective standard.

What's the ratio of smut to plot that puts smut on the back seat? How do you enforce something like that? Is there some kind of objective standard?

The only way I see this being done is if there is a section of the site dedicated to smut or erotic role-playing; and BMR is rebranded as writing and role-playing first, and adult role-playing second. In order to avoid subjective regulation of what is and isn't, the non-erotic part of the website would have to be specifically enforced as non-sexual. Then again, maybe the topic creator's idea will work out very well, and there isn't much of a discussion to be made. That just banks on the users of BMR using the site with all of that in mind. I'm just pessimistic and don't think it'll quite work out like that. I fully expect people to be sneaky and take advantage of the system in order to put out more request threads while still, essentially, seeking out the same thing.

Ask yourself, how many partners have you had that were seeking plot and story ended up disappointing you with quick jumps to smut? Happens to me all of the time.
 
I really can't see where the problem lies... the mods will not ban or censure you for doing a RP that has no sex happen it or is plot heavy and smut light.

Incidentally does the term "adult" necessarily have to mean sex-based? An advanced technical work on astrophysics for example might be intended for an adult audience but very few people would fap to it!
 
Incidentally does the term "adult" necessarily have to mean sex-based? An advanced technical work on astrophysics for example might be intended for an adult audience but very few people would fap to it!

No, it doesn't...but in the broader sense, referring to something as "adult" typically indicates that the referenced item/work is not suitable for minors.

Your example of Advanced Astrophysics could still be openly read by minors, even if they don't understand a word of it.
 
No, it doesn't...but in the broader sense, referring to something as "adult" typically indicates that the referenced item/work is not suitable for minors.

Your example of Advanced Astrophysics could still be openly read by minors, even if they don't understand a word of it.
True, but you asked someone "Is this a kids or an adults book" the answer would be obvious.
 
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