The Female Perspective

[Admiral Squish]

Hi there! I'm a semi-professional writer of smut, and I'm starting to realize just how much misinformation is out there in porn. Most of the stuff I've based my own writing style off of is written by men. And while we try, my gender lacks the frame of reference to really know what sex is really like for the fairer sex. So, I'm curious about sex from the female perspective. Now, I know it's subjective, and there are going to be some things that get glossed over, or even actively misrepresented, for the sake of sexiness. But I figure I should at least KNOW what the reality is, rather than guessing, even if I don't end up using much of it. And the more perspectives I get, the better my understanding will be.

So, what I'm asking for here is a little guidance from the ladies of the forum. I'm looking for descriptions of uniquely female experiences and the female perspective on certain things. What's actually going on in the heat of the passion? You can post them here, or PM them to me, if you don't want to expose the secrets of the fairer sex to the world at large.

To start with, here's some things I'm curious about:
What is a female orgasm actually like?
Are there actually different kinds of orgasms (vaginal, clitoral, squirting, anal, nipple...), and if so, how are they distinct?
What does penetration feel like?
Does size matter, and if yes, is length or thickness more important?