New young sub for older dominant woman

New to bdsm, looking to explore through role play. Would love to find a sexy older woman (30s- to early 50s). Who knows how to use a young man for her pleasure and then make him beg to finish. I'm fairly inexperienced sexually, but I'm persistent and want to learn to please my mistress.

I'm interested in
Hot wax play, light bondage, sensory deprivation, spanking/slapping, cunnilingus, being humiliated, cunnilingus, and role reversal

Not interested in
Pegging
Scat and water sports
Cock and ball torture
Homosexuality