Your support makes Blue Moon possible (Patreon)Hi there, I'm Nott. I'm an experienced roleplayer and I'm looking for a literate, creative partner, mostly for high fantasy scenes.
Some key points:
- I prefer "submissive submissives," and I have a specific way I like to RP to make this work.
- I suspect that at least one reason people find it more interesting to play uppity submissives is that standard RP etiquette (which was not designed with D/S ERP in mind) requires that I provide your character space to make the decision to obey over and over again even when it would be bizarre if she did anything but. I don't like this. So I will frequently just assume she obeys, and write my post accordingly - although it will be entirely up to you to decide exactly how she obeys, what she feels and what she says.
- Yes this needs to be done skillfully. No it isn't for everyone. But more often than not, partners find it thrilling. Why? Every form has its limitations, and the standard RP format cannot represent this sort of coercive relationship adequately. My way has better flow. Relax, follow my lead and you will start to enjoy feeling a little more powerless than usual.
- At the same time, conflict is key. That's a golden rule of storytelling. I just like it quieter and tenser than standard RP etiquette encourages.
- Below is part of a post. It is not the best thing I've ever written. It is not the worst. It is a representative sample of the quality you can expect.
- Post length is entirely negotiable.
- If the sample post was a turn on, great. Partners tend to like my dialogue, my playful sense of humor, and my somewhat literary prose, all of which you can evaluate yourself. In turn, I am looking for partners who want to be treated with at least as much disrespect as the poor woman in the sample. Romance is possible, but not the gushy kind.
- While most people who take the plunge enjoy my approach, it's does take some getting used to. What exactly are you supposed to be doing, when I "assume compliance" (as I call it)? Well for one thing, I will love watching your character work out her feelings in detail. This is something you may enjoy doing, but worry will bore your partners. Not me! It's a big reason I RP at all! But in general, you'll find there's a surprising amount of room for creativity on your part.
- I have a type: slim, nice tits, long hair, and I like feminine fantasy archetypes like elves and healers. I prefer to play huge men against smaller women, which puts me in charge of what happens in a 10ft radius around my character. You will be pushed, pulled, bent over, forced up against stuff, etc, and his cock will be at least slightly too big for her. Some common kinks of mine are humiliation, public humiliation, forced nudity, rules, objectification, blowjobs, punishments, orgasm control, pesky degrading rules, and mind games, particularly mind games. Below is a long-winded discussion of very specific kinks I like and why, as well as a few of my limits. Do not read it if you do not like long-winded, detailed descriptions of kinks.
- I prefer frequent, short sex scenes with many suggestive details to a few long ones (I hate getting bogged down).
- The reason I lean towards fantasy is that big power differentials and public slavery make more sense, the latter partly because of the former. All of my plots also involve Dungeons and Dragons style adventurers. No idea why. Just what I'm interested in at the moment.
Otherwise, I am a pretty obliging partner, open to many kinks and partners of varying skill levels. The thing I value most in a partner is enthusiasm.
Plots
Option 1, "Old Customs" (dubcon)
This is set in a post-apocalyptic fantasy world where the largest settlements are mostly small towns and a few partially abandoned cities. Since the death of the last Kings, the civilized races - humans, elves, dwarves, and so on - all live by an old code, whose origins are shrouded in mystery. Among other things, rescued damsels are considered the temporary property of their rescuers. As rescued women are then customarily ransomed back to their families, this ensures that nobody needs to verify that there is a bounty posted for a woman's safe recovery before saving her. Moreover, it means that there's no reason to, e.g., sell her into slavery, since families will usually pay more. The system works pretty well, until it doesn't.
I want to leave this one open, as it is the premise that I like. Your character could be a high elven princess, an explorer looking to strike it rich, or whatever you like, as long as she has a strong sense of right and wrong. MC will be an adventurer who rescues her from great peril. What interests me is, crucially, the initial tension between her sense of honor, as she recognizes that the custom is an important one that keeps women safe, and her sense of dignity, as she cannot help but feel that the custom is barbaric and gross.
I'd like your character to be mature enough that the initial "seduction" comes as essentially zero surprise to her. Perhaps what will grate is how forceful it is, lacking all the sensitivity she expects from a suitor, as if her consent was never in doubt, as she didn't have the right to say no if she wanted to. Naturally things will slowly get worse.
