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Planetoid
- Joined
- Jul 27, 2011
Why, hello there!
When it comes to love play I always find myself in a more dominant position. It is not that I ever sought to dominate, that I desired to take charge over a submissive It always has comes quite naturally and I simply love it that way.
Lately, however, I find myself drawn to what one may call the darker desires: BDSM. Yet I am rather inexperienced in that field. I might have read some articles, stories and even guides on the subject but more than ever I feel that being dominant alone can not substitute experience.
Thus, I am looking to make my first experiences.
How might those first experiences look?
First of all, I will not turn anyone down any woman who can manage to win my interest!
Furthermore, you should not misinterpret this search as insecurity on my part. I am dominant. I know what I want and I have an idea of what I am going to do. What I don't have is experience and since, in my understanding, a BDSM relationship lives from trust I feel obliged to state that fact. It is the right thing to do and a thing that isn't done right isn't worth doing, at all.
That said, I am primarily looking for one of the following:
a) A female writer/player who actually is a novice when it comes to BDSM and wants to make her first steps with a master who is training his first slave. I would not mind an exchange of thoughts and feelings outside of the role play.
or
b) A female writer/player and experienced sub who willingly submits to a young, new master. I am not looking for some kind of submissive teacher who tells me what to do since that would not make any sense in my mind. What I am looking for may be best described as a 'test object' who might or might not be willing to share her experiences with me outside of the actual role play.
If you find yourself interested do not hesitate to send me a PM!
When it comes to love play I always find myself in a more dominant position. It is not that I ever sought to dominate, that I desired to take charge over a submissive It always has comes quite naturally and I simply love it that way.
Lately, however, I find myself drawn to what one may call the darker desires: BDSM. Yet I am rather inexperienced in that field. I might have read some articles, stories and even guides on the subject but more than ever I feel that being dominant alone can not substitute experience.
Thus, I am looking to make my first experiences.
How might those first experiences look?
First of all, I will not turn anyone down any woman who can manage to win my interest!
Furthermore, you should not misinterpret this search as insecurity on my part. I am dominant. I know what I want and I have an idea of what I am going to do. What I don't have is experience and since, in my understanding, a BDSM relationship lives from trust I feel obliged to state that fact. It is the right thing to do and a thing that isn't done right isn't worth doing, at all.
That said, I am primarily looking for one of the following:
a) A female writer/player who actually is a novice when it comes to BDSM and wants to make her first steps with a master who is training his first slave. I would not mind an exchange of thoughts and feelings outside of the role play.
or
b) A female writer/player and experienced sub who willingly submits to a young, new master. I am not looking for some kind of submissive teacher who tells me what to do since that would not make any sense in my mind. What I am looking for may be best described as a 'test object' who might or might not be willing to share her experiences with me outside of the actual role play.
- In a role play I am going to play a wealthy, young man in his mid to late twenties who, just as myself, has not made any BDSM experiences, yet.
- I wont engage in any non-consensual scene - throw a co-worker at me, a neighbor, or a teacher. A mature housewife or a naughty teenager. A wife, a mother, an aunt, a complete stranger. I am open for many things but it has to remain consensual.
- I am looking for a longer termed role play, not for a scene to quickly get off and turn to the next.
- I looking forward to experiencing the different facets of the training, meaning that it might be reasonable to split the role play in several sessions whereas not every session might end in sexual contact.
If you find yourself interested do not hesitate to send me a PM!