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DamonHuntington
Planetoid
- Joined
- Aug 7, 2017
Hello, and welcome to my Interest thread. Before we explore what makes me tick, we need to first set some base rules that are of utmost importance to me whenever I am interacting in a roleplay setting with another person.
Rule #1 - Communication.
I believe true communication to be the most important characteristic for those that are enjoying each other's company - either as a friend or a roleplay partner. Do not lie to my face. Do not pretend to enjoy the scene if you're finding it subpar. Be honest and forthcoming, and I shall extend the same courtesy to you.
I am a real life Dom, and one of the tenets that this personal characteristic entails is the knowledge that we can always learn more. This is why I find it problematic when people handwave my flaws and pretend like nothing is happening. If there is a problem, I expect you to be forthcoming with me about it. Help me improve - this is essentially what I'm asking for here.
Rule #2 - Consensuality.
Any kind of erotic activity must involve pleasure for both sides, something that cannot be attained if the interaction is one-sided. I expect the people interacting with me to have read through this post thoroughly in order to know what to do and what to avoid when it comes to written scenes with me.
Rest assured that I will do the same to you. My intention when writing stories is to bring pleasure to the one I am writing with, which I won't be able to do if I focus solely on my own desires. Roleplays are supposed to be an exchange of desires, a way to explore mutual feelings that both parties are willing to venture into.
I do not expect perfection from the people interacting with me - I know my list of turn-ons and turn-offs might be quite extensive, and I will understand if mistakes happen. However, if this continues happening over and over, I will not want to continue writing with you. In my opinion, consent is the most important part in a sexual interaction - thus, repeated breaches of consent shall not be pardoned.
Rule #3 - Openness.
We all have different kinks, and I want anyone that interacts with me to know that I will deliberately try my utmost to bring yours to fruition - provided, of course, this is not a boundary I'm not willing to cross. For that reason, I expect the ones interacting with me to be open about what they like, no matter how unique their kink is.
I promise in advance to not judge you or think lesser of you based on the aspects you enjoy. I might refuse to do it based on my preferences, but you are still entitled to your tastes. After all, no one chooses who or what they'll come to enjoy; for that reason, it wouldn't make sense to judge others based on their likes and dislikes.
If there is something you want to discuss in private with me before a scene, please do it. All I'm asking is that you are true to yourself so we'll be able to write the best scene we can together, while giving you my word beforehand that I'll respect and support your kinks even if I do not want to play them in the scene.
Rule #4 - Respect.
This is a corollary of the previous rule, as a matter of fact. I expect, and shall act in the same way, respect from the people I'm interacting in. Respect does not need to mean deference; I am not superior to anyone on these forums, and for that reason I do not need to be held in that kind of high regard. Contrariwise, I will always treat you, the roleplayer, with respect - even if your character is undergoing full verbal abuse and degradation. Characters and people are not interchangeable; there must be a clear line that divides creature from creator.
Furthermore, I expect a certain degree of decorum in external relationships - that is to say, I do not like people that talk behind one's back at all. If you have a problem with our scene, then you come and talk to me (as put forward by Rule #1); you do not go to other people and talk ill of me without my awareness while pretending that the roleplay is fine. If I discover that you have done that to me, the scene is off and we'll never interact anymore.
Rule #5 - Understanding.
Last, but not least, comes an expectation of understanding. I know that I'm fallible and that I can make mistakes - for that reason, I expect understanding from those that I'm interacting with in case I do something wrong. As it has been with all previous topics, I shall extend the same courtesy: I know everyone can err, and your intentions matter much more to me than your actions. If you show me that you feel for what you've done and make your utmost effort to not do the same mistake again, I will understand you and likely forgive as well.
I understand that not everyone is like me, and I respect the fact that some people will want to end the scene immediately in case a mistake occurs. That is your absolute right, and I shall not hold it against you - however, all that I am requesting for is the understanding that I had no ill intentions in my actions.