This is a setup I love; you can see how the conflict is quieter and tenser than is typical in non-consensual plots, but still very real. We can discuss the plot.
Option 2, "Torch & Sheath" (fantasy) (2 girls) (extreme objectification)
This is plot requires you to play two characters, which is very selfish of me. But if you're a humiliation junkie who likes dungeon crawling, do hear me out.
Healslutting is a kink that originated in Overwatch. It now has a subreddit and plenty of fan art (NSFW: here and here). If you're a gamer, you'll know that healing is a kind of submission. You can't do anything by yourself and you require protection. You're more like a piece of equipment than a respectable class. You kind of deserve to be the party fucktoy.
The idea of having a sexy healer girl "equipped" like a piece of gear really appeals to me. However, I've found it doesn't quite work without some means to calculate damage. Unlike in video games, there just aren't enough excuses for healing. So I came up with an idea that lets me have my Healslut while ensuring there is plenty of degrading support work for you to write about.
I'd like you to play a white mage and a rogue. The latter will become a "sheath" for her new Master's largest sword, with, e.g., giant leather scabbard strapped to her back. The white mage will become a "torch," lighting his way, blessing his sword with divine flames, and healing. The ideal will be to indoctrinate the girls enough that they act like equipment, refer to themselves as equipment, and feel like equipment. Or rather, useless eye candy that occasionally receives the dubious honor of being "the right tool for the job," for example, when MC needs the rogue to scout ahead. MC will insist on strict "professionalism," where this includes everything from pesky little rules (keeping their arms behind their back when they're not using them, strict orgasm control) to, e.g., making them run and kneel in front of him when he whistles. This can get as extreme as you can tolerate; I wasn't imagining it would be consensual.
We're missing a word for the part of ERP that isn't plot or smut; in this case, it will be mostly focused on the degrading support work and (ideally very strict) command/obey training. Call this kinky fun. Some like kinky fun only as an appetizer, but here it's the main course. Smut is the desert. Or rather, the seasoning. When I say I want to turn YCs into equipment, this isn't a metaphor. I want MC to feel like a solo adventurer with some useful tools at his disposal, not the leader of a party. I am looking for a partner who is down for everything this entails.
Here are some possible ways to start:
- two girls put up flyers around town, e.g., "Swordsman Needed For Party of 2: Serious Applicants Only"
- a party hire a mercenary for assistance with a quest; when the loot is less than expected, he demands one of the girls as compensation; the other follows out of solidarity
But any ideas you have are fine.
It would be nice to use, e.g., AI-generated encounters and so on to really capture the "dungeon crawling with BDSM aspect." However, this is by no means required.
Would be duly grateful for some interest.
Option 3, "The Doomseeker"
I generally find plots involving magical kinds of mindbreak too "easy," but I've always wanted to try a slower, subtler and more intense kind of mindbreak. My idea involves a grimdark D&D-esque world where the vast majority of female adventurers are what are called "doomseekers," cursed with an irresistible urge to wander the Earth seeking out danger - hence why they chose such a perilous life. Tragically, when a doomseeker is enslaved, her will to resist slowly and painfully fades away, until she has no choice but to follow her Master's orders (although in some cases, something of their hatred for him will remain). This they call "meeting their fate," and while stronger-willed doomseekers can hold out longer, they all live in terror of it. The origins of the curse are disputed, i.e., we can consider various ideas. Regardless, most doomseekers band together to keep themselves safe from those who would take advantage of them. YC would be the leader of one such party, e.g., a paladin who receives a desperate missive from an old friend, only to realize she has been lured into a trap.
Some key points:
- This is basically a self-paced mindbreak plot, which should present an interesting challenge for a talented writer. I'd be happy to work out the exact nature of the curse in a way that suits your preferences. I don't want it to be very fast or easy.
- I'd prefer a partner who cares a fair bit about the world and the lore and her character.
I'm imagining YC might be a paladin who is summoned to assist a man she trusts, only to discover he has had a change of heart.
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If you're interested, PM me ASAP! Feel invited to pitch me any ideas of your own.
Some key points:
- I prefer "submissive submissives," and I have a specific way I like to RP to make this work.
