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twilight_traveler88
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- Joined
- May 30, 2010
Good evening all! How are you? Well...I've been a member for one month and two days so far, and I have to say my experience here is memorable. I've met a lot of cool people, played a lot of interesting games, and read a variety of topics!
I thought that, since I'm waiting for a roleplay to come my way, I'd post a thread about the Forbidden Triad of activities in the world of online erotica.
-Personal Photos (nude or not)
-Phone sex
-The presence of webcams (for whatever reason)
Mainly I just want to know what you all think about these things, either in general or personally. Statements like "Oh, I'll do that!" aren't being sought after, by the way.
One of the things I'm studying in college right now is human sexuality and social deviance so you could say I'm predisposed.
So! I guess I'll begin.
Personally I don't have many issues with them. My philosophy is similar to Robert De Niro's in "Heat": Don't walk into something you can't walk out of relatively unscathed. By the way, those of you that like De Niro and Al Pacino, awesome movie. Watch it.
As far as personal photos go, those of you who have visited my website or meander over to the "Post your face!" thread can see that I have no problem there. I'm not an awkward person--figuratively speaking :-D--so the prospect doesn't make me uncomfortable. More compromising pictures are generally a no-no. One, it violates my philosophy, and two, seeing me naked would probably cause you people more pain than pleasure. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: That's just no way to repay the kindness I've been shown.
Phone sex...hm. I've seen that discussed and at times embraced on a few threads here. Shocked the holy hell outta me, merely for the fact that it was present! It was one of the things I saw here that really showed me that Blue Moon was a community of mature and open-minded people.
(Micro)phone sex is interesting, because many people who join boards like these like to wholly preserve their anonymity, and that's just fine. The fascinating thing is, between phone sex and pictures with nudity or other compromising material, the former is usually always seen as more personal than the latter. I suppose it is more intimate in a way...but unless the person on the other end is recording you (scary thought), there isn't any evidence of the fact, aside from prospective phone number and leech troubles. I suppose it all boils down to how comfortable you are with the person and your voice(s). On a personal note, I like my voice, and have trained it to be generally pleasant. Professional speaking and any high school debate team'll do that to you. As far as being receptive to the activity...it's really case-dependent. I don't have 'casual' phone sex, I'd have to get to know you first, but since I do a lot of my relations on the computer (friends, colleagues, family, employees, etc) through webcam and microphone, I'm not generally opposed to it. Sex aside, it's always great fun to talk to people from different regions and countries!
Webcams! Ooookay. By uniform decree, the most personal angle in the triangle. Now I suppose it all boils down to how much--if any--of yourself are you willing to include in this online activity? Myself, I have no issue using them for general conversation or roleplay planning--saves me from typing, which is important to a cam-spoiled man like me. As for things of a more illicit nature...I'm not sure. Another come-what-may perspective here as far as I go.
All of these activities and their inherent fears are not really equal, in my opinion. Women--one of whom I am not, I don't have the balls to be a woman--have a lot more to deal with here than men do. Being the beautiful, priceless, and ethereal creatures that they are have a lot more shit to wade through. This is due in no small part to the lesser fuck-ronauts of our gender, right fellas? Ya know...the chat room cockroaches, the profile hunting rats, and the like.
Clatoo, Verata, Nicto. Alright then. I said the damn words. I do apologize for the length though...I didn't intend it to be that loaded. Anyone else interested in tackling the topic?
-Dustin
I thought that, since I'm waiting for a roleplay to come my way, I'd post a thread about the Forbidden Triad of activities in the world of online erotica.
-Personal Photos (nude or not)
-Phone sex
-The presence of webcams (for whatever reason)
Mainly I just want to know what you all think about these things, either in general or personally. Statements like "Oh, I'll do that!" aren't being sought after, by the way.
One of the things I'm studying in college right now is human sexuality and social deviance so you could say I'm predisposed.So! I guess I'll begin.
Personally I don't have many issues with them. My philosophy is similar to Robert De Niro's in "Heat": Don't walk into something you can't walk out of relatively unscathed. By the way, those of you that like De Niro and Al Pacino, awesome movie. Watch it.
As far as personal photos go, those of you who have visited my website or meander over to the "Post your face!" thread can see that I have no problem there. I'm not an awkward person--figuratively speaking :-D--so the prospect doesn't make me uncomfortable. More compromising pictures are generally a no-no. One, it violates my philosophy, and two, seeing me naked would probably cause you people more pain than pleasure. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: That's just no way to repay the kindness I've been shown.
Phone sex...hm. I've seen that discussed and at times embraced on a few threads here. Shocked the holy hell outta me, merely for the fact that it was present! It was one of the things I saw here that really showed me that Blue Moon was a community of mature and open-minded people.
(Micro)phone sex is interesting, because many people who join boards like these like to wholly preserve their anonymity, and that's just fine. The fascinating thing is, between phone sex and pictures with nudity or other compromising material, the former is usually always seen as more personal than the latter. I suppose it is more intimate in a way...but unless the person on the other end is recording you (scary thought), there isn't any evidence of the fact, aside from prospective phone number and leech troubles. I suppose it all boils down to how comfortable you are with the person and your voice(s). On a personal note, I like my voice, and have trained it to be generally pleasant. Professional speaking and any high school debate team'll do that to you. As far as being receptive to the activity...it's really case-dependent. I don't have 'casual' phone sex, I'd have to get to know you first, but since I do a lot of my relations on the computer (friends, colleagues, family, employees, etc) through webcam and microphone, I'm not generally opposed to it. Sex aside, it's always great fun to talk to people from different regions and countries!
Webcams! Ooookay. By uniform decree, the most personal angle in the triangle. Now I suppose it all boils down to how much--if any--of yourself are you willing to include in this online activity? Myself, I have no issue using them for general conversation or roleplay planning--saves me from typing, which is important to a cam-spoiled man like me. As for things of a more illicit nature...I'm not sure. Another come-what-may perspective here as far as I go.
All of these activities and their inherent fears are not really equal, in my opinion. Women--one of whom I am not, I don't have the balls to be a woman
--have a lot more to deal with here than men do. Being the beautiful, priceless, and ethereal creatures that they are have a lot more shit to wade through. This is due in no small part to the lesser fuck-ronauts of our gender, right fellas? Ya know...the chat room cockroaches, the profile hunting rats, and the like. Clatoo, Verata, Nicto. Alright then. I said the damn words. I do apologize for the length though...I didn't intend it to be that loaded. Anyone else interested in tackling the topic?
-Dustin
