Tailor Made to You (Seeking F, for IM-RP)

[Nezumi]

** Not looking for more at the moment **​

Let me first state my dislikes, since that's really the best way to say what I'm looking for:

1) Poor writing.

Self-explanatory.

2) Not inventing anything of your own and/or not exploring the world.

For instance, the following is bad:

Me: I lick at your nipples.
You: "Oh!" I moan as my nipples are licked!

Don't simply react to what I have written. Come up with an action of your own and do it. Slide your hands along my body; slide them along yours; push into the lick; pull back from it; slap my ass and call me Sally; overall, just do something that's proactive.

Similarly, if I'm writing something like:

Me: As your kidnapper leads you down the corridor, you are temporarily blinded as the large open doorways reveal the harsh sunlight to your sensitive eyes. Though you can barely see, the well-tended garden outside appears to be unguarded...though your captor's laxness in watching you perhaps suggests that escape wouldn't be quite that easy.

That's not merely florid detail. I'm giving you a chance to develop your character. It might well be outside of your character's personality to escape, but I don't know that. It's not in me to think, "Well I know as the DM that she can't escape, so I may as well skip to the part where she's tied up and getting fucked." To me that's power-emoting. Even if your character can't escape, she may still be the sort of person who would try. It may be that my presumption that escape is impossible is wrong, and you think of some clever ruse that gets her free. At any rate, I would still like to see the person who I am playing with react in some way to the position that she is in, even if it's just to explain why she wouldn't even consider trying to run away.

3) Having very narrowly defined interests and always wanting to do the same thing.

While I quite enjoy plain, vanilla sex in a monogamous relationship in the real world, when you're working over IM, there's only so many ways that you can say, "Place penis in vagina. Pump vigorously." If you are only interested in vanilla, only interested in being impregnated, only interested in being tied up, only interested in being raped by monsters, or whatever, then I'm going to get a bit bored as time goes on. Personally, I'd rather have all sorts of power-dynamics, all sorts of pairings, all sorts of kinks, and all sorts of positions. If you don't think it would be plausible for a particular character to have a lot of variety in what she does, then let's each have a selection of characters or RP storylines that we switch between.

Similarly, I'd really rather not do sex in every RP. We can look at it as that all story elements leads to the next sexual encounter, but that could take one or two full, 3-hour sessions to arrive at that point -- the whole time giving you lots of opportunities to change the course you're on so that the end results is based on what choices your character made, rather than some pre-scripted scene that you were going to end up in no matter what.

4) Not telling me if the story or situation is not to your taste.

I do my best to come up with stories and situations that seem like they might be to your liking. But, particularly if I have just met you, I really have no way of getting that right 100% of the time. If you give me warning, I can often nudge the story back to your comfort zone, or do a full reset to undo everything that you didn't like. If instead you play through like you're enjoying yourself and then never appear on IM again, we've both lost one person that we can ever contact for RP again. There's only so many decent writers on boards like this, so if you mark one off for reasons that need not have been permanent, you're really cutting in to your own potential for enjoyment (and of course, mine as well.)

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Overall, I'm looking for someone who likes long-term, story-based RP with full-freedom of movement and exploration. If you want that story to be entirely clean, with no sex, that is just fine by me. If, on the other hand, you'd want as much sex as possible, then as noted I'd prefer that each time be fairly different from the time before it. If you're only interested in plain vanilla, expect there to be looots of story between encounters.

I don't have a menu of story ideas to allure you with, but that's because I always create something new for my partner based on the preferences she gives. This can take some time and we probably wouldn't end up being able to RP the first time we speak together, but it does mean that you'll get something specifically tailored to you. (And of course note that, while I have presented all of the above as having me be the DM, I'm perfectly happy to let you be the story-teller and me be the prime actor.) On average, I probably write about 5-6 sentences per post, though this can be as few as 1 or as many as 12-15 depending on need. I have done and enjoy wall-of-text RPs, if that's the style you prefer.

I won't do M/M scenes, nor scenes with particularly old (say 50+) or excessively young characters (say 11-), but otherwise I am quite open to most situations and kinks. While I am happy to let you play as a male character, I would rather that the player be female.

I am in the Pacific Standard Time zone, and available on AIM, YIM, and MSN. If you're in Europe, I would likely only be available to you on weekends. Please PM me if you have any interest.

http://www.f-list.net/c/Nezumi/

-Nezumi