Zero Frame
Planetoid
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2014
Introduction
Hello and welcome to another search thread where you are told what to do, how to do it, how bored I am with ideas other than X, Y, and Z--and really, where you don't get to have any fun at all. Also, make sure that your gender IRL matches with the gender of the character you are playing, or else!
Well, that's not my idea of a good time, and plenty of people here seem to agree. There are plenty of awesome people on BMR who don't have threads like that, and I would like to put myself out there and see if anyone gels with my particular perspective on roleplaying and subjects worth exploring.
My Perspective
There is no single way to have a good time when it comes to roleplaying, but there are definitely many ways to spoil the experience for both yourself as well as your partner.
Partner vs. Entertainer
Unless the purpose of your RP is to have a GM dictate the flow of the action and all scenes within the RP, we should be working together as partners. From the first message to the final scenes, we are engaged in a collaborative effort. This doesn't mean one of us comes to the other with a fully-formed idea that is then subjected to an arbitrary pass/fail metric.
That's not roleplaying, that's expecting to be catered to by others--and while that can be the subject of your roleplay, I do not personally find it entertaining to be placed in a position where I must please another before I received a few lines of malnourished text in response. I would much rather come to you with an idea, hear your input and your ideas and then synthesize something we can both enjoy. Granted, sometimes that doesn't happen, and that's perfectly fine. Sometimes, you and your partner are looking for different things.
Equitable Contribution
I am not asking for mirroring length in posts so much as I am asking for putting in the effort to establish scenes, expand upon them and to drive our story forward. I enjoy multiple paragraph responses and descriptive detail, but I will not hold it against you if you prefer shorter, faster responses. What I would like to see is that we are both interested in the scenario we've agreed upon, our characters, and generally seeing our story through.
Your characters have just as much influence as my own on the narrative. You shouldn't feel compelled to ask me what my ideas are as a condition for continuing to interact with me. You have ideas, your characters have ideas, so feel free to act upon them. Again, I love to discuss ideas for the RP and I welcome that. However, being asked to constantly push or pull the scene and story forward is indicative of someone who wishes to be entertained rather than someone who enjoys cooperative and collaborative play.
Preferences, preferences, preferences
We all have them, none of them are particularly original and we would all like to indulge in them with another. I am keenly aware that my preferences are not what are en vogue at the moment--and some are more played out than parachute pants. If something seems cliche, boring or otherwise uninteresting to you, I feel that the more productive activity is to create scenarios that do not feel as such to you. I personally see workaday premises as a challenge. If the scenario is unambitious, is it the characters that make it interesting? Perhaps the richness of the setting? Maybe its the manner in which the characters tackle the dilemmas of the narrative that makes it all so engaging?
Granted, I am not asking you to play out MxF scenes or trans characters when you have no interest in those subjects, as that would be a poor experience for everyone if the interest isn't there. What I am asking is that instead of pining for what makes you hot, find a way to make the things you enjoy fun for others as well.
Gender, Players and Characters
I get that some of you want to play with "real" men and women behind the keyboard, though I disagree with the reasons I have heard over the years I have been playing pretend on the internet. For me, player gender certainly plays a role in how one approaches role playing--just like everything else in that player's life. Why not extend your requests to "white females with an upper-middle class background"? Surely if player gender is so important, then you may as well go hard and deep into cherry picking what you want out of other people.
For me, player gender doesn't matter. I value your commitment and willingness to collaborate as a role player and I would rather others did the same. There are no guarantees that your experience will be intrinsically better based on the gender of the other person slapping onomatopoeia for how fluids sound exiting the body of our play-pretend self-insert characters.
Tying it all together
So, what I am really trying to get at here is that we're all trying to harness the right tools and talent, both from ourselves as well as others. I feel that you are doing a disservice to yourself as well as other players when you place your preferences before your engagement with your potential partners. If you give up because someone has not delivered a hand crafted experience that caters to your every need, you would be better off searching for literature rather than a role playing experience. Maybe commission a short piece from a self-publishing writer?
Roleplaying
I will play through threads, PMs and messenger services--simply ask and we can work something out. I would like to start playing through threads, as I understand that PMs on BMR place a severe strain on the servers and I would like to remove clutter from my inbox. I am willing to play female and male characters, and I am more than happy to double up with anyone who would like to put forth that level of effort as well.
I prefer multi-paragraph responses, as I have found that I do enjoy the description and detail that comes with that format. I can also find enjoyment with shorter responses as well.
I am online most evenings for a few hours, and on the weekends my availability can widen to include the late mornings and early afternoons. The ideal posting arrangement for me would be to maintain a nice "rally", where we happen to catch one another at a good time to post and reply several times in a given day. I try to post once a day, and will do my best to keep you informed of any extended absences.