Strange Days
"ᴛɪᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ sᴛᴜᴘɪᴅ."
- Joined
- Aug 29, 2020
- Location
- Pizza Land
I don't know if it'd count as ghosting but I find it somewhat annoying when people that I ended things with early on (on good terms most of the time) due to getting overwhelmed with RL keep trying ro reach out for small talk despite us not having been close in the slightest. So, I rarely end up replying to that kind of message - especially multiple pokes.
Obviously that changes if it's a long-time partner getting back in touch with me, or wanting to know how things are going. That makes me pretty happy, the former doesn't.
And back to the topic at hand : I think I mostly ended things/ghosted when a starter was wildly different from what the person said they could put out OOC (e.g. being given a run-on behemoth of a starter filled to the brim with horrible grammar, spelling mistakes and odd punctuation/capitalization) or it tried to auto-pilot MC into a wish-fulfillment scenario.
I'm not that bothered by being left on read. If it happens I usually wait for a week or so, then wish 'em the best, if we chatted for a bit, or simply fade out of existence otherwise.
Obviously that changes if it's a long-time partner getting back in touch with me, or wanting to know how things are going. That makes me pretty happy, the former doesn't.
And back to the topic at hand : I think I mostly ended things/ghosted when a starter was wildly different from what the person said they could put out OOC (e.g. being given a run-on behemoth of a starter filled to the brim with horrible grammar, spelling mistakes and odd punctuation/capitalization) or it tried to auto-pilot MC into a wish-fulfillment scenario.
I'm not that bothered by being left on read. If it happens I usually wait for a week or so, then wish 'em the best, if we chatted for a bit, or simply fade out of existence otherwise.