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Super-Earth
- Joined
- May 25, 2011
- Location
- Michigan, US
I was going to put some anonymity into this but why bother when this is a serious issue... no need to sugar-coat it.
So here's the situation...
I went to a con and was staying in a hotel with a few friends. My fiance came up cause we were all supposed to go to this big rave together at the convention. Before we were supposed to leave, I had some drinks and hugged this guy friend of mine. I heard I was about to kiss him.
My fiance came out of nowhere and smacked me on the rear really hard. He hit me twice, and the second time I sort of collapsed. He said, "You deserved it." And that was it...
Now, before you all go saying, "This guy is abusive!" and la la la... Please understand that he's never done this before. I spent the rest of my weekend trying to tell my friends that this isn't how it usually is and my fiance isn't this monster that beats me up.
It's been about two weeks since the convention, and I still think about it. Even though I forgave him and he promised he'd never do it again (he hasn't touched me since), a part of me is like "What do I do now?" I gave my ring to him because I felt we needed to think things through. But now I want my ring back.
I said I had too much to drink that night but everyone's saying, that's no excuse for his behavior and he could have handled it better. I don't know what to do. I want to stay with him but these flashbacks are making me rethink things.
So here's the situation...
I went to a con and was staying in a hotel with a few friends. My fiance came up cause we were all supposed to go to this big rave together at the convention. Before we were supposed to leave, I had some drinks and hugged this guy friend of mine. I heard I was about to kiss him.
My fiance came out of nowhere and smacked me on the rear really hard. He hit me twice, and the second time I sort of collapsed. He said, "You deserved it." And that was it...
Now, before you all go saying, "This guy is abusive!" and la la la... Please understand that he's never done this before. I spent the rest of my weekend trying to tell my friends that this isn't how it usually is and my fiance isn't this monster that beats me up.
It's been about two weeks since the convention, and I still think about it. Even though I forgave him and he promised he'd never do it again (he hasn't touched me since), a part of me is like "What do I do now?" I gave my ring to him because I felt we needed to think things through. But now I want my ring back.
I said I had too much to drink that night but everyone's saying, that's no excuse for his behavior and he could have handled it better. I don't know what to do. I want to stay with him but these flashbacks are making me rethink things.