- I suspect that at least one reason people find it more interesting to play uppity submissives is that standard RP etiquette (which was not designed with D/S ERP in mind) requires that I provide your character space to make the decision to obey over and over again even when it would be bizarre if she did anything but. I don't like this. So I will frequently just assume she obeys, and write my post accordingly - although it will be entirely up to you to decide exactly how she obeys, what she feels and what she says.
- Yes this needs to be done skillfully. No it isn't for everyone. But more often than not, partners find it thrilling. Why? Every form has its limitations, and the standard RP format cannot represent this sort of coercive relationship adequately. My way has better flow. Relax, follow my lead and you will start to enjoy feeling a little more powerless than usual.
- At the same time, conflict is key. That's a golden rule of storytelling. I just like it quieter and tenser than standard RP etiquette encourages.
- Below is part of a post. It is not the best thing I've ever written. It is not the worst. It is a representative sample of the quality you can expect.
Scene: Arren breaks into the Arch Mage's quarters.
Arren laughed out loud. "Don't tell me what to do Annika," he said.
He paused as she laid down her ultimatum, before frowning slightly.
"Do I... detect a note of fear?" he asked. "That's strange. What could the Arch Mage have to fear from me?" He paused. "I travelled three weeks to get here. I'm not leaving. You'll have to kill me." He paused and examined her, this woman he had rescued from the marshes, noting her blush, her quivering lower lip.
"You know something? I think you are scared of me," he said, lowering his hands slightly. "Is it because I'm bigger than you? Is it because I have a knife?" he asked. He was still holding his arms up slightly as he started to walk towards her, silently daring her to strike. He didn't think she would. He could tell she wanted him. He finally came to a halt in front of her.
"I'm still alive. How odd," he said, glancing from the floor to her in mock bewilderment. as he lowered his arms all the way. He looked at her and smiled widely.
"I think you're going to regret being so rude." Arren shoved Annika back against the door, placing his hand on her stomach as he stepped forward. He caught her wrists, pressing his hips against her as he pinned her against the hard wood. He pulled her slender arms into the air as he brought them high above her head, transferring them to one huge hand. Then he slid the knife from its sheath. "Hush," he said softly, as he pressed it to her throat.
"That's better," he said after a moment, examining her face in the flickering light. He smiled slightly. "Relax. You're not in danger. I like you. I just want you to listen to me for a moment..." He paused and sniffed. "You smell good," he murmured, eyes closing briefly. "How've you been by the way?"
He arched his brow. "I asked you a question, Arch Mage," he said after a moment, pressing the edge of the knife ever so slightly into her soft skin.
He pursed his lips. "... I'm glad to hear it," he said dryly, smiling slightly as he gazed at her.
"Now, shall I tell you what's going to happen, hm?" he asked lazily, eyes travelling from her lips to her breasts. He paused as if to consider the options, before slowly glancing up at her. He was already hard, his cock straining against the fabric of his trousers, pressing into her. "Before anything else, I think we're going to get you undressed," he said. "I mean completely naked. Then maybe we'll kiss a bit, if I'm in the mood... but not before you're naked." He paused, taking the knife off her neck as he took her chin and tilted her face up to his.
"Look at me, Annika." he ordered softly, smiling as he gazed into her dark eyes.
"When I'm ready I'm going to make you kneel in front of me... I'm going to make you look me in the eyes just like this while you choke on my cock," he said, hot breath brushing her lips as he leaned forward. "When I'm ready, I'm going to drag you to your feet and pull over to the bed and I'm going to snap my fingers and say 'face down ass up'. You're going to be a good girl and do what you're told, at least if you know what's good for you. Maybe I'll punish you then, maybe not. I haven't decided."
"You know what happens next. Maybe you'll ask me to be gentle. I'll say I will be, but that will be a lie. It's going to hurt, and you'll be sore tomorrow morning for sure. Maybe, like I said, I'll cum inside you. Maybe I'll sit on top of you and make you lick my balls until I cum all over your face, just because I can... how's that sound, babe?" Arren smirked at her. "I bet you're already imagining what it's going to feel like when I force my cock inside your tight little cunt. Are you going to admit it, or shall I check?" he asked, glancing up at her meaningfully.