These are my ground rules, and they are non-negotiable. In case you agree with them and are currently thinking about interacting with me, please proceed to the next part.
[/td][td] [/td]Rule #1 - Communication.
I believe true communication to be the most important characteristic for those that are enjoying each other's company - either as a friend or a roleplay partner. Do not lie to my face. Do not pretend to enjoy the scene if you're finding it subpar. Be honest and forthcoming, and I shall extend the same courtesy to you.
I am a real life Dom, and one of the tenets that this personal characteristic entails is the knowledge that we can always learn more. This is why I find it problematic when people handwave my flaws and pretend like nothing is happening. If there is a problem, I expect you to be forthcoming with me about it. Help me improve - this is essentially what I'm asking for here.
Rule #2 - Consensuality.
Any kind of erotic activity must involve pleasure for both sides, something that cannot be attained if the interaction is one-sided. I expect the people interacting with me to have read through this post thoroughly in order to know what to do and what to avoid when it comes to written scenes with me.
Rest assured that I will do the same to you. My intention when writing stories is to bring pleasure to the one I am writing with, which I won't be able to do if I focus solely on my own desires. Roleplays are supposed to be an exchange of desires, a way to explore mutual feelings that both parties are willing to venture into.
I do not expect perfection from the people interacting with me - I know my list of turn-ons and turn-offs might be quite extensive, and I will understand if mistakes happen. However, if this continues happening over and over, I will not want to continue writing with you. In my opinion, consent is the most important part in a sexual interaction - thus, repeated breaches of consent shall not be pardoned.
Rule #3 - Openness.
We all have different kinks, and I want anyone that interacts with me to know that I will deliberately try my utmost to bring yours to fruition - provided, of course, this is not a boundary I'm not willing to cross. For that reason, I expect the ones interacting with me to be open about what they like, no matter how unique their kink is.
I promise in advance to not judge you or think lesser of you based on the aspects you enjoy. I might refuse to do it based on my preferences, but you are still entitled to your tastes. After all, no one chooses who or what they'll come to enjoy; for that reason, it wouldn't make sense to judge others based on their likes and dislikes.
If there is something you want to discuss in private with me before a scene, please do it. All I'm asking is that you are true to yourself so we'll be able to write the best scene we can together, while giving you my word beforehand that I'll respect and support your kinks even if I do not want to play them in the scene.
Rule #4 - Respect.
This is a corollary of the previous rule, as a matter of fact. I expect, and shall act in the same way, respect from the people I'm interacting in. Respect does not need to mean deference; I am not superior to anyone on these forums, and for that reason I do not need to be held in that kind of high regard. Contrariwise, I will always treat you, the roleplayer, with respect - even if your character is undergoing full verbal abuse and degradation. Characters and people are not interchangeable; there must be a clear line that divides creature from creator.
Furthermore, I expect a certain degree of decorum in external relationships - that is to say, I do not like people that talk behind one's back at all. If you have a problem with our scene, then you come and talk to me (as put forward by Rule #1); you do not go to other people and talk ill of me without my awareness while pretending that the roleplay is fine. If I discover that you have done that to me, the scene is off and we'll never interact anymore.
Rule #5 - Understanding.
Last, but not least, comes an expectation of understanding. I know that I'm fallible and that I can make mistakes - for that reason, I expect understanding from those that I'm interacting with in case I do something wrong. As it has been with all previous topics, I shall extend the same courtesy: I know everyone can err, and your intentions matter much more to me than your actions. If you show me that you feel for what you've done and make your utmost effort to not do the same mistake again, I will understand you and likely forgive as well.
I understand that not everyone is like me, and I respect the fact that some people will want to end the scene immediately in case a mistake occurs. That is your absolute right, and I shall not hold it against you - however, all that I am requesting for is the understanding that I had no ill intentions in my actions.
These are my ground rules, and they are non-negotiable. In case you agree with them and are currently thinking about interacting with me, please proceed to the next part.
