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The "You aren't supposed to do that!" thread

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Good evening all! How are you? Well...I've been a member for one month and two days so far, and I have to say my experience here is memorable. I've met a lot of cool people, played a lot of interesting games, and read a variety of topics!

I thought that, since I'm waiting for a roleplay to come my way, I'd post a thread about the Forbidden Triad of activities in the world of online erotica.

-Personal Photos (nude or not)
-Phone sex
-The presence of webcams (for whatever reason)

Mainly I just want to know what you all think about these things, either in general or personally. Statements like "Oh, I'll do that!" aren't being sought after, by the way. :p One of the things I'm studying in college right now is human sexuality and social deviance so you could say I'm predisposed.

So! I guess I'll begin.

Personally I don't have many issues with them. My philosophy is similar to Robert De Niro's in "Heat": Don't walk into something you can't walk out of relatively unscathed. By the way, those of you that like De Niro and Al Pacino, awesome movie. Watch it.

As far as personal photos go, those of you who have visited my website or meander over to the "Post your face!" thread can see that I have no problem there. I'm not an awkward person--figuratively speaking :-D--so the prospect doesn't make me uncomfortable. More compromising pictures are generally a no-no. One, it violates my philosophy, and two, seeing me naked would probably cause you people more pain than pleasure. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: That's just no way to repay the kindness I've been shown.

Phone sex...hm. I've seen that discussed and at times embraced on a few threads here. Shocked the holy hell outta me, merely for the fact that it was present! It was one of the things I saw here that really showed me that Blue Moon was a community of mature and open-minded people.

(Micro)phone sex is interesting, because many people who join boards like these like to wholly preserve their anonymity, and that's just fine. The fascinating thing is, between phone sex and pictures with nudity or other compromising material, the former is usually always seen as more personal than the latter. I suppose it is more intimate in a way...but unless the person on the other end is recording you (scary thought), there isn't any evidence of the fact, aside from prospective phone number and leech troubles. I suppose it all boils down to how comfortable you are with the person and your voice(s). On a personal note, I like my voice, and have trained it to be generally pleasant. Professional speaking and any high school debate team'll do that to you. As far as being receptive to the activity...it's really case-dependent. I don't have 'casual' phone sex, I'd have to get to know you first, but since I do a lot of my relations on the computer (friends, colleagues, family, employees, etc) through webcam and microphone, I'm not generally opposed to it. Sex aside, it's always great fun to talk to people from different regions and countries!

Webcams! Ooookay. By uniform decree, the most personal angle in the triangle. Now I suppose it all boils down to how much--if any--of yourself are you willing to include in this online activity? Myself, I have no issue using them for general conversation or roleplay planning--saves me from typing, which is important to a cam-spoiled man like me. As for things of a more illicit nature...I'm not sure. Another come-what-may perspective here as far as I go.

All of these activities and their inherent fears are not really equal, in my opinion. Women--one of whom I am not, I don't have the balls to be a woman :p--have a lot more to deal with here than men do. Being the beautiful, priceless, and ethereal creatures that they are have a lot more shit to wade through. This is due in no small part to the lesser fuck-ronauts of our gender, right fellas? Ya know...the chat room cockroaches, the profile hunting rats, and the like.

Clatoo, Verata, Nicto. Alright then. I said the damn words. I do apologize for the length though...I didn't intend it to be that loaded. Anyone else interested in tackling the topic?

-Dustin
 
Well, first off, site rules no nudity in pictures. Well, you gotta be covered at least.

I myself, wouldn't post nudes online- ever. Or even show someone nude pictures. It's way too personal, but that's my standpoint since I'm a modest person and also not so happy with my body- also morals. Posting nudes is stupid and if someone finds that stuff..have fun with that.

Phone sex...meh. Never done it, heard people do it, and it's just kind of like...have fun with that. If I was in a relationship, they were gone for awhile, etc, etc, then perhaps I would. Depends.

Webcamming can be fun, and no, I'm not talking about getting nude on there either, but casual conversation via webcam can be fun. Can it be more? Yes, but that's also a situational thing. I won't be getting into that unless trust is heavy and I like the person enough to do such things. Have I done it before? Yes. Why? Heavy trust among other reasons.

Should I go on or have I touched the subject enough?​
 
You can do whatever you like, as far as writing goes! :) I just thought I'd breach the subject and see what general opinions pop up!
 
I don't like nudes because they are easily saved and archived.

Phone sex isn't fun, imo. Not ever arousing in the least.

And I web cam nude all the time. I don't mind fapping off for people. Makes me kinda hot knowing that someone else (male/female) are arouse and doing something about it because of my pleasuring of myself. And if I don't like the person, I just turn it off. No big deal to me.
 
I am not a big fan of nude pictures. There was an incident in high school where three girls had been simulating having group sex in their panties and bras and someone took a picture that found it's way onto 4chan. The very next day there were copies of that picture plastered around the boy's locker room and one of the bathrooms. I went to a big high school, too, with eighteen hundred students. I'm definitely not comfortable with dropping nudes of myself or anyone else I know on the interrbutts. However, other personal photos I'm cool with as long as they won't specifically give away where I live. I actually just recently found out someone else on BM lives in the same town I do because of a picture they put up in Post Your Face.

