Raz, I never said you did or didn't. I was speaking of just myself. I mean, it's not that I don't want to... but I'm usually too busy typing to, you know, take care of myself. I usually get my satisfaction looking back at my leisure after the fact, anyway, so I don't have to worry about typing, you know, during.
And you're right, Ruby, I hadn't thought about it from that angle. I'm kind of a giver, so it's really good for me to arouse and please someone else; that's what's hot for ME. I guess I just presume if my partner's getting off, it's good for them, too.
Since you bring it up, and I'm conversational, there has been a time or two that I've let partners take care of me with their words. And I've loved it, every time. I just find it hotter to be the one giving the arousal, I suppose.
So, is that what you find hottest, then? <makes another mark on the clipboard> Okay, anyone else with any input?