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Pregnancy? why?

LizBound

LizBound

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I get most kinks.. OK maybe not poo/pee and amputation..

But pregnancy as a kink in RP?

I've been preggers twice. Neither time was it particularly sexy or arousing. Pain, aches, loss of control of various bodily functions. Insane horomone swings and lets not get into the actual ordeal that is birth. Wionderful act of sharing my arse! puking, pooing myself, trying to squeeze a fecking bowling ball thoruhg my lady parts while my hubby 'shared the experience' .

It seems to be a very common 'like' for men. So I am just wondering, why? Come on guys, enlighten me.
 
Hmm so... that's interesting. I tend to not think of men as assuming that more nurturing aspect of it. That's quite revealing, thank you.
 
I am one of those people who had a terrible pregnancy experience, and still like pregnancy as a kink. A lot of my kinks aren't practical or wouldn't be enjoyable in real life. In a consensual manner, it's represents this incredible sense of intimacy and trust between partners and fosters some interesting character and plot development. In a nonconsensual manner, it's the ultimate violation, and in my non-con kinks, that violation is a big draw.
 
I see... that makes sense too. maybe it does work for some people. I doubt I'd ever consider it a draw, and I certainly wouldn't want to roleplay a pregnancy out.
But I can understand it a little better.
 
What Goodman says. And yes of course many men like to take charge and take care, not in a feminine way but for sure. I have a friend who says the sexiest phrase to hear for a woman is "Don't worry I'll take care of everything". Obviously nausea and aching is unsexy. I'll write it sans details, not really as a kink but as a thing. I do think a man wanting to get a woman pregnant can be sexy in the right story.
 
I once heard a guy say the ultimate example of womanhood is a pregnant lady. I must agree with him the fact only we can carry a child (I have not been pregnant myself yet) is something special and defining about being a woman. For me personally it is something unexplainable that attracts me to pregnant women and how they look.
 
As a guy, I completely understand the idea of pregnancy sex isn't that realistic. For me, I think in line with what Goodman said, is the idea that a pregnant whole fulfills that primal idea that this woman is fertile, she and I could produce children. As an animal, thats what my genes are hardcoded to look for, who will be a good mate.

Something about that just clicks for me.
 
If you look at my name and have ever rped with me you know that I love pregnancy. I actually won't do an rp without it. I cannot speak for every guy but I can speak for myself.

Pregnancy is one of the most intimate experiences two human beings can have with one and other. Pregnancy is when some one grows a part of both themselves and someone else inside them. They are taking a part of you and using it with themselves to make something new. That is a very intimate experience, I would say the most intimate experience that two humans can have with one and other. Of course I am not saying you cannot have an intimate experience without it, or trying to take away from people who are unable to. I am just stating a reality. Together you are creating life with a other person. So now a piece of my character is physically part of and growing inside there character. I find it not just sexy, but also very romantic. This is from a romantic perspective.

I also enjoy doing it in a BDSM focused rp as well for a different reason. The fact is reproduction is one of the unique things a female can do that a man cannot. By taking that for oneself is part of dominated a person' as well. Being able to dominate and take control over someone's entire person msy also mean controlling there ability to reproduce. That is way some people also enjoy forced breeding, because you have now forcibly taken control of even that part of them.

Also I love lactation, so that helps with that!

Hope that helps coming from the breeding beast himself
 
For me I wouldn't say it's so much as a kink but something realistic that may or may not happen between characters. They're going to have sex so, depending on whether they buckle up or not, there's a chance of it happening. I also like to see how the characters react to it whether positive or not. I just like having the possibility of including it.
 
Asche said:
For me I wouldn't say it's so much as a kink but something realistic that may or may not happen between characters. They're going to have sex so, depending on whether they buckle up or not, there's a chance of it happening. I also like to see how the characters react to it whether positive or not. I just like having the possibility of including it.
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This is basically me.

Also, it can be a good story element to include. If you do so with the right story idea, and such.

Something fantasy-based, for example, especially if it involves an heir somehow. Or needing one.

I don't really deem pregnancy a 'kink' so much as it is an 'element' to me. Something that can be included, so long as both partners agree to the idea being incorporated OOC.
 
LadyAthene said:
This is basically me.

Also, it can be a good story element to include. If you do so with the right story idea, and such.

Something fantasy-based, for example, especially if it involves an heir somehow. Or needing one.

I don't really deem pregnancy a 'kink' so much as it is an 'element' to me. Something that can be included, so long as both partners agree to the idea being incorporated OOC.
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Definitely! I love your whole post :)
 
As a man I'm going to be honest, I don't really see pregnancy as a kink. I mean it's a fetish yes, but I've always felt like it was sort of the "Happy Ending." Getting married, having offspring, raising said offspring. It's a part of a life, for me it's a sort of dream to be a father one day. It can be an intimate bond between two people, and while yeah you've got all the vomiting, hormones, and all the other horrible stuff with pregnancy, I feel like nothing really brings two people together than that.

It makes a prideful man realize that there is more than himself in life. That he's got a wife and a child to take care of. I don't know how most other guys are, but that's how I've always felt about it. I respect pregnant women for what they have to deal with, it's hard but I kind of also felt that it's a guy's responsibility to help in some way even though they can't carry the child themselves. Soothe the pain a bit. I haven't reached that part of my life yet, like being married to someone expecting my child, but I hope to honestly at least be the kind of husband my wife needs when she is expecting.

