I sort of agree with Ducky here - I mean, isn't it sorta nice to be nominated at least? I mean, that's a vote of confidence in and of itself. It's all in good fun, really. I mean, I haven't been nominated and I don't really care. It's not worth getting upset over for those of us who haven't been nominated. Is it a tad like a popularity contest? I guess so, but it's still all in good fun, I feel. It's sorta how the whole world works, so. ><
Honestly I nominated Ruby because I think she's lovely overall... But, if she's so against the idea of being in, I don't think it's fair to force her hand in participation. That, and I won't repost a picture of her - it's not my picture to post, so. I mean, yes, she already posted it, but... I dunno. I don't feel comfortable with that. I sorta agree that perhaps the nominees should have to post their own pictures and agree to it... Forcing somebody into the contest seems a little... Eh.
In the end I think it's just BM being silly, just having a little fun.
I apologize for having upset you, Ruby, if that's what happened - I really didn't mean it. I figured a nomination was a nice thing, nothing bad. I meant no harm.