"You're very cute," he said, as he pulled the knife from her neck, reaching up to run his thumb over her cheek affectionately. His eyes lingered on her full lips as he deftly slid the knife back into its sheath at his side, before seizing her chin. He couldn't resist kissing her, squeezing her delicate wrists together as he held her arms above her head. He reached up and took her throat, forcing her to stand on tiptoe as he slid his tongue into her mouth and deepened the kiss. When he finally pulled away, he slapped her across the face.
"I said, not until you're naked," he chided. He laughed softly and glanced over his shoulder, eyes alighting the mirror next to her wardrobe...
Arren laughed out loud. "Don't tell me what to do Annika," he said.
He paused as she laid down her ultimatum, before frowning slightly.
"Do I... detect a note of fear?" he asked. "That's strange. What could the Arch Mage have to fear from me?" He paused. "I travelled three weeks to get here. I'm not leaving. You'll have to kill me." He paused and examined her, this woman he had rescued from the marshes, noting her blush, her quivering lower lip.
"You know something? I think you are scared of me," he said, lowering his hands slightly. "Is it because I'm bigger than you? Is it because I have a knife?" he asked. He was still holding his arms up slightly as he started to walk towards her, silently daring her to strike. He didn't think she would. He could tell she wanted him. He finally came to a halt in front of her.
"I'm still alive. How odd," he said, glancing from the floor to her in mock bewilderment. as he lowered his arms all the way. He looked at her and smiled widely.
"I think you're going to regret being so rude." Arren shoved Annika back against the door, placing his hand on her stomach as he stepped forward. He caught her wrists, pressing his hips against her as he pinned her against the hard wood. He pulled her slender arms into the air as he brought them high above her head, transferring them to one huge hand. Then he slid the knife from its sheath. "Hush," he said softly, as he pressed it to her throat.
"That's better," he said after a moment, examining her face in the flickering light. He smiled slightly. "Relax. You're not in danger. I like you. I just want you to listen to me for a moment..." He paused and sniffed. "You smell good," he murmured, eyes closing briefly. "How've you been by the way?"
He arched his brow. "I asked you a question, Arch Mage," he said after a moment, pressing the edge of the knife ever so slightly into her soft skin.
He pursed his lips. "... I'm glad to hear it," he said dryly, smiling slightly as he gazed at her.
"Now, shall I tell you what's going to happen, hm?" he asked lazily, eyes travelling from her lips to her breasts. He paused as if to consider the options, before slowly glancing up at her. He was already hard, his cock straining against the fabric of his trousers, pressing into her. "Before anything else, I think we're going to get you undressed," he said. "I mean completely naked. Then maybe we'll kiss a bit, if I'm in the mood... but not before you're naked." He paused, taking the knife off her neck as he took her chin and tilted her face up to his.
"Look at me, Annika." he ordered softly, smiling as he gazed into her dark eyes.
"When I'm ready I'm going to make you kneel in front of me... I'm going to make you look me in the eyes just like this while you choke on my cock," he said, hot breath brushing her lips as he leaned forward. "When I'm ready, I'm going to drag you to your feet and pull over to the bed and I'm going to snap my fingers and say 'face down ass up'. You're going to be a good girl and do what you're told, at least if you know what's good for you. Maybe I'll punish you then, maybe not. I haven't decided."
"You know what happens next. Maybe you'll ask me to be gentle. I'll say I will be, but that will be a lie. It's going to hurt, and you'll be sore tomorrow morning for sure. Maybe, like I said, I'll cum inside you. Maybe I'll sit on top of you and make you lick my balls until I cum all over your face, just because I can... how's that sound, babe?" Arren smirked at her. "I bet you're already imagining what it's going to feel like when I force my cock inside your tight little cunt. Are you going to admit it, or shall I check?" he asked, glancing up at her meaningfully.
"You're very cute," he said, as he pulled the knife from her neck, reaching up to run his thumb over her cheek affectionately. His eyes lingered on her full lips as he deftly slid the knife back into its sheath at his side, before seizing her chin. He couldn't resist kissing her, squeezing her delicate wrists together as he held her arms above her head. He reached up and took her throat, forcing her to stand on tiptoe as he slid his tongue into her mouth and deepened the kiss. When he finally pulled away, he slapped her across the face.
"I said, not until you're naked," he chided. He laughed softly and glanced over his shoulder, eyes alighting the mirror next to her wardrobe...
- Post length is entirely negotiable.