In roleplays, sure if someone is willing to add that aspect into it, cool I'd love it! Yet I'm not the kind of person to force it into a scenario. Pregnancy is sort of different for everybody: some people love it, some people worship it, some people despise it, some people want to kill it, some people just don't want to live with it. In some ways, it can also be a plot point or a staple for an role play. Sorry for rambling, I sometimes can't shut up. xP
 
Sunset Drifter said:
As a man I'm going to be honest, I don't really see pregnancy as a kink. I mean it's a fetish yes, but I've always felt like it was sort of the "Happy Ending." Getting married, having offspring, raising said offspring. It's a part of a life, for me it's a sort of dream to be a father one day. It can be an intimate bond between two people, and while yeah you've got all the vomiting, hormones, and all the other horrible stuff with pregnancy, I feel like nothing really brings two people together than that.

It makes a prideful man realize that there is more than himself in life. That he's got a wife and a child to take care of. I don't know how most other guys are, but that's how I've always felt about it. I respect pregnant women for what they have to deal with, it's hard but I kind of also felt that it's a guy's responsibility to help in some way even though they can't carry the child themselves. Soothe the pain a bit. I haven't reached that part of my life yet, like being married to someone expecting my child, but I hope to honestly at least be the kind of husband my wife needs when she is expecting.

In roleplays, sure if someone is willing to add that aspect into it, cool I'd love it! Yet I'm not the kind of person to force it into a scenario. Pregnancy is sort of different for everybody: some people love it, some people worship it, some people despise it, some people want to kill it, some people just don't want to live with it. In some ways, it can also be a plot point or a staple for an role play. Sorry for rambling, I sometimes can't shut up. xP
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That's a great comment.
 
The great thing about imagination and perverse fantasies is that one could imagine a fictional scenario in which pushing a bowling ball through one's lady parts would in fact feel very, very good.

I probably couldn't explain exactly why I'm into everything I'm into. For pregnancy, there's just something...beautiful about a pregnant woman's body. Something I find very appealing. The growing belly, the swelling titties...

And "fantasy" means I can imagine those things in ways unlike real life, where they aren't the trouble that a real-life pregnancy would be. Picturing two pregnant women enjoying each other's company...mmmhmmm.

Some of my fantasies do involve the emotional aspect as well: two women in love having a child together, loving each other enough to bear that burden and bring new life into the world. (And how two women = pregnancy also falls under "fantasy.")
 
Same thing like everyone else, I used to hate the fact that id love to rp pregnancy scenarios, hell if a topic didn't include pregnancy it wouldn't interest me, but with pregnancy as a kink it can add a touch of drama to a boring romance scenario or spice up one of those plots that aren't expecitng it.
 
I want to say that it taps into the instinctive wiring inherent in the human mind:
Find a mate that looks to be able to produce viable, strong offspring, reproduce, ensure the survival of the species.
To a point, its the risk itself of getting pregnant, to do something that will alter your life forever and have lasting consequences. The adrenaline that comes from doing such things, etc.
@LizBound
 
First I must say that my thought process is rather different than those here, or so it would seem.
I myself am male, have had many stories involve this, but it has never been a particular focus of mine.

Others have mentioned the aspect of a 'fertile female' and made it seem like a beautiful thing. Yes, it is, but as one who leans towards.. shall we say darker things? Breeding scenarios always aren't about the woman being beautiful, or even being a good 'mate'. Perhaps OP even hinted at it earlier as to not seeing the 'nurturing aspects' in regards to looking at it from a 'male' perspective. To be powerful enough to take from someone is a turn on, but powerful enough to also force her to breed your heir? There is something very twisted about that, furthering not only rape, but the ability to force her body to do as you please.

For some of us, it is just another way to take, violate, and force control.

Just a little monsters two cents.
 
I think all has been written here.

I will add one more piece to the puzzle. It is about legacy. Pregnancy leads to children and that means you will be remembered. Sure, you can wrote book, build a castle, but not everyone has this chance.

Imagine you in you 65 or 70, no partner, no children. I think that bigger fear that death is that nobody will put flowers on your grave.

And pregnancy means, that there is real piece of you, which goes through history from the first humans to the beyond.
 
For the father of wifey's and my son impregnating a woman is the huge kink. Not the pregnancy itself. The act of planting the seed is. To have HIS semen create the child. This is a cool thread, him and I discussed this not long ago. He said, it's the ultimate feeling of "power", of being "godlike". For he, his penis and his semen plant a new life into the woman's belly.
He found the pregnancy itself as annoying as wife and I did though. *l*
 
I tend to approach the kink more from the possession/domination angle. Naturally it's pure fantasy, but I find it deeply sexy to take that power and impact someone's life so dramatically. The glint of arousal or fear in the eyes of someone helpless to prevent her impregnation. It feels very pleasantly sordid.

It's a...profound violation, taking their body to service you. Not just for the moment, but for so long as the consequences of pregnancy and childbirth remain.

Of course, not a thing to be done in real life in a non-consenting manner, so a perfect morsel of a kink for writing on here rather than experiencing.
 
I guess it also depends on where you want to take it. I am not at all interested in playing it as a Slice of Life thing where we play out doctors appointments, waiting rooms, getting the nursery set up etc.

However to place it in a more extreme setting like a pregnant housewife decides to become a prostitute or does porn etc that opens up more appeal for me. I like the opportunities but perhaps some might say I'm missing the point of it.
 
I don't consider it nor the risk of it a kink either. I like it as a possible plot device to put in at my discretion.
 
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