That’s all very interesting
@Blayze. I’d like to put in my own two cents as someone who has a complex steampunk fantasy plot with elves and humans on the verge of war.
I feel like I’ve been largely influenced by Lord of the Rings, as a lot of people are. But not in the sense that elves are perfect and ephemeral beings. Instead, they’re basically very long lived people with their near exclusive mastery of lesser dragon riding and magic (taught by the intelligent Elder Dragons) making them slightly arrogant. They have divisions between high elves, dark elves, and wood elves, and racism against humans, monstrofolk (basically anthropomorphs including monster girls, dragonlings, werewolves, etc), dwarves, and other creatures in the Ananki Confederation. So they have prejudices like people, and their skills only exaggerate that.
At the same time, an innovation given to me by a partner is elvish flexibility on gender roles. There are no male and female genders assigned to parts specifically- it’s whatever the elf feels works or doesn’t for them. Third gender elves are called
erimdanaith (meaning between man and woman) and make up the majority of society, while the Ananki lands are a refuge for gender nonconforming folks from the Empire and the equally human ruled Alliance of Free States.
The key difference that they don’t realize about people, having successfully attacked human nations and made them pay tribute for hundreds of years using their magic and air superiority, is that what humans lack in natural talent they make up for with ingenuity. Like the Russian Empire, the Ananki rule over a large, mostly cold and desolate area with little arable land or warm ports, whereas the Caledorian Empire (a seafaring empire like Britain with influences from Germany and if I’m honest Dunwall from Dishonored) has discovered clockwork technology, whale oil, and steam power and that has made them a formidable force. Airships and airplanes have recently been invented that can counter dragons, they have built walking four legged tanks called Goliaths that pack a lot of firepower and armor (including being near totally resistant to dragon fire), guns and bombs are becoming more sophisticated, and controversial genetic research programs create philters that when drunk give people superpowers.
For various reasons that are too complicated to get into, the Ananki are trying to work behind the scenes to undermine the Empire from within, but it won’t work and a war will erupt. Once that happens, species who have been taught to hate each other for generations will be thrown together, and love will come from that as well as magic dies and technology becomes more powerful. That’s the interesting part of elves for me- an examination of gender roles, love across battle lines, racism, the role of tradition versus modernization, nature versus tech, things like that.
I care little for parts as long as the story is interesting. A plot that’s currently on hold has my male human soldier having sex with and then falling in love with a very muscular male elf who has a vagina, and gets made fun of it for it by other elves and humans.