- If the sample post was a turn on, great. Partners tend to like my dialogue, my playful sense of humor, and my somewhat literary prose, all of which you can evaluate yourself. In turn, I am looking for partners who want to be treated with at least as much disrespect as the poor woman in the sample. Romance is possible, but not the gushy kind.
- While most people who take the plunge enjoy my approach, it's does take some getting used to. What exactly are you supposed to be doing, when I "assume compliance" (as I call it)? Well for one thing, I will love watching your character work out her feelings in detail. This is something you may enjoy doing, but worry will bore your partners. Not me! It's a big reason I RP at all! But in general, you'll find there's a surprising amount of room for creativity on your part.
- I have a type: slim, nice tits, long hair, and I like feminine fantasy archetypes like elves and healers. I prefer to play huge men against smaller women, which puts me in charge of what happens in a 10ft radius around my character. You will be pushed, pulled, bent over, forced up against stuff, etc, and his cock will be at least slightly too big for her. Some common kinks of mine are humiliation, public humiliation, forced nudity, rules, objectification, blowjobs, punishments, orgasm control, pesky degrading rules, and mind games, particularly mind games. Below is a long-winded discussion of very specific kinks I like and why, as well as a few of my limits. Do not read it if you do not like long-winded, detailed descriptions of kinks.
- Reminding the sub who owns her: Feeling her up. Sliding an arm around her waist. Shoving his hand down her skirt and telling her how hard he's going to fuck her later.
- Reminding the sub how weak and/or fragile she is: Choking her. Holding her down. Keeping her arms pinned above her head while kissing her.
- Rehearsed dialogue: E.g., I might order your character to say "yes please Master" every time he asks "Harder?" Similarly, I once "informed" a character that her new highest aspiration was to be MC's "good little slave girl," made her say it, and repeatedly asked her what her highest aspiration was is front of other characters.
- Objectifying and degrading compliments: Telling your character how gorgeous or sexy she is. Telling her she's cute.
- Forced intimacy: Eye contact. Making her straddle MC and holding her arms behind her back. Gently choking her when kissing her or whispering in her ear.
- Sweet and sour: A kiss followed by a slap. Gently brushing her tears away. Alternating "sweetheart," "gorgeous," "babe," etc, with "cunt," "slut," "you little whore." Related to mind games.
- Celebrating the sub's failures a.k.a rubbing it in: Making the sub praise MC for capturing her and making her his toy. Making her ride his cock all night to celebrate his defeat of would-be rescuers. Showing her off in front of former friends. Making her apologize for, e.g., putting up a fight.
- Display humiliation: Making her kneel with their legs spread very wide and her hands behind her head. Tilting her chin up and ordering her to spread her knees wider. Stuffing her shirt in her mouth and while he plays with her tits in front of others. Making her wait on the bed face down ass up.
- Forced honesty: Forcing her to politely express how mad or embarrassed she is. Offering words of sympathy while continuing to do the awful thing. Related to mind games.
- Forced eagerness / cutesyness / whatever: Forcing the sub to act very eager, especially in public. Making her speak in a soft, girlish voice. Making her say please and thank you. Making her wear cutesy, slutty outfits - especially hot when she hates the cutesyness just as much as the sluttiness. NOT daddy dom / little girl stuff, see my Hard nos.
- Instant obedience: E.g., literally running and falling to your knees when MC calls. Related to the above.
- Shirt in mouth: I will make her wear at least a tight top specifically so I can stick it in her mouth.
- Owning her pussy: Getting the sub waxed. Forbidding her from wearing underwear under her skirt. Strict orgasm control. Making her call it "your pussy."
- Owning her tits: Squeezing, slapping and pinching. Gently twisting and flicking her nipples. Clipping things to them.
- Random acts of affection: Kissing her tenderly. Complimenting her cleverness out of the blue. Related to mind games.
- Teasing: Telling her that his cock will always sting a little. Joking about selling her. Pretending to be angry just to amuse himself, forcing her to apologize profusely, and making her give him a kiss when he reveals it was all a charade. Imitating her for humor, especially if she's following his instructions. Related to mind games.
- Slow loss of perspective: Getting turned on by acting eager and cutesy. Fluttery feelings in her stomach when MC chokes her. Humiliating herself more than she has to (esp. in front of others, so MC can see what a good girl she is). Accepting that her purpose in life is whatever MC tells her it is and coming to adore the way he treats her.
