DigiFalcon
Chasing rainbows is more fun
- Joined
- Aug 7, 2019
~Welcome~
Hi there! Thank you for taking the time to read my ramblings. Since we all invest a lot of time/energy in RP, I think we ought to have some disclosure at the start. It should be the bare minimum that each of us expect in our partner. Well, here are mine...
- You must be a female IRL. Sorry guys, no matter how good you are at playing female... it just weirds me out : )
- Your character must be curvy. (No skinny... No fat/too chubby. You could play out every kink that I crave to the dot and it would do nothing for me if YC is skinny or too fat).
It's like me insisting on using Lyle Lovett or Marilyn Manson or Jack Black.... with a 'petite penis'. I am willing to bet the farm, it ain't gonna cut it for most, if not all of you [women] lol. Having said that... I can play any male body type you prefer... any face claim. Absolutely no preference.
Most female partners prefer bigger penis, muscular body, taller, mostly dominant etc male protagonist..... we men also have our preferences and I think that is fair.
Think of Kate Winslet (Titanic) as reference. In one word.... voluptuous (nothing hyper).
On a related note, you must enjoy pics/gifs. If you can't reciprocate - that is perfectly fine, you are not required. I have enough for the both of us. [I am not talking about just pure porn/sex images - often we can build an entire sub plot from one 'scene pic' that I will share]. I enjoy the visual stimulus they provide in addition to written details.
- YC must be a switch, ideally. Not complete sub. (Nothing wrong with being a sub in general, as long as she is not a doormat).
- Please don't be a grammar Nazi. We are not getting paid or competing for a Pulitzer Prize lol. That being said, basic grammar and legibility is required (if English is not your 1st language). No chatspeak (even when texting in the RP). Words make RP look beautiful or ugly.
- Your character must be curvy. (No skinny... No fat/too chubby. You could play out every kink that I crave to the dot and it would do nothing for me if YC is skinny or too fat).
It's like me insisting on using Lyle Lovett or Marilyn Manson or Jack Black.... with a 'petite penis'. I am willing to bet the farm, it ain't gonna cut it for most, if not all of you [women] lol. Having said that... I can play any male body type you prefer... any face claim. Absolutely no preference.
Most female partners prefer bigger penis, muscular body, taller, mostly dominant etc male protagonist..... we men also have our preferences and I think that is fair.
Think of Kate Winslet (Titanic) as reference. In one word.... voluptuous (nothing hyper).
On a related note, you must enjoy pics/gifs. If you can't reciprocate - that is perfectly fine, you are not required. I have enough for the both of us. [I am not talking about just pure porn/sex images - often we can build an entire sub plot from one 'scene pic' that I will share]. I enjoy the visual stimulus they provide in addition to written details.
- YC must be a switch, ideally. Not complete sub. (Nothing wrong with being a sub in general, as long as she is not a doormat).
- Please don't be a grammar Nazi. We are not getting paid or competing for a Pulitzer Prize lol. That being said, basic grammar and legibility is required (if English is not your 1st language). No chatspeak (even when texting in the RP). Words make RP look beautiful or ugly.
- No scat [light water-sports maybe], BDSM, futas, furries, beastiality, blood/gore (except violence with villains if need be), no pre-teens/infants (16 and older only).
- No rape (unless done as a prank/RP within RP scene), bully/torture, blackmail (exception bad guys of course).
- No....hentai/hand-scribbled images please. Here we mostly have words (and pics) to arouse our minds and that's why I prefer YC (at least the main one) to have an hour glass figure. (I do enjoy anatomically correct drawn images and erotic comics, from which we can often get plot ideas).
- No rape (unless done as a prank/RP within RP scene), bully/torture, blackmail (exception bad guys of course).
- No....hentai/hand-scribbled images please. Here we mostly have words (and pics) to arouse our minds and that's why I prefer YC (at least the main one) to have an hour glass figure. (I do enjoy anatomically correct drawn images and erotic comics, from which we can often get plot ideas).