I did the phone sex thing a couple times when an ex- was in Wales for a few weeks. It was fun insofar as it was like flirting/joint masturbation, but it's not something I'd trip over myself to do.

I am leery about webcams for the same reason I am leery of nudes. I have also noticed an increasing number of "stupid bitch ex-girlfriend" sex types that were definitely not by porn stars populating certain user-submitted video sites. That actually really weirds me out. That's just not a reasonable way to get back at someone for being a shitty partner. Also, I've never done anything with webcams beyond videoconferencing for work. I think that if I were going to, like Hahvy, I'd really need to trust the person on the other end. I've given them a chance to humiliate me by releasing a video of me fapping; that puts me in a pretty vulnerable position. I value my privacy. How awkward would it be if one of my friends or family members found that on the internet?
 
As for nudes, one of the biggest issues is the fact that there's underaged members that manage to slip through. So, imagine if you will that a fifteen year old girl posts nudes on here. Suddenly now we're a child pornography site to the legal system. There's plenty of ways we can get in trouble with that sort of thing, so it's just to prevent it all. Let other sites take the shitstorm of underaged titties and cawk. D;
 
dramamine213 said:
I don't like nudes because they are easily saved and archived.

Phone sex isn't fun, imo. Not ever arousing in the least.

And I web cam nude all the time. I don't mind fapping off for people. Makes me kinda hot knowing that someone else (male/female) are arouse and doing something about it because of my pleasuring of myself. And if I don't like the person, I just turn it off. No big deal to me.
Wait... What? >.>

You wont give out pictures because they could be saved...But you'll do a live video that could be recorded or screencapped? How does that make any sense?
 
kikora said:
dramamine213 said:
I don't like nudes because they are easily saved and archived.

Phone sex isn't fun, imo. Not ever arousing in the least.

And I web cam nude all the time. I don't mind fapping off for people. Makes me kinda hot knowing that someone else (male/female) are arouse and doing something about it because of my pleasuring of myself. And if I don't like the person, I just turn it off. No big deal to me.
Wait... What? >.>

You wont give out pictures because they could be saved...But you'll do a live video that could be recorded or screencapped? How does that make any sense?

I can only hazard a guess, but I think he was coming from an angle of convenience. People are far more likely to save a picture, rather than record a video, especially when most integrated software prompts the recordee a warning. From the other end of it, everybody has Print Screen...unless you're on a Mac, in which case I have no clue. So...really, even if you go from the waist down, if that print screen hits you, then they have your family jewels, your messenger and screen name. As far as cam-stuff goes, it is leery as hell.

By the way, how the hell did "fap" become a word...there are a lot of nifty words for masturbation, but that one I can't connect anything to.
 
kikora said:
dramamine213 said:
I don't like nudes because they are easily saved and archived.

Phone sex isn't fun, imo. Not ever arousing in the least.

And I web cam nude all the time. I don't mind fapping off for people. Makes me kinda hot knowing that someone else (male/female) are arouse and doing something about it because of my pleasuring of myself. And if I don't like the person, I just turn it off. No big deal to me.
Wait... What? >.>

You wont give out pictures because they could be saved...But you'll do a live video that could be recorded or screencapped? How does that make any sense?

I was sort of wondering the same thing.
My video card with the HDMI output and the 42" TV in my living room would like to have a word with you, Drama. Just not while the kids are awake, dear.

In all due seriousness, it used to be hard to record video on a PC. Now it's pretty much as easy as recording television.

Also, re: fapping. Supposedly it's the sound it makes, though I tend to hear it with men then women. I suppose it was only a matter of time before we got it too, and let's face "squelching" just doesn't have the same ring.
 
See, pictures taken with digital cameras have exif data. While the information in the exif data doesn't have things like name and address, it does contain technical information about your camera. In a legal situation, that information could be used to prove innocence or guilt, but that's a long shot. It's still information I don't want to hand out.

Yeah, I'm aware about how easy it is to capture video these days, but one of the ways I prevent associating my video presence with IRL me is by using the wireless connection from the local fast food dive AND a separate screen name not associated with any other online activities. The two people from BM who I've had a good time with are what I'd consider friends and I trust them enough not to post my info. But anywhere else on the net that I have cammed, it's never with anyone I know or care to know. It's for novelty's sake of doing something naughty.

@Elehina: If you don't mind a chubby twat at such a huge size, I'm game. :p

@Fapping: I have always identified with being male. Seeing as that is the nomenclature/onomatopoeia for male masturbation these days, I feel it's appropriate for what I'm doing. And I've never heard of squelching, but that's a radio term and doesn't really have any correlation to female masturbation. It's turning a nob to tune the radio so it doesn't blast out a lot of static. I've head of schlicking, but that sounds disgusting. Jilling off is kinda stupid imo. I haven't heard much else for female masturbation, so fapping seems a little less disgusting and in my own little head, it makes sense seeing as you're stimulating the similar sex organ that mirror's the opposite sex.
 
Yeahhhhh I was told that men fap and women schlink.

:roll:

I'll say fap if I wanna say fap.
 
WTF is a schlink?

That's not even a noise? If I'm making a noise that sounds like schlink, my next fucking phone call is to my gyno.
 
Schlicking is a word I heard ages ago in reference to female masturbation sounds as fap was emerging, so I dunno where that came from.
 
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