- Explicitly remoulding her life purpose: E.g., telling her that her highest aspiration is to be MC's good little slave girl or a piece of equipment and making her say it.
- Lecturing: Related to the above. Love it or hate it, this is what I do. Always mixed with smut, if only e.g., his dick on her face while he explains why she is better off as his slave.
- Rehearsed commands: Silent commands, e.g., extending his hand could mean "come here," a snap could mean "kneel there."
- Trophy age gaps: For the public humiliation / power fantasy. Specifically 21-25 paired with 30-40.
- Belts and crops for punishments: Belting her ass, cropping her tits. See "slight turn offs" re: whips and blood.
- Throatfucking: Especially with mandatory eye contact, at least from her.
- So tight it hurts: Or, so big it hurts. It's all relative.
- Porny facials: I.e., pulling out and making your character kneel just to cum all over her face.
- Chain leashes: I just think they're hot. I also enjoy armbinders, but they rarely seem appropriate.
- Weird romance: Most romance in this genre involves a redemption arc on the Dom's part, but I ain't down. But YC can become a treasured slave who will be protected and cherished, even a morality pet. The bullying may come to seem more like his way of expressing affection. She will probably ultimately get a chance to leave, but it'll make me happy if she stays.
Slight turn offs:
- Whips and blood: I wouldn't say I'm squeamish, I just don't find it hot.
- Watersports: He'll piss on her face if you're craving it, but I'm not a huge fan.
- Gushy romance: If this is what you're after, I'm probably not the right partner.
Almost certainly a no:
- Severe trauma that leaves YC unable to enjoy life: I prefer characters who repeatedly bounce back.
- Writing with other men. It is not that we have nothing in common, just that women tend to appreciate how good I am with the little things, e.g., whispering sweet little threats in their ear, whereas men usually don't care about that kind of thing at all.
Hard nos:
- Calling MC "daddy." Also just dd/lg stuff in general.
- Scat, vomit, and other disgusting things.
- Snuff.
- Reminding the sub how weak and/or fragile she is: Choking her. Holding her down. Keeping her arms pinned above her head while kissing her.
- Rehearsed dialogue: E.g., I might order your character to say "yes please Master" every time he asks "Harder?" Similarly, I once "informed" a character that her new highest aspiration was to be MC's "good little slave girl," made her say it, and repeatedly asked her what her highest aspiration was is front of other characters.
- Objectifying and degrading compliments: Telling your character how gorgeous or sexy she is. Telling her she's cute.
- Forced intimacy: Eye contact. Making her straddle MC and holding her arms behind her back. Gently choking her when kissing her or whispering in her ear.
- Sweet and sour: A kiss followed by a slap. Gently brushing her tears away. Alternating "sweetheart," "gorgeous," "babe," etc, with "cunt," "slut," "you little whore." Related to mind games.
- Celebrating the sub's failures a.k.a rubbing it in: Making the sub praise MC for capturing her and making her his toy. Making her ride his cock all night to celebrate his defeat of would-be rescuers. Showing her off in front of former friends. Making her apologize for, e.g., putting up a fight.
- Display humiliation: Making her kneel with their legs spread very wide and her hands behind her head. Tilting her chin up and ordering her to spread her knees wider. Stuffing her shirt in her mouth and while he plays with her tits in front of others. Making her wait on the bed face down ass up.
- Forced honesty: Forcing her to politely express how mad or embarrassed she is. Offering words of sympathy while continuing to do the awful thing. Related to mind games.
- Forced eagerness / cutesyness / whatever: Forcing the sub to act very eager, especially in public. Making her speak in a soft, girlish voice. Making her say please and thank you. Making her wear cutesy, slutty outfits - especially hot when she hates the cutesyness just as much as the sluttiness. NOT daddy dom / little girl stuff, see my Hard nos.
- Instant obedience: E.g., literally running and falling to your knees when MC calls. Related to the above.
- Shirt in mouth: I will make her wear at least a tight top specifically so I can stick it in her mouth.
- Owning her pussy: Getting the sub waxed. Forbidding her from wearing underwear under her skirt. Strict orgasm control. Making her call it "your pussy."
