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Ignoring people for me is both understandable and burden, I've been on ignore lists a couple different times for no reason, once was just simply for my profile picture and the other time i have ignored people for spamming me constantly wanting me to respond when i've been in the er or worst the hospital
 
I very rarely ever have to block/ignore people. More often than not, I'm the one who gets blocked/ignored, and even that's pretty rare. The few times I have, it's either because someone didn't want to continue a scene and thought it'd be easier to just block me instead of telling me(which, while frustrating, is understandable), or they are upset that I turned them down.

The few times I have blocked someone, it was because they resorted to insults or to spamming me after I rejected them. I understand rejection is a bitch, but it's still odd how badly some people react to it.
 
I don’t think I’m on anyone’s ignored list? .3.

Nor do I have anyone on my list... I think? .3.
 
Currently, I have no one on my ignore list. It takes a bit to get there. If I find you overly annoying in some form or you just rub me the wrong way, you might end up on that list. The one and only person I did end up putting on ignore is no longer on that list, as they seem to be completely gone from the board period.
 
I don't bother with an ignore list unless a person works really, really, really hard to tick me off.

Generally...? I'm a reasonable-minded adult who has an in-built "ignore" feature. I prefer to use that above using a moderator or tool to complain at.
 
Within 10 minutes of signing up, I saw an ad from someone I blocked on Discord, yesterday. I immediately Ignored him and wished I could totally block him, so he can't see me.

I joined a RP server, and this guy was the owner. He approached me, and I politely said that I didn't think we were compatible. He accepted the first time. The second day, he hmu again and told me he was amazing at writing porn. I listened to another pitch, but the longer we talked, the more rude he got. I said no thanks, again. Then he went off about me "leading him on". I blocked him and left the server immediately.

He's a #metoo waiting to happen.
 
I think the only people I have on my ignore list were unbelievably rude (to put it nicely) when I noted that, after some discussion, that I didn't think we were going to be compatible to roleplay. I don't think I'm an ass, and most people place me under easy going, but there is a limit to what I'll "take" before I just 'nope' out of having any contact with a particular person.
 
I've gotten to the point of just Ignoring people who can't sack up and tell me they just don't want to play with me and give weird excuses or don't respond to PMs. I don't need to keep reading their ads when they come up in the New Posts list.
 
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At the moment I'm only ignoring people who were either rude to me in our conversations, and those who deliberately ghosted me.

It would be nice to have a proper block feature here.
 
The Quill said:
At the moment I'm only ignoring people who were either rude to me in our conversations, and those who deliberately ghosted me.

It would be nice to have a proper block feature here.
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What does that mean? If you ignore someone, you no longer see their threads or their posts unless you select "show ignored responses" and they cannot message you. I think that is pretty good enough.

Do you mean like how Twitter blocks users, like when you block someone they can no longer see YOUR posts? If they can't message you, and you cannot see them...why would it matter what they see?
 
Also, I notice some people get confused about the ignore function because of the "leave conversation" function. There's two options when you leave, either "accept new replies to the conversation" or "ignore new replies". People think the ignore feature is "not working/not good enough" because they either 1. Don't leave a conversation with someone they put on ignore or 2. They don't select "ignore further replies" when they leave it. In that case, yes, people you have on ignore can still send you messages through that conversation unless you leave AND ignore further replies. If the person is on ignore, they should not be able to start an entirely new conversation with you.
 
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That’s messed up though. How are they still able to message the person if they are ignored.

If I block someone I don’t want them to see me and I don’t want to see them. And even if they are ignored they can still post on your wall and you won’t know because you don’t get notifications for that use anymore.

A block button would could in handy with people that are a little too overzealous and don't get the hint.
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I was about to say this exact same thing.

A block feature would prevent an overzealous person from harassing you when you've made it clear you want nothing to do with them.
 
Showmeyouloveme said:
If I block someone I don’t want them to see me and I don’t want to see them. And even if they are ignored they can still post on your wall and you won’t know because you don’t get notifications for that use anymore.
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This was exactly what I was worried about when I spotted someone in here 10 minutes after I joined that I'd just had to block elsewhere a couple days previous. I'm not crazy narcissistic, but it crossed my mind that they could be s#!tposting on my wall or after my replies or something because they were still upset.
 
I would suggest that if you find out someone you've blocked/ignored is still hassling you (even though you can't see it), report it to the moderators.

It would then demonstrate that the other person isn't mature enough to move on.
 
I don't ignore people. I'd rather talk the problem out. If someone has a problem with me. I want them to tell me so I can change. I'm a nice person. I don't intentionally try to piss people off.
 
Hard. I'm big enough. I can laugh at some idiots (or go through the issue as above if I think it'll get anywhere). If I have a message box filled up, I might consider it, but that's also probably the point I should be looking at site staff - so, I guess the point where I do consider it is when I should be looking towards a more permanent solution to someone who's representing a much wider problem.
 
I'll ignore someone who is extremely homophobic or on the extreme end of the political spectrum.
Other than the usual spammers, ect.
 
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