- Mutual flirting/ teasing/ antics/ cute drama/ romance - Exhibitionism/voyeurism (both knowingly and accidental)
- Humor/ pun/ innuendos/ playful sarcasm/ dirty witty talks (implicit and explicit)
- Excuse/ justification with 'logical reason' to avoid embarrassment/ little white lies (when almost caught)
- Delaying the intercourse and focusing on slow/gradual character and plot build up. Note - We can still have all kinds of smut in the meantime; exploring and enjoying our kinks without coitus. I prefer build up/hesitancy/denial (even after sex)... that way it never gets 'too obvious', boring or routine. This should be refreshing since guys usually are...... in a hurry. : )
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Smut Kinks:
- Story driven, ass groping, sex in different positions and places (also public), face sitting, hot dogging, spanks, 'accidental sex', hand/oral jobs, orgasm denial, edging, having a serious conversation during sex, vanilla and rough, uniforms, clothed sex, YC changing clothes with MC turned around, YC wearing just a man's shirt.
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Roleplay format and mechanics - (Whether we RP or not, the following WILL help you in a better roleplaying experience and finding the right partner).
Format - A main plot with numerous sub plots/scenes. First or third person perspective (no preference). I can also do one shots as long as it is not pure smut (there has to be some decent build up and story line).
Mechanics - I tend to use (mostly linked) pic references for scenes.... as I find them visually pleasing and stimulating. So if you enjoy images as well, that's a big plus. Images will seldom be 'scene perfect'... as long as they convey the general idea. It's kind of like...... reading a novel and watching it in movie form at the same time.
Also, images are worth 1000s of words. For instance, you can describe a house/room/car in 5 paras or you can use a pic and still be detailed but needing far less verbiage; leaving room for other things like dialogues, character interactions etc. Those who dont use images or prefer not to, are missing out big time.
Moving plot ahead
Time factor: I enjoy detailed scenes but also like for the plot to be moved forward by days, weeks, months or even years if need be, instead of being stuck in one scene for pages. It gives a streamlined effect even if RP is short to medium term. Build ups in the beginning should be ideally rapid mini scenes.
Speaking of moving plot ahead...... yes, we have to repeat parts of the scene in our replies and yes, we all get writers block, but you should be able to end your post with at least a question or an action... which I can use to move it forward.
Same goes for me. If this happens too often, just discuss the next scene in OOC and I will give you plenty to work with. I am never in short supply when it comes to making up mini scenes. : )
It defeats the purpose of roleplaying if one partner completely controls the other. Might as well be RPing alone. That's not what I am talking about. Since RP partners are both co-author and audience, I believe partial god-modding should be allowed.
Often, a current scene can be more meaningful and complete if my partner controlled some minor action of MC (not thoughts or emotions), especially when the act is something that is normally expected or is something that humans usually do.
For instance, if YC says or does something and we both know what MC's reaction would/should be (maybe we talked about it in OOC beforehand).... like you might reply '...they both did a double take and he (MC) gave her a slight nod (or a wink).....'. Some would have a heart attack if this was done to their character lol... and probably would even stop RPing. That's just silly.
It's not a problem when RPing 'live'. There, you can give a reply and wait for your partner to give a reaction shortly, and then complete a scene. But when RPing offline by PMs, email etc.... there's no reason to wait for hours, or days or even a week to get that simple reaction just to move forward.
Often, a current scene can be more meaningful and complete if my partner controlled some minor action of MC (not thoughts or emotions), especially when the act is something that is normally expected or is something that humans usually do.
For instance, if YC says or does something and we both know what MC's reaction would/should be (maybe we talked about it in OOC beforehand).... like you might reply '...they both did a double take and he (MC) gave her a slight nod (or a wink).....'. Some would have a heart attack if this was done to their character lol... and probably would even stop RPing. That's just silly.
It's not a problem when RPing 'live'. There, you can give a reply and wait for your partner to give a reaction shortly, and then complete a scene. But when RPing offline by PMs, email etc.... there's no reason to wait for hours, or days or even a week to get that simple reaction just to move forward.
Backstory -
I really love this mechanism! This really helps out when for instance the current mini scene is mostly about your partner's actions. Sure you can make it rain (for no reason), talk about birds or describe the walls to death just to give the reply some substance.... but instead of all that, just give a nice backstory that actually happened. It will add depth to the character, plot and also a nice way to reminisce about the past. (Also good for 'filling in the blanks' if we start the story a bit advanced).
I enjoy when my partner even uses a backstory to justify another action in the future, or simply adds to it... mentioning what else might have happened or maybe using it to brainstorm another scene or we like it so much that we play out a more detailed version of it etc.
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Pairings -
Adventures of a married woman (MC to be discussed) - No Pure Cuckolding - Only Stag x Hot-Wife - Can be Non-Cheating/Cheating based. Interracial also if desired.