- Owning her tits: Squeezing, slapping and pinching. Gently twisting and flicking her nipples. Clipping things to them.
- Random acts of affection: Kissing her tenderly. Complimenting her cleverness out of the blue. Related to mind games.
- Teasing: Telling her that his cock will always sting a little. Joking about selling her. Pretending to be angry just to amuse himself, forcing her to apologize profusely, and making her give him a kiss when he reveals it was all a charade. Imitating her for humor, especially if she's following his instructions. Related to mind games.
- Slow loss of perspective: Getting turned on by acting eager and cutesy. Fluttery feelings in her stomach when MC chokes her. Humiliating herself more than she has to (esp. in front of others, so MC can see what a good girl she is). Accepting that her purpose in life is whatever MC tells her it is and coming to adore the way he treats her.
- Explicitly remoulding her life purpose: E.g., telling her that her highest aspiration is to be MC's good little slave girl or a piece of equipment and making her say it.
- Lecturing: Related to the above. Love it or hate it, this is what I do. Always mixed with smut, if only e.g., his dick on her face while he explains why she is better off as his slave.
- Rehearsed commands: Silent commands, e.g., extending his hand could mean "come here," a snap could mean "kneel there."
- Trophy age gaps: For the public humiliation / power fantasy. Specifically 21-25 paired with 30-40.
- Belts and crops for punishments: Belting her ass, cropping her tits. See "slight turn offs" re: whips and blood.
- Throatfucking: Especially with mandatory eye contact, at least from her.
- So tight it hurts: Or, so big it hurts. It's all relative.
- Porny facials: I.e., pulling out and making your character kneel just to cum all over her face.
- Chain leashes: I just think they're hot. I also enjoy armbinders, but they rarely seem appropriate.
- Weird romance: Most romance in this genre involves a redemption arc on the Dom's part, but I ain't down. But YC can become a treasured slave who will be protected and cherished, even a morality pet. The bullying may come to seem more like his way of expressing affection. She will probably ultimately get a chance to leave, but it'll make me happy if she stays.
Slight turn offs:
- Whips and blood: I wouldn't say I'm squeamish, I just don't find it hot.
- Watersports: He'll piss on her face if you're craving it, but I'm not a huge fan.
- Gushy romance: If this is what you're after, I'm probably not the right partner.
Almost certainly a no:
- Severe trauma that leaves YC unable to enjoy life: I prefer characters who repeatedly bounce back.
- Writing with other men. It is not that we have nothing in common, just that women tend to appreciate how good I am with the little things, e.g., whispering sweet little threats in their ear, whereas men usually don't care about that kind of thing at all.
Hard nos:
- Calling MC "daddy." Also just dd/lg stuff in general.
- Scat, vomit, and other disgusting things.
- Snuff.
- I prefer frequent, short sex scenes with many suggestive details to a few long ones (I hate getting bogged down).
- The reason I lean towards fantasy is that big power differentials and public slavery make more sense, the latter partly because of the former. All of my plots also involve Dungeons and Dragons style adventurers. No idea why. Just what I'm interested in at the moment.
Otherwise, I am a pretty obliging partner, open to many kinks and partners of varying skill levels. The thing I value most in a partner is enthusiasm.
Plots
Option 1, "Old Customs" (dubcon)
This is set in a post-apocalyptic fantasy world where the largest settlements are mostly small towns and a few partially abandoned cities. Since the death of the last Kings, the civilized races - humans, elves, dwarves, and so on - all live by an old code, whose origins are shrouded in mystery. Among other things, rescued damsels are considered the temporary property of their rescuers. As rescued women are then customarily ransomed back to their families, this ensures that nobody needs to verify that there is a bounty posted for a woman's safe recovery before saving her. Moreover, it means that there's no reason to, e.g., sell her into slavery, since families will usually pay more. The system works pretty well, until it doesn't.
I want to leave this one open, as it is the premise that I like. Your character could be a high elven princess, an explorer looking to strike it rich, or whatever you like, as long as she has a strong sense of right and wrong. MC will be an adventurer who rescues her from great peril. What interests me is, crucially, the initial tension between her sense of honor, as she recognizes that the custom is an important one that keeps women safe, and her sense of dignity, as she cannot help but feel that the custom is barbaric and gross.
