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_____writing style
- Medium; Threads for in-character and PMs to brainstorm. I'm also on the BMR Discord server under the same name.
- Communication & Creativity; Story contribution is a must! I want a clear idea of where we see the story going - with flexibility along the way - and twists and surprises are more than welcome. It's also important to me that we discuss our kinks and what we enjoy in general to make sure we're both getting what we want, so don't be shy.
- Activity; Be able to reply a few times a week, and send a heads-up when your schedule or interest changes. In 2022 I'm committing to a faster post turnaround to avoid the burn out that sometimes accompanies slower paced RPs. If you regularly take 1-2 weeks to reply then I'm not the partner for you, so please bear that in mind.
- Plot | Smut; Certain RPs benefit from a slow burn while others can jump right into the steamy scenes without sacrificing a good plot. I enjoy the occasional literary one-night stand but overall I prefer a strong foundation of character development and world building, while erotica, like drama and conflict, fills in the gaps. Even when we're trying a new pairing or kink in a short term story, there needs to be context behind it.
- Writing Style; I love immersive characterization, detail, and decent grammar to pull it all together. My sweet spot is 2-4 paragraphs to keep the story moving, with meatier exposition posts as needed.
- God-modding; Moving my character or implying her reaction to advance the scene is OK if we agree beforehand. Anything more without prior discussion is a big no-no.
_____delights
- "Manly" men; I primarily write M/F as the female with a traditionally masculine male (tall, ruggedly handsome, scruff and/or body hair). The contrast of a big intimidating guy and the lady he adores is alluring, even if their relationship didn't start out that way, or if we're writing a small Dom/big sub dynamic.
- Feminine characters; any feminine-presenting characters (cis, trans, intersex/"futa", cross-dressing femboys) are a welcome love interest for my female or intersex characters. <3
- The Holy Trinity; Giving/receiving vaginal, oral and anal, and many more standard kinks from my F-list page.
- Dark themes; such as exploring conflict (inner and outer), angst, tension and trauma - not constant grimdark edgelords. I love when characters and plots make me feel something, y'know? I realize it isn't everyone's cup of tea so, like most other items on this list, it isn't a must have but certainly appreciated.
- Intimacy; kisses, cuddling, undressing/dressing one another, bathing and cooking together, playing with hair, and other displays of affection.
- Gentle, tender, love-making sex
- Romance; no matter how dark the story is, I crave an emotional connection between characters. Stolen glances and touches, flirting, all the way to passionate half-clothed sex on a table because you just can't keep your hands off any more. Whether it's sweet and loving or twisted and possessive, vanilla doesn't have to be boring!
- Slow burn, sexual tension, teasing
- Seduction; especially physical seduction where the body wants it but mind doesn't
- Contrasting characters, taboo relationships, class differences, etc
- Fantasy raceplay; who doesn't love a dainty elf and her burly orc lover?
- Non-D/s relationships; I prefer to focus on characters' multi-faceted personalities and motives without the use of D/s titles. Though I enjoy elements of D/s (see below), I don't write stories based on BDSM and it shouldn't take the place of character development.
- Gentle domination; pleasure control, toys, light bondage, worship, forced nudity and various forms of painless control are all great. For the curious, click here for the results of my BDSM test.
- Mental restraints; blackmail, customs, morality.
- Physical restraints and sensory play; using hands or rope/scarves/cuffs, blindfolds, gags
- Roughness; passionately fast 'n hard to I-think-I-hate-you sex. Wrestling, love bites, hair pulling, forcing them to their knees...
- Realistic anatomy
- Hurt/comfort
- Drug and alcohol use
- Age gaps 1-10 years
- Clothing detail; gloves, leather, clothing damage, uniforms, dressing/undressing each other... you get the point.
- Dubious consent
- Orientation play
- Voyeurism
- Knifeplay; dragged across skin, held against their throat, cutting their clothes.
- Rough talk; name calling (not derogatory), cursing, vocal in bed
_____tentative * Niche likes and highly contextual things I'll try only with trusted partners.
- Non-consent; non-con as a one off scene for character/plot development, or non-con scenes which become consensual over time.
- Gender transformation / genderfluid; something I enjoyed exploring in past plots with the right partner.
- Age gaps 10-15 years
- Pet play; being treated like a prized possession or attack dog, complete with training, commands, collaring etc, not the kitty ears and going for walkies type.
- Slice of life; I'm not into re-hashing porn scenes with lusty coworkers or a bored MILF housewife, but if your pitch isn't completely smut based I'll hear you out.
- Exhibitionism; semi-public, might get caught, outdoors
- Impregnation
- Threesomes; an otherwise monogamous couple who want to have a fling together, share a pet, or simply spice things up for a night!
- Degradation
- Consensual cuckolding; not humiliating her partner but divulging in his desire to watch her.
- Moral corruption; a paladin who turns from their doctrine of Light because they fall for a monster, for example.
_____hard stop
- Anime face claims
- Sadism; nipple twisting/clamps, caning, choking, sexual torture and other forms of control via pain. Some humiliation or pain like a slap across the face, etc, is fine for a good reason but I will not write a plaything to be abused for your character's enjoyment, or vice versa.
- Bimbofication
- Short races; halflings, goblins etc
- Polyamory or harems
- Filth, vore, bestiality, death, younger than 17, etc
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