As long as YC is married, we can enjoy all kinds of ......settings, plots, sub-plots, twists, bringing in other characters etc... has enough sensual spice to last us for months/years..... literally (pun intended!).
The reason for choosing the above is because YC is attached, and hence 'forbidden'. In my opinion, it is too easy for single strangers to have a sexual connection. The outcome is predictable/expected, even with a slow burn romance, but in married roles, it can have all kinds of conclusions/repercussions, not to mention the added complexities and obstacles.
Settings can be in modern life, fantasy, sci-fi, magic or a hybrid of any of them.
Now for some details on characters and possible plots. I will leave them vague to allow room for creativity, preferences and element of surprise -
MC will depend on your current craving. (Can be either cheating or non-cheating based).
MC can be the best man, interracial, landlord, co-worker, boss, professor, family member, neighbor, client etc.. the list is endless, each can be played in multiple different initial settings! As long as YC has a ring on her finger and she has to deal with the husband factor. Makes it just a bit harder when handling the emotional tug of war in her mind and between her legs.
YC is an attractive woman with intelligence, wit and a problem solver. (Or she can be clumsy and gullible, which is exactly why she gets into all kinds of sticky situations). Her adventures are mostly on a need-to-do basis. In other words, she is not a slut on purpose... but the end justifies the means type of scenario. Doesn't always have to be sex (even a low cut blouse gets discounts!). Smut can be linear where she slowly gets corrupted, or she can start off quite liberal (depends if we want a short/mid/long RP).
YC is an attractive woman with intelligence, wit and a problem solver. (Or she can be clumsy and gullible, which is exactly why she gets into all kinds of sticky situations). Her adventures are mostly on a need-to-do basis. In other words, she is not a slut on purpose... but the end justifies the means type of scenario. Doesn't always have to be sex (even a low cut blouse gets discounts!). Smut can be linear where she slowly gets corrupted, or she can start off quite liberal (depends if we want a short/mid/long RP).
If you want to focus on the husband more, then no pure cuckolding. The traditional helpless husband just sitting in a corner/nearby is too limited in scope and becomes boring real fast. It also becomes routine, even with the other variations, no matter how you spin it. Basically wife lusts - cuck watches, enjoys and gets humiliated - licks cum - rinse and repeat. Thank you but I'll pass. : ) Here is a more creative way to cuckold (which I actually enjoy):
Now we are talking! A Stag is another fancy word for cuck. He also shares his hot trophy wife, but with a major difference. He is confident, manly and demands respect; also possessing sense of humor. He never knows for sure about any of wife's indiscretions, does not sit and watch (at least not openly)....... and they both prefer it that way. (This way, it also does NOT count as cheating wife, for those who are averse to adultery). Kind of open secret. It keeps the sparks alive between them. Besides, it's more fun to play guessing games, dealing with half truths (little white lies), rather than just blurting it out. Smut level to be discussed.
Even though he never directly admits to it, he enjoys seeing other men lusting after her. He pretends to be jealous jokingly, to keep up the facade of a normal husband. He also indirectly/unwittingly encourages and/or makes suggestions which make matters more raunchy. Huge number of entertaining sub plots. Basically a couple who enjoys life in all sorts of erotic situations without being labeled as swingers. I am sure you are brimming with ideas too.
Even though he never directly admits to it, he enjoys seeing other men lusting after her. He pretends to be jealous jokingly, to keep up the facade of a normal husband. He also indirectly/unwittingly encourages and/or makes suggestions which make matters more raunchy. Huge number of entertaining sub plots. Basically a couple who enjoys life in all sorts of erotic situations without being labeled as swingers. I am sure you are brimming with ideas too.
P.S - Hope you enjoyed reading it and answered some of the preliminary questions you may have about a new partner before investing time and energy. I am not looking for many partners since I am not as free as I once was. Replies can be once a day or once a week. If you think we can write up an erotic storm, get in touch and create some literary thunder!
Writing samples -
I am going to write up short stories - little slices of life - (and post them on BMR. Links here later)..... not too detailed on purpose, so it will leave room for improvement. They will give you a good idea of what I talked about above. We can play any of them in PM, in more detailed (and slower paced) and include mutually agreed kinks that we can introduce.
You can choose any scene/plot and mix it with others. The writings will also serve as an excellent resource for some witty 'dialogues' that I enjoy hearing from my partner. You can pick and apply them as needed. Also, feel free to use (and re-use) the images you will encounter and apply them to a similar situation or to your liking as you see fit.
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