iKitten said:
submissive~ o3o
sometimes
Lies! Oh, wait, tiny notes now read. But Hahvy is more correct in her correction.
I'm Dom, but I'm not aggressive about it. I'm copacetic with just about anything, and just interacting socially, I can be or act however.
Actually, when it comes to writing, I could conceivably play any role, but the only one that does absolutely nothing for me is malesub. I have zero interest in it, just personally. Playing femsub, I at least get the imagery I'd enjoy if I were topping.
I have a better grip on why people might be submissive than I do as to why I feel like I'm Dominant. I don't necessarily get a huge thrill out of exerting my power (although, no lie, there's a little of that, sure). I think I get the best satisfaction out of eliciting the reaction I want out of my subject. Having them helpless, at my mercy, and then using that authority to bring them off... that gives me satisfaction, like a good shepherd feels satisfied when the flock makes it home safely.
Otherwise, it's the femsub imagery that really arouses me. How I'm wired, I suppose.