I'd like your character to be mature enough that the initial "seduction" comes as essentially zero surprise to her. Perhaps what will grate is how forceful it is, lacking all the sensitivity she expects from a suitor, as if her consent was never in doubt, as she didn't have the right to say no if she wanted to. Naturally things will slowly get worse.
This is a setup I love; you can see how the conflict is quieter and tenser than is typical in non-consensual plots, but still very real. We can discuss the plot.
Option 2, "Torch & Sheath" (fantasy) (2 girls) (extreme objectification)
This is plot requires you to play two characters, which is very selfish of me. But if you're a humiliation junkie who likes dungeon crawling, do hear me out.
Healslutting is a kink that originated in Overwatch. It now has a subreddit and plenty of fan art (NSFW: here and here). If you're a gamer, you'll know that healing is a kind of submission. You can't do anything by yourself and you require protection. You're more like a piece of equipment than a respectable class. You kind of deserve to be the party fucktoy.
The idea of having a sexy healer girl "equipped" like a piece of gear really appeals to me. However, I've found it doesn't quite work without some means to calculate damage. Unlike in video games, there just aren't enough excuses for healing. So I came up with an idea that lets me have my Healslut while ensuring there is plenty of degrading support work for you to write about.
I'd like you to play a white mage and a rogue. The latter will become a "sheath" for her new Master's largest sword, with, e.g., giant leather scabbard strapped to her back. The white mage will become a "torch," lighting his way, blessing his sword with divine flames, and healing. The ideal will be to indoctrinate the girls enough that they act like equipment, refer to themselves as equipment, and feel like equipment. Or rather, useless eye candy that occasionally receives the dubious honor of being "the right tool for the job," for example, when MC needs the rogue to scout ahead. MC will insist on strict "professionalism," where this includes everything from pesky little rules (keeping their arms behind their back when they're not using them, strict orgasm control) to, e.g., making them run and kneel in front of him when he whistles. This can get as extreme as you can tolerate; I wasn't imagining it would be consensual.
We're missing a word for the part of ERP that isn't plot or smut; in this case, it will be mostly focused on the degrading support work and (ideally very strict) command/obey training. Call this kinky fun. Some like kinky fun only as an appetizer, but here it's the main course. Smut is the desert. Or rather, the seasoning. When I say I want to turn YCs into equipment, this isn't a metaphor. I want MC to feel like a solo adventurer with some useful tools at his disposal, not the leader of a party. I am looking for a partner who is down for everything this entails.
Here are some possible ways to start:
- two girls put up flyers around town, e.g., "Swordsman Needed For Party of 2: Serious Applicants Only"
- a party hire a mercenary for assistance with a quest; when the loot is less than expected, he demands one of the girls as compensation; the other follows out of solidarity
But any ideas you have are fine.
It would be nice to use, e.g., AI-generated encounters and so on to really capture the "dungeon crawling with BDSM aspect." However, this is by no means required.
Would be duly grateful for some interest.
Option 3, "The Doomseeker"
I generally find plots involving magical kinds of mindbreak too "easy," but I've always wanted to try a slower, subtler and more intense kind of mindbreak. My idea involves a grimdark D&D-esque world where the vast majority of female adventurers are what are called "doomseekers," cursed with an irresistible urge to wander the Earth seeking out danger - hence why they chose such a perilous life. Tragically, when a doomseeker is enslaved, her will to resist slowly and painfully fades away, until she has no choice but to follow her Master's orders (although in some cases, something of their hatred for him will remain). This they call "meeting their fate," and while stronger-willed doomseekers can hold out longer, they all live in terror of it. The origins of the curse are disputed, i.e., we can consider various ideas. Regardless, most doomseekers band together to keep themselves safe from those who would take advantage of them. YC would be the leader of one such party, e.g., a paladin who receives a desperate missive from an old friend, only to realize she has been lured into a trap.
Some key points:
- This is basically a self-paced mindbreak plot, which should present an interesting challenge for a talented writer. I'd be happy to work out the exact nature of the curse in a way that suits your preferences. I don't want it to be very fast or easy.
- I'd prefer a partner who cares a fair bit about the world and the lore and her character.
I'm imagining YC might be a paladin who is summoned to assist a man she trusts, only to discover he has had a change of heart.
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If you're interested, PM me ASAP! Feel invited to pitch me any ideas